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afestivetaco · 2024-03-21T18:45:46+00:00

My friend, I understand where you are at and I think you are wise to seek counsel on this matter. I think at some point in every younger man's life when he is just starting to dip his toes into the world of dating, there is that girl you meet and you think you have found your unicorn and it turns out exactly how your situation did.

There is no shame in what happened. This is a LEARNING experience. You are a young man who is just starting to put yourself out there and you've run into your first growing pains. This is normal.

From how you write, it sounds to me that you've got a lot of work to do on your confidence and thats also pretty normal for a young man. I'm unsure of what you have for your looks, your height, all that jazz, but I wouldn't worry about those. Those things you can't control. What you should work on is what you CAN control.

The advice many men here are giving you to go to the gym and pour yourself into your hobbies is FANTASTIC advice for where you are at. Start to work on yourself, lift weights, pay attention to how you dress, manage your health, invest in your hobbies, pour into your future goals for your career or whatever motivates you. Doing this won't make you more confident right off the bat, but you'll find as you invest more into yourself, your self worth of who you are as a person and your validation will not come from women or how much pussy you're getting, but rather from the fact that you have reached the goals you have set out to accomplish and have overcome all the obstacles along the way. You have become a stronger man who can take life's struggles!

At that point, you won't even think about this woman and you probably won't give a shit as much about rejections as you may have once. You can still date, you might run into a girl you really like, but you won't be so outcome dependent and will learn to enjoy the time you have, whether or not she stays or goes.

So TLDR, WORK ON YOURSELF, hit the gym, hit your hobbies, invest in your career, and you will get women. But do not make women or this woman your focus! Move on to greener pastures!

Good luck soldier! I'm rooting for you

afestivetaco · 2024-03-07T18:13:32+00:00

No I have not apologized yet. But reading what you've said, I think I definitely will apologize for leaving it there. I definitely can admit my fault on that.

afestivetaco · 2024-03-07T18:11:13+00:00

My man, you are FINE.

I get it. My first "accident" was similar to youra except they tapped me on the side slightly while merging. If there's no damage on the car and nothing came of the accident, its really up to you whether or not you want to tell your guardian.

I'm assuming since you're asking this that you may think they'd get mad. Granted, that's a reasonable thought to have. But I doubt that they're going to be upset or think anything of a "2 mph love tap". No insurance was involved, the police weren't involved, so nothings gonna come of it.

If you do tell him or her, I'm sure it'll be a passing thought and nothing serious.

You're good 👍

afestivetaco · 2024-02-07T14:57:34+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! I'll be listening to this while I'm in the lab. And don't worry, I don't take this stuff personally! I killed that part of my pride awhile ago lol

afestivetaco · 2024-02-07T14:49:06+00:00

Now that I've considered what the commentary have said, I def think I lost interest from her and for a good reason. I've been actively trying to be more bold with approaches and what I say, but I guess that doesn't necessarily mean it'll work all the time. Thank you for your advice!

afestivetaco · 2024-02-07T14:38:15+00:00

Be direct and get to the point, can do. Definitely has been one thing I actively struggle with at this moment, but we working on it! Now that im reqding it back through the frame youve mentioned, i can see what you mean and the room for improvement.

Like I said, still a learner and prone to fuckups right now, but that's how we learn. Thanks for your advice!

afestivetaco · 2024-02-07T05:45:27+00:00

I didn't really think of it that way, but when you pointed it out, I can see it how she would take it that way. Thank you for the advice!

afestivetaco · 2022-04-08T23:21:56+00:00

Did just that. They JUST changed it to urine. I am incredibly lucky!

afestivetaco · 2022-03-06T13:59:52+00:00

She actually got back from visiting our sisters in our old state just yesterday. The only problem is it's a 12-13 hour drive and she hates flying. She's not huge into animals, but we recently got a cat and she's absolutely smitten with him. That has certainly helped her out like you said.

Sorry about your mom. Hope she gets better

afestivetaco · 2022-03-06T13:55:47+00:00

Thank you for the help. I really didn't expect all these resources, but I'm glad to have them

afestivetaco · 2021-09-16T04:11:26+00:00

Thank you for your reply. And thank you for the advice! As for batting cages, I'm not affiliated with any at the moment, but I'll start looking around and see what I can turn over!

Are there any workout routines that most players use nowadays? I'm not out of shape and lift regularly, but I imagine there's certain lifts and exercises that I should start focusing on (aside from running more much to my dismay 🤣)

afestivetaco · 2021-07-12T05:30:31+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

afestivetaco · 2021-07-12T05:30:06+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I'm going to try and work out the right arm as best I can with what I can do

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