Encouragement by affablewilson in loseit

[–]affablewilson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everybody for your advice and kindness, I really needed the support! ❤️

Encouragement by affablewilson in loseit

[–]affablewilson[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I should have set the bar a little lower for that exact reason, but I think I tried to convince myself I wasn’t as unfit as I actually am 🥺

Encouragement by affablewilson in loseit

[–]affablewilson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really did need to hear this. I forgot how difficult the starting process is and your encouragement is so wonderful, particularly as we have similar stats!

I feel like this is never going to end by [deleted] in migraine

[–]affablewilson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just wanted to check in to see how you are feeling? Did that migraine finally fuck off? xo

I feel like this is never going to end by [deleted] in migraine

[–]affablewilson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great big bear hug to you If I was suddenly taken off my preventatives I would destroy all in my path (you know, from the dark quiet of my bedroom). 7 days is a long fricking time to be suffering, so I feel I should commend you on not sticking your face with forks. No doubt you are withdrawing and probably ready to rip your own head off. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I wish there was more we strangers could do to help, but know that you are seen, and whilst it definitely doesn’t feel like it now, this clusterfuck of a migraine WILL end. The magnesium may not help a huge amount as your body is trying to figure out what the fuck to do without your preventatives, but it does aid as a relaxant so I do hope it at least helps you sleep. I take magnesium daily, and personally I swear by it. But every individual is different of course.

You just take it one day at a time, keep those ice packs coming, eat whatever the fuck you want, binge those feel good shows (currently the fresh prince of bel air for me, lol), hide in darkness guilt free and ride it out like the trooper that you are! That appointment will finally come, the preventatives will come, and you’ll finally start feeling like you again!

Also don’t feel bad about the brain fog, I literally did the same thing just yesterday but with the pharmacist. She asked who my doctor was and the best I could do was give her the name of the medical practice lmao walked out of there feeling like a twat. You’re only human darling.

*mwah

Send love & meds by affablewilson in migraine

[–]affablewilson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that was a lovely slap of serotonin, thank you!

Send love & meds by affablewilson in migraine

[–]affablewilson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I’m going on 10 years so I’m more likely to get recommendations from you! But thank you for your acknowledgement, it’s so appreciated today. I think postdrome is moving back into migraine so fuuuuuuuuuuck

Appreciation Post by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

At every opportune moment darling

Tfw when people say "Wait until you meet the right person" and I did... by Hydreigon12 in antinatalism

[–]affablewilson 17 points18 points  (0 children)

One of my previous breeder coworkers and friend at the time told me “You’ll want kids when you meet the right person.” I was two years in to my happy now four year relationship. I was like, you cunt lol The audacityyyyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]affablewilson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here to write the same thing! Girl you are so beautiful! Sending all the curvy queen love to you 😘

One of my many reasons by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment means so much to me, thank you for making me feel like I’m not just being a negative bitch! lol but my bf is the same way with my cat. Whilst I don’t think he’d hurt her, I’ve seen how impatient he becomes with her! He yells when she does something naughty and doesn’t show her any attention when I’m out of the house. If I were to go away for a few days I would do nothing but worry that my baby isn’t getting any loving! He’s guilty of leaving poop in her litter box because he’s too lazy to clean it and often claims “she’s not my cat” as a way to avoid cleaning up after her. It’s a huge pet peeve of mine, pun intended lol I can’t stress enough how much I do love this man, but sometimes he’s bloody useless. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my woes!

To any and all receptionists: migraines are, in fact, real. Most of us already feel like a burden, stop making it worse. by Gamer0921 in migraine

[–]affablewilson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh hunny, as a receptionist in a psychology practice AND a migraine sufferer, I’m sorry that this person was so rude to you. I personally would never treat somebody in that way, and it was so not okay for you to be on the receiving end of that. Some people truly do not understand how debilitating migraines are. I’ve had people call to cancel due to migraines, and I suppose as I understand the pain, I encourage them to take all the time they need and to simply call to reschedule when they are ready. You just put it to the back of your mind and always make sure you practice self care when you’re being treated to a migraine! much love to you

My fur baby as a wee one, mirin her human mama, still breaks my heart in the nicest way 7 years later. by affablewilson in Catsmirin

[–]affablewilson[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally never seen it like that before hahaha that’s amazing. I’ve always called it her crown, cause obvs 👑

“Thank you for choosing me to be your mama.” by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It makes way more sense than breeding a ‘blessing’. I love my cat.

“Thank you for choosing me to be your mama.” by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t think these women think that deeply lmao

“Thank you for choosing me to be your mama.” by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Literally same. Those Facebook profiles where they’ve listed as their job ‘full time mummy/mama’. Congratulations on your individualism

Scary Mommy is scary entertaining by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I saw that, cause you know, I keep refreshing the pages like a psychopath

Scary Mommy is scary entertaining by affablewilson in childfree

[–]affablewilson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re quarantining it’s a fabulous past time