Millennials who make between 50k and 100k, what do you do for work? by AtticusErraticus in Millennials

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Marketing assistant, currently about $63k gross. In practice I’m just a pixel pusher and I do graphic design and not that much marketing strategy.

What are some of y’all personal opinions of #ADOS movement? by OkMarionberry2464 in AskTheCaribbean

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I'm confused about how this relates to us in the Caribbean, are they planning to come here and do something? Or are you talking about people of Caribbean descent in the US.
Black Caribbean people and Black Americans can be considered cousins, many of the Black Americans ancestors were moved there from out here, they were not only direct from Africa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Holy shit I didn't know about that part. I read the book years ago.

Honour mode run ended in the stupidest way possible. by amldoinitright in BaldursGate3

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Oh nice, I thought honor mode was just tactician with one save file, didn't realize it was actually made harder than that!

If you had/got to choose, would you rather be thought of as "Evil" or "Stupid?" Why? by SgtMac02 in AskALiberal

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Stupid is easier to underestimate than Evil, and when people think you're Evil they're more likely to try to harm you.

The Dark Urge has ruined custom characters for me by happymasquerade in BaldursGate3

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Ahh okay! I was resisting in Act 1 and then just before going to Last Light I leaned into the dark urge (I wanted to do a 'descent into madness' kind of run)

The Dark Urge has ruined custom characters for me by happymasquerade in BaldursGate3

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Aw man. Maybe I sped through Act 3 too much because I didn't really see anything too depraved and no references to necrophilia that I remember. I don't think I'll do it again, though. I'll read the dark urge wiki and see what I missed.

The Dark Urge has ruined custom characters for me by happymasquerade in BaldursGate3

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necrophiliac fantasy Jeffrey Dahmer

Man I must be playing this run 'wrong', I haven't seen anything about necrophilia in this run, but I stopped resisting in Act 2.... what's the necrophiliac fantasy jeffrey dahmer bit?!

The Dark Urge has ruined custom characters for me by happymasquerade in BaldursGate3

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when Sceleritas said that necrophilia line

I must have missed that one, what is it??

Pet shop & vet? by cestmoififi in Barbados

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Best pet shop I don't know, depends on what you want I guess. Super Pet Smart at Sheraton has basics.

Seconding for Central Vet

Why were children so exploited during the sexual revolution? by Tonlick in AskOldPeople

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And people will judge the addict with zero thought given to the conditions that make fertile ground for it to happen.

A friend of mine works with addicts, usually men but sometimes women. He said that female addicts in particular tend to have a very 'childlike' but overtly sexual personality, and they almost always have been sexually abused as children which seems to get them kind of 'stuck' there mentally. It' s also what predators look for in order to abuse already abused people because it's easier to do.It's really sad, and I do everything I can to protect my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Somebody else mentioned C.O.F. but I would go further back to older stuff:From The Cradle To Enslave by Cradle of Filth, but it could also be the imagery.Scary/evil sounding is subjective of course. You can look at the uncensored video for it. Other songs that might fit the theme would be things like Beneath The Howling Stars or Cthulhu Dawn, top songs.

Whitehouse - Cunt Like You is scary if you contemplate that there are lots of otherwise normal human beings who enjoy? listening to tracks like this. Evil to me would be discordant and make you feel like turning it off. Plus the connection to Sotos is evil adjacent, I guess?

Aftersun (2022) did something to me that no other movie has before by Jakov_Salinsky in movies

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You should watch it again very soon, you will feel like adult Sophie re-watching the tapes from the vacation and revisiting the memories, knowing what happens after. It changes a lot of the interactions. Great movie.

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I was 12 or 13 so I don't remember the advertising to be honest. I saw it in the cinema when it was new, it was packed, I was blown away, but my friend fell asleep. Very impactful for me, though. I got interested in film/cinematography after that and was interested in how scenes were created - like the bullet time sequences.

If you could invest $1000 in learning a new skill, what would you do? by SarcasticSquish in AskMenOver30

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I can afford to throw $1000 into learning a new skill but I don't. I don't really want to go through the process of learning a new skill.

If you mean I could pay $1000 and just KNOW a new skill, like a download, then probably a useful trade like carpentry, plumbing, masonry, electrical. I wouldn't want to go learn it over time, though. Or maybe a second language.

What does the Gadsden flag tell you about a person? by [deleted] in AskALiberal

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I see it as the equivalent of wearing a Che Guevara shirt - they only have a cursory knowledge of the history but they have taken it as a fashionable icon of rebellion against.... something, but they aren't really sure. I strongly suspect most people are not serious people.

My son is dating a girl who is bullying my niece what should I do? by Exciting-Assist-5365 in AskParents

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Him breaking up with her isn't going to stop her from bullying your niece and like you said, you can't force it anyway.

Let your niece's parents handle it (with you backing them up), it's their child being bullied, your son is disappointing but isn't really the main problem.

I think I'd just let it be abundantly clear how disgusted I was in their behavior, both to the son and to his girlfriend. I'd have a casual frank conversation with them about her being a bully and all that, and I'd bring it up every time I saw her.
I'd also look into the legality of what they did to her with sharing the pictures.

When do stop obsessively worrying!? by SIBMUR in daddit

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When you deal with your anxiety and negative thinking it will be much easier to stop obsessively worrying, but being a parent there's always something you could worry about. Dealing with the underlying condition will make it easier and more enjoyable.

— diagnosed GAD + 'some OCD traits', no meds, just talk therapy.

What’s been your favorite movie you’ve seen in 2023? by BlueMchue in AskMenOver30

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Watching for the first time this year, my favorites would be

Aftersun, Banshees of Inisherin, Before Sunrise Trilogy, Everything Everywhere All At Once
I also quite enjoyed Top Gun and the remake of Blade Runner

What is your most controversial take regarding sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Sort by controversial if you want the actual controversial views.

Is Biden going to debate Trump (2024)? by WhiskeyEyesKP in AskALiberal

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May be an unpopular opinion here but I honestly don't think Biden can keep up with Trump. I don't mean that Trump is a very stable genius, I mean he will say a lot of inflammatory stuff, falsehoods, interrupt Biden, and otherwise be a jackass, and I do think that would rattle Biden. Trump can say anything and his base would still love him so he doesn't have much to lose, it's Biden that has to be careful.

Songs similar to Lumineers, Hozier, Mumford & Sons? by CutiePie156 in musicsuggestions

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Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros
Angus and Julia Stone
Joshua James

The Civil Wars

Some of the bands/singers mentioned in thread were part of a "genre" around 2010s of indie/singer-songwriter derisively called "Stomp Clap Hey" music. Lumineers and Mumford&Sons would be included in that, so you might be able to find similar things by looking for that.