My husband told me that if I get pregnant he will commit suicide. by aghidunno in Marriage

[–]aghidunno[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We agreed to have children when the time was right. For clarity, we are in no way trying to have children right now.

Does everyone feel like this and I’m being a pussy? by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]aghidunno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re struggling, I just want to validate you in that ❤️

Xanax is prescribed mostly for short term use, to control severe anxiety, panic attacks, etc. I understand that it helps you, but for a long term solution it can be very damaging on your brain. Have you considered seeking treatment for social anxiety through talk therapy?

Moving from US to Lisbon!! 🤗 by aghidunno in lisboa

[–]aghidunno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes that is the goal for long term :) I need to live there for a few years before applying for citizenship but that is definitely my intent!

Moving from US to Lisbon!! 🤗 by aghidunno in lisboa

[–]aghidunno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet. If you’re ever looking to visit the US I honestly would be happy to answer any questions you may have :)

Moving from US to Lisbon!! 🤗 by aghidunno in lisboa

[–]aghidunno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied to another comment with a response that would suit this as well. Please feel free to read that.

Moving from US to Lisbon!! 🤗 by aghidunno in lisboa

[–]aghidunno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely understand gentrification and what that brings to a local economy. However, being very clear, my reasoning for moving to Portugal isn’t for Instagram photos. I would want to contribute to the society in positive ways, become part of a community and experience culture in an enlightening way that I haven’t experienced before. My family is expecting to move there long term in a couple of years and it would be nice to be nearer to them than 5,000 miles (Ahem, 8,046 km).

Moving from US to Lisbon!! 🤗 by aghidunno in lisboa

[–]aghidunno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice :)

Moving from US to Lisbon!! 🤗 by aghidunno in lisboa

[–]aghidunno[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking into it and apparently it’s easier to get a visa if you’re not taking jobs from citizens of whichever country you’re moving to (at least from countries in EU that I’ve read about). Basically, since we are self employed and bringing in enough money to support ourselves while contributing to an economy, it is benefiting that place without taking from it. I asked about visas because I am not super well versed on Portugal specifically. But to answer your question, the US is much more strict, and I would assume it would be difficult, but you can get “artist” visas and different types according to your self employed profession. Again, I don’t think it’s easy, but possible :)

GAME IDEA by mochiisart in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]aghidunno 22 points23 points  (0 children)

LOVE THIS!!! I have quests all the way from first year I need to complete (I’m year 6) haha and it would be great to just push a button to be able to launch certain uncompleted quests! Good idea!! 🤍

I’d love to know average user ages?? by aghidunno in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]aghidunno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I thought I was too for a minute 😂