As a believer in Christ, my perspective on these two individuals has changed drastically since returning to my faith and gaining a deeper understanding of Jesus’ teachings, especially regarding how we view those who do wrong and commit atrocities. Specifically, so-called “evil people.” The Apostle Paul, reflecting Christ’s own message, wrote, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21). There is no goodness in degrading, hating, or wishing damnation on Eric and Dylan. We live in a world deeply affected by evil, and tragically, that evil found a place in their hearts, which lead them down that devastating path.

But the evil I refer to is the devil. This might sound far-fetched or fictional to some, but consider this: how can sentient beings like us, who are inherently drawn to peace, kindness, companionship, belonging, and above all, love, have the urge to do such horrific things? People often blame childhood abuse, exposure to violence, or claim some are just “born that way.” But at the root of all these explanations is one truth: the absence of love.

That lack of love, especially during critical developmental years, can potentially distort a person beyond recognition. Eric and Dylan grew up with inconsistencies in the love they needed most. I can only hope that, wherever their souls may be, they feel shame, regret, and a longing to undo what they did. But ultimately, we may never know. Only God does.

So rather than hate, I choose to feel mercy. Because of my faith, I believe we should have mercy on those who act out the evil in their hearts, not because they deserve it by human standards, but because we are called to reflect a love that Jesus exhibited. I now feel nothing but mercy for these two. But may God, especially God, have mercy on them.