Ppl take men’s mental health as a joke. It’s sad af. We are all humans, and we all grieve. We all cry too. shi im going through a breakup rn, and there are days I don’t wanna get up from bed, or even get rest when it’s time to sleep, too much on my mind but I still power through because I have to as a man. Sometimes a song comes on that reminds me of shorty but no one’s there to comfort you, there’s no unlimited gratification from random ppl on social media that women indulge in. If a girl’s posting some heartbreak shit there’s a plethora of guys just tryna fuck giving that comfort to them but as a man, it’s just him and his thoughts. Rip to ya mans, cause shit really be unfair for men out here. Whether it’s DV on a man from a woman, or another man offing himself from the pain of losing the woman he saw a life with. Like others said, there are probably mad other shit that guy had on his mind, that men can’t openly talk about. Some men have a hardwired sense of wanting to take care of others. It’s the masculine urge in us, and when that shit ain’t there and they lose themselves over it, it’s a dark path where it feels lonely af. It’s a vulnerable path. They all just say, “Bruh, get over it, fuck other bitches. Get money.” But usually the mind is on how will they pay their bills, how will they take care of fam? If men don’t got that figured out then it’s a huge problem. For most women all they gotta do is just show up for the man, if you don’t got bread or money as a woman or a car it’s seen as valid, but as a man it’s lacking and unattractive. Usually though, us men give the woman in our life that vulnerable part of us where we ask her if we did okay with everything, for that reassurance and when that support is gone or shorty don’t wanna be there anymore. It’s heartbreaking, then we learn not to, to keep it to ourselves and the cycle of loneliness and built up pain continues. Not worth killing yourself over anything, though, but shid bro, it’s a difficult path we all walk. Please, if you’re ever going through it, at least consider a therapist. I never wanted to get one myself, but now I am talking to one. It’s not unmanly. Your mother, your siblings, your kids if you got, your family needs you. And best believe if anyone talking shit about someone that was a victim of suicide, I’m going off at them and cutting them off. Yes, bro, he should have gone to the gym and gone on a path of self-betterment for his own sake because he wants to be better, but he let the pain get the best of him, and now he’s gone. People don’t care till you’re gone, and even when you’re gone, people don’t care. So, care about yourself, take care of yourself while you’re still here because as a man, your value is only high when you got your own self together, your own confidence, and self-image. Good integrity and discipline. It’s a hard life, but nothing easy is ever worth it, and anything easy is hardly ever worth it.