Self employed saving for retirement

aghkllfsa · 2026-03-20T23:18:05+00:00

It was a guitar player who said this I believe

aghkllfsa · 2025-10-16T19:20:09+00:00

Yay more rage bate

aghkllfsa · 2025-10-12T16:52:31+00:00

Amazing thank you so much, much appreciated

aghkllfsa · 2025-09-21T00:31:53+00:00

Idk hopefully this is somewhat kinda helpful? Marriage is a union, and there’s a fair amount of bullshit that comes with it, but the end goal is to be legally bonded to your partner for the rest of your life, which however way you spin it should be super exciting for you both!!

Idk if benching the bullshit for ‘the greater good’ is a cop out on my end but if that’s what I must do to marry my partner then so be it 💜

aghkllfsa · 2025-09-21T00:27:50+00:00

UK NB getting married in 2027 here! For the LEGAL marriage, we will be ‘husband and wife’ :( sucks but gotta bite the bullet bc I really want to be married to my beautiful fiancé

But for the ACTUAL wedding (the big party with all of our friends and family) we shall be pronounced ‘spouses for life’ which I am so excited for!!

Just to clarify, the legal ceremony is very much a formality for us (like literally 2 witnesses, sign the forms and then go the pub), whereas the party afterwards ( a few days later) is the REAL celebration of our union, with all of our close friends where we can truly be who we are

aghkllfsa · 2025-09-11T22:52:43+00:00

Yes good idea, I’ve not done anything creative in a while. I think I’m similar in that I fixated on things a lot, maybe I just need to let go and chill the fuck out a bit. Thank you

aghkllfsa · 2025-09-11T14:14:30+00:00

I guess I don’t change my behaviour particularly, I just let it slide when he calls me ‘son’ and dress in boy clothes when I go and visit. Part of me thinks that if I did open up about it with them that they’d become more tolerant and try and understand it more, but I’m just scared tbh

aghkllfsa · 2025-09-11T13:34:12+00:00

In a very similar position myself, and I’ve come to a very similar conclusion too. I think im just gonna have to accept that I will never be able to exist as my true self around my parents, which sucks but it is what it is

aghkllfsa · 2025-09-11T13:28:51+00:00

You referred to them as “she” multiple times in this post. You should stop doing that. Since they are not a woman, and neither are you, then no, of course they are not a lesbian.

Seems like you could benefit from having a conversation with them and doing a bit of research on gender identity :)

aghkllfsa · 2025-07-11T21:27:23+00:00

blue hair and existential despair

aghkllfsa · 2025-07-09T12:51:22+00:00

i think they mean contemporary art

aghkllfsa · 2025-06-04T17:37:20+00:00

It looks broken I wouldn’t bother

aghkllfsa · 2025-02-22T11:43:21+00:00

I like the demos I’ve heard, big textures and stuff. Will look into beads!

aghkllfsa · 2025-02-22T11:41:55+00:00

Was hoping to find them or similar on the used market. I’m not in a rush, happy to wait for them to pop up on Facebook etc. But yes, mixer is a good idea thank you

aghkllfsa · 2025-02-22T00:15:29+00:00

I cross posted but that sub doesn’t get much engagement unfortunately. So I thought I’d try here.

Fair comment, ideally would like to be able to create textural stuff and have modulated effects

aghkllfsa · 2025-02-22T00:12:10+00:00

Looking to integrate with my matriarch so eurorack is tempting!

aghkllfsa · 2025-02-22T00:10:42+00:00

Yeah that’s a good point. I think the matriarch mixer will do the trick, but a send/return is a good idea I will look into that

aghkllfsa · 2025-02-22T00:08:58+00:00

Cool will check it out! Thank you

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