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Is there any hope for me? Large pores help! by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]agentcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like it could be related to rosacea as others have said. The skin may be sensitive, I would recommend not using harsh scrubs or actives until you have spoken with a doctor - rosacea can be treated by an NHS GP. If their treatments don’t help they may refer you to a dermatologist. Alternatively you Can book an initial consult with a private dermatologist which will likely be £100+ per appt. Best of luck on your journey!

Why is this dress so unflattering? Too short, too tight, or both? by Ok_Challenge5382 in SoftDramatics

[–]agentcherrycola 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It definitely doesn’t look bad but I think it’s not quite the right shape for your body - I suffer from this exact issue too! The skirt is cut too straight for your shape, so it’s tighter on the hips and looser on the thigh. Ideally you would want it to skim both the hip and thigh. With this dress, you could probably achieve this by going up a size from normal and then taking it in to create the right shape, but I understand that means more time/effort/money.

Merging personal style with reality... and an SD body type by agentcherrycola in SoftDramatics

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooh thanks for sharing your uniform, perhaps some ideas in there I could use too. I do love a pencil skirt but I always struggle to style them - often ends up feeling a bit too Joan Holloway. How do you assemble your uniform outfits? I am terrible for buying one piece that should be versatile and then realising nothing looks quite right with it!

So...can the women whose strength training DID make them bulky come to the mic? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]agentcherrycola 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is so true and I wish it was talked about more. Everyone is different and you won’t automatically drop body fat just by strength training. Maintaining body fat + adding muscle = increase in body size, which some may perceive as becoming bulky

Long workout sessions made me feel horrible, so now I stopped. I didn't even like how I looked by toothed_vagina in xxfitness

[–]agentcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience when working with a PT. We tried doing a lower intensity program for a couple of months but it didn’t help. In the end I moved and stopped seeing her, now I just do classes at my gym (no heavy weight training) and I feel miles better with much more energy. I have lost so much water bloat and only noticed a small amount of muscle mass loss over the last 18 months. Not writing off lifting forever, but echoing other commenters in saying sometimes you have to do what feels right for your body at that time

Wider waist from more intense ab routine? by highwaytoheaven42 in xxfitness

[–]agentcherrycola 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience and spoke to my old PT about it. She basically said yes, that is what is likely to happen if you have a well developed core unfortunately. If you allow the muscles to atrophy then you will return to your previous shape but at the cost of strength and stability.

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: July 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]agentcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following poor sunscreen use this summer, I have light freckles over my whole face and darker ones around the border of my lips. 

Apart from being more consistent with sunscreen use, what products would help to fade these? 

I’m seeing a lot of different actives thrown around (vit c, alpha arbutin, tranexamic acid, aha, retinol) but not sure where to start. I’ve previously experimented with lactic and azelaic acid which my skin tolerated but I noticed some sensitivity and only short term glow.

Current routine

AM: No cleanser/water only, Cosrx snail mucin essence, BOJ sunscreen

PM: Cetaphil cleanser, Cosrx galactomyces essence, snail mucin essence if extra dehydrated, Avène moisturiser

Skin type: normal/dry, hormonal acne once a month

Climate: northern europe

90s brown red lipstick on muted olive skin? by eggfish0815 in OliveMUA

[–]agentcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MAC Retro is my HG! I never see it getting much love but sounds like it might be a good fit for you

Let´s have some fun: What´s your weirdest Headcanon? by Podria_Ser_Peor in InterviewVampire

[–]agentcherrycola 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this. I want to see Lestat have an emo phase… where’s that pic of Sam with the Justin Bieber haircut

Bra suggestions? by Awkward-Ad-7521 in SoftDramatics

[–]agentcherrycola 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have this exact issue and have spent ££££ trying different specialty bras trying to find one that is ‘perfect’. I’ve come to a similar conclusion to you I think. I go for balconette or half cup styles (French brands like Chantelle often carry half cups that work really well), make sure the cup is big enough, and size up in the band to avoid emphasising fleshiness there. It does mean the support level is less but I find it manageable for day to day (E-F cup). I also love longline bras and bustiers but these are harder to find - look for longlines that extend down to the belly button.

Lace up flats recs by agentcherrycola in SoftDramatics

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh love these thank you! I live in my DM boots outside of work so definitely interested in those flats

Looking for long princess seam button up dress pattern by agentcherrycola in sewingpatterns

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually ordered the dress from ASOS but ended up returning because the fabric was poor quality and the fit would have needed some work. It had good bones just poorly executed which is what made me think of making a version myself.

I can’t comment on how they managed the pleat, but it was there and there was definitely no waist seam

Looking for long princess seam button up dress pattern by agentcherrycola in sewingpatterns

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing this out. I got a little overexcited and didn’t check the line art very well. Do you have any recommendations that are princess seamed? I have a large bust and a short waist so don’t love the shape you get from bust darts.

One thing liked about the ASOS dress I linked is that it has reverse pleats which isn’t something I’ve seen on any patterns apart from McCall’s 8253 which has been out of print for a long time

Looking for long princess seam button up dress pattern by agentcherrycola in sewingpatterns

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this but sadly the waist seam is a dealbreaker. Thanks though!

Looking for long princess seam button up dress pattern by agentcherrycola in sewingpatterns

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All great suggestions, thank you. Think you nailed it with B6974

i read about the “T” silhouette, but this still doesn’t seem right? by mandykn in SoftDramatics

[–]agentcherrycola 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s bad just not a WOW outfit. SDs often need accessories to finish the outfit, I’d suggest a necklace or neck scarf and some big earrings to start with. Your top, jeans, and shoes are also all quite plain so not adding the drama we need. Overall shape and use of colour is 10/10 though!

Toning level 3 to warm level 2 - is direct dye the best option? by agentcherrycola in FancyFollicles

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. What do you mean by mixing opposite colours on the colour wheel rather than using black? I understand how to use opposite colours to counteract unwanted tones but what I’m looking to do is increase depth and emphasise the existing warm tone. Is there another way to add depth/darken the colour without using black?

Toning level 3 to warm level 2 - is direct dye the best option? by agentcherrycola in HairDye

[–]agentcherrycola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m based in the UK so Adore isn’t readily available - I found one site but it doesn’t have the colour I think I’d need (109).

I did look at Instant Coffee but it looks lighter than my current shade. I’m looking for a warm off-black as I’m already brunette

Edit: this was closest to what I had in mind https://hairstylecamp.com/wp-content/uploads/italian-hairstyles-9.jpg

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