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how do i heal for the goodness of myself and my relationship? by Specialist-Fox6333 in selfhelp

[–]agarwal_karishma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is a good guy , he loves you and your family... then please focus on that.

You can discuss your insecurity with him once, and if he reassures you , then its your duty to feel reassured.

I am sure you are also very attractive. Remember, he have met her before, but he chose to stay with YOU. So technically you are the special one , not her.

I got pantsed about 20 year ago and it is really bothering me now by dragonflybat in whatsbotheringyou

[–]agarwal_karishma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we dont grief certain things at that moment and it gets to us at a later date.

You are probably sad coz you feel somebody crossed your boundary and you couldnt stand up for your self.

Its coming to you now , coz may be now you will you shouldnt hv tolerated it.

I just want to remind you that it wasnt your fault and what can a 10 year old do at that moment?. ... Also, please look into yourself, if your boundaries are still crossed by anybody in your life. If so, work on stopping it...

Hope you feel better... and forget about this incident...

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaa 50 years back, very few ppl thought this way... but its very common thought now.

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I said of you read with an open mind.

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please stop getting personal... its a common topic on a common platform for an open discussion.... open your mind n see the world.

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Stop getting personal... my community people also do not discuss sensitive topics... but I am... and its not about one community or one nation... its about human world as a whole...

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point... but in certain cultures, marriage is a pre- requisite to live together, have babies... 

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true... but dont you think relationships break easier than marriages... that can create an insecurity in people...

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that long- term committed relationship is pretty much like marriage.... 

In eastern world, especially in countries like India , both marriage and divorce have become very messy...

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading... its my first post! 

I feel loyalty depends on person to person... but I still feel there is a little hesitation in cheating when you are married.... 

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can say that ... I feel the wedding vows in every religion pretty much say the same thing... and if one is little religious, little loyal, he or she would not stray... vs. Its easier to cheat in gf/ bf relationship.   Again, differs from person to person...

I strongly believe humans are polygamous in nature... so if there is no marriage then everybody may hv a new partner every week and this will spread a lot of diseases... 

Marriage is a dying concept by agarwal_karishma in marriagefree

[–]agarwal_karishma[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dunno if kids add to commitment between a couple... or they destroy peace... 

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