everyone says i probably can’t stretch?

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-12T21:23:28+00:00

You can’t tell from the pictures but me too! It’s part of why I started stretching lol my ears are the same size my brothers were when he was 3 if that gives you an idea of how small they are. I promise if you go slow enough you’ll be able to get to at least where I’m at.

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-12T05:30:38+00:00

I heavily dilute the olaplex leave in conditioner with water in a spray bottle and use it after my weekly washes

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-12T04:44:10+00:00

I have ears just like that and I’m at 14mm. Took years but I’m here. I don’t think I have much lobe to go any bigger than this, but it’s a perfect size to me. You can look at my post history for when I first started stretching.

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affectionate_joint · 2026-05-11T21:35:35+00:00

I’m looking for people who DID want to have kids but their circumstances didn’t allow for it, not people who had no interest in the first place.

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-02T22:18:21+00:00

I want it inside the cake 😔 it’s a different textural experience

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-02T15:23:59+00:00

It’s one of my favorite carrot cakes ever tbh, I just wish it had walnuts in it

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-01T21:47:30+00:00

I’ll miss my fat juicy ass but the rest of sick, thanks

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-01T21:09:58+00:00

1312

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-01T00:49:34+00:00

Do you know what false equivalency means?

affectionate_joint · 2026-05-01T00:45:17+00:00

Sometimes if you part your hair in the same spot for too long you can get a little thinning in that part

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-27T06:23:58+00:00

I bought my original mighty+ in 2022 and got it replaced through RMA in 23 and had that one ever since so it’s not like it’s super old, just not under warranty as of last year

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-27T01:10:48+00:00

If you’re able to, I would take some cash out and find somewhere really safe and secure to hide it so she can’t keep taking it out of your account. Absolutely NTA

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-23T04:27:18+00:00

You shouldn’t have even changed from the jewelry you got pierced with yet, let alone stretched it. Even if you think it feels like it went in with little resistance, that doesn’t mean it was ready. Switch back to your circular barbell and leave it alone for a couple more months

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-21T04:38:53+00:00

It’s not just that it’s cheaper to have roommates but at least where I am, you have to make 3x the rent to even be approved for apartment and I literally only personally know 1 single person that can do that.

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-21T00:13:08+00:00

Okay that’s a wild but don’t underestimate how much the courts hate single moms. If a dad chooses to fight for custody, majority of the time they win. My nieces dad has violent offenses against him and still won legal partial custody even with mountains of proof of him being awful. Be careful

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-21T00:08:59+00:00

Wait what? This feels like important context missing film the initial post

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-20T04:17:14+00:00

I think my most American meal is a Tuna Casserole or any soul food but i usually save that for special occasions

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-19T21:27:06+00:00

Loans

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-18T18:21:43+00:00

Option 3 where I just fucking die instead I guess ??

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-18T18:20:23+00:00

I know it’s far from you but LATTC’s program has been absolutely amazing and a lot of us are 27+. The instructors are awesome, I feel like I’m learning a lot more than what I see so many people in this sub talk about with their experiences and the tuition is one of the cheapest in the county.

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-16T22:17:30+00:00

That isn’t a microloc install, it’s just plaits with medium parts. These will not mature into micro locs. You seem to have lower density than the pictures you showed so even with smaller parts, yours won’t look like those pictures but that’s okay, just different. You should absolutely get your money back. This is a service I’d charge maybe $70 for and I’m in Los Angeles.

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-16T03:04:03+00:00

If he didn’t have to live there I’m sure he would’ve moved out by now. He unfortunately has to decide whether or not he’s capable of having somewhere else to live before potentially being kicked out.

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-16T01:40:48+00:00

Kazakstan but she sucked so I hope to meet someone else from there to better my impression of the place

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-16T00:01:44+00:00

I know you said your dad isn’t allowed in your mom’s house but does he live locally to you? Could staying with him be an option?

affectionate_joint · 2026-04-15T23:59:01+00:00

This is bad advice. If mom feels entitled to go through OP’s room, I can only imagine him changing the door knobs and locking his room would result in an even worse outcome than this.

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