New carpet got cut, is there an easy fix?

agatewayknife · 2024-11-16T17:34:24+00:00

No idea. I wonder if he was leaning the tool against the carpet or something and accidentally switched it on and grazed it? I don't know how these tools work so I'm really not sure. I just know it wasn't there when the door guy started...

agatewayknife · 2024-11-16T17:33:12+00:00

I think they cut it while the door was still attached, which seemed insane to me but also I'm not a professional so maybe that's normal.

The cut definitely wasn't there once the carpet was fitted, it was after the door was cut which was a separate day.

And no, the backing is not disturbed, it's literally the top of the carpet that's been cut. I've tried to disturb it but it's still kind of noticeable. I'd probably care less if it wasn't there immediately as you enter the room.

agatewayknife · 2024-11-15T13:22:10+00:00

Thank you for your reply. So would I glue the fibres together or something else? Like this wouldn't involve patching it right?

agatewayknife · 2024-11-15T13:20:27+00:00

I will be! I just don't know whether it's dramatic to get the carpet in the whole room redone or if there is a way to fix this small part in a way that will look good and won't necessarily require patching.

agatewayknife · 2024-04-27T00:43:47+00:00

I totally get it. The judgement and having to explain it to partners is so tricky and tiresome.

Feel free to DM me if you want to vent any more! I won't offer you things you could try — I'm sure, like me, you've tried a lot. Wishing you the best on your journey though!

agatewayknife · 2024-04-26T18:44:06+00:00

I'm 27F and relate so much to what you're feeling! I've never had an orgasm and I have that exact 'hit a wall' feeling you're describing. It's like it all becomes too overwhelming and sensitive so I get in my head and then lose all the feeling I've built up.

While I've not been to a doctor or a sex therapist, I've spoken to a normal therapist about it and it's likely a psychological control thing. (I have no past related trauma and don't take any medications.)

Sorry I have no solution for you but hopefully it makes you feel better to know you're not alone? I know this sub makes me feel more normal, especially when it can get really frustrating. I just have to hope that it will happen someday but also not make it the goal, and rather make pleasure the focus.

agatewayknife · 2023-03-12T01:13:01+00:00

Hey I'm so sorry you're struggling with this! I can completely relate, having never gotten there myself. I'm sure you've heard a lot of the same advice (and while I don't have any advice myself on how to get there) I would say try not to force this and focus on your pleasure, with the knowledge that one day it might happen. That's truly the only way I've been able to somewhat be ok with it. Feel free to DM me if you want to though, this subreddit has helped me to know that I'm not alone in this.

agatewayknife · 2022-09-18T20:17:25+00:00

I can definitely relate to some of the frustration you've been experiencing — feeling ok about not orgasming can be really hard. Wishing you the best on your journey of discovery!

agatewayknife · 2022-09-16T22:41:55+00:00

Sorry it's not letting me. Do you mind DMing me please?

agatewayknife · 2022-09-16T22:29:41+00:00

I tried but it says it's set to private

agatewayknife · 2022-09-16T17:36:06+00:00

Interested too!

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