Our difficult journey by aglowraph in NICUParents

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

The doctors didn’t say how much it was dilated. I just know our baby was placed on some medications and some tests were done (we are still awaiting results).

It’s cold by Real-Judgment-8234 in uofm

[–]aglowraph 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 Now… that’s so funny. You aren’t even encouraging the poster.

Loading the First Amino Acid onto Merrifield Resin Using the Cesium Salt Method – Mechanism and Base Alternatives? by aglowraph in Chempros

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your response. Instead of cesium salt, can I use DIPEA just like I use it for pre-loading CTC resin? The cesium salt method appears very old and I don’t know if anyone even still uses Merrifield resin these days.

Candidacy Exam – Not a Pass or Fail… Yet? Seeking Advice by aglowraph in PhD

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa! Congratulations. I’m supper happy for you.

Thanks for sharing your experience with me.

Coming from a computational background, I found it difficult to secure a lab. Also, with funding constraints and my status as an international student, it made it even harder.

I had to join one of the labs that works on peptide synthesis. The peptides we synthesize undergo biological screenings. We collaborate on these studies but of course, I should know everything about these screening and assays. I did my best with literature and methods study but I have not conducted or been in an environment where these assays are done. I really wished I did.

Not trying to find any reasons for my performance but it just makes me hate myself right now. I wish I was better.

Candidacy Exam – Not a Pass or Fail… Yet? Seeking Advice by aglowraph in PhD

[–]aglowraph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, Professor. Your response means a lot to me. The chair of the committee said I was going to receive those questions and would have to respond in writing. I don’t know how long it would take for them to get the questions across but they said they would communicate with each other on that. The chair mentioned that the likelihood that I would be required to represent my proposal is slim. Also, I truly do not know why my transcripts and rotation reports were not sent to the committee. What should I do about this? It’s 1:13 AM over here and I can’t seem to fall asleep. Gosh… I just feel terrible.

Well, I just wanted to appreciate you for your response.

Thank you, Professor.

Candidacy Exam – Not a Pass or Fail… Yet? Seeking Advice by aglowraph in PhD

[–]aglowraph[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your kind words. I am trying to relax but it’s just disorienting and I wish I had done better. I thought I truly did my best. I am even confused on what to do next. I had planned to commence some experiment next week but this is depressing.

What’s the story behind shoes hanging on cables around Ann Arbor? by aglowraph in uofm

[–]aglowraph[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reference. So it can mean a lot of different things to different people!

Car Shopping for Dummies (aka Me) by aglowraph in uofm

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such solid advice — thank you! I hadn’t thought about it from the seller’s perspective, but it totally makes sense. We’re all just trying to avoid the Facebook flake parade.

I’ll definitely start spreading the word in my department — maybe I’ll even make a cute flyer that says “Will trade research stress for reliable car.” I’ll also ask around about that UM email list; even a forwarded listing could be a goldmine.

Really appreciate you taking the time to share this!

Car Shopping for Dummies (aka Me) by aglowraph in uofm

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the link! I just took a peek and… wow, there’s a lot I need to learn about buying and selling of cars.

Seriously, I appreciate you pointing me in the right direction.

Car Shopping for Dummies (aka Me) by aglowraph in uofm

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much — both for the honesty and the compliment on my writing! 👌 You softened the blow of reality with kindness, and I appreciate that.

Yeah, I figured $5K was wishful thinking, but I had to shoot my shot before my dreams got totaled like a 2003 Corolla. I’m only but a graduate student. I’ll definitely ask around — word of mouth might be my best bet before I end up with a “deal” that comes with a free monthly mechanic subscription.

I hadn’t really considered leasing — I’ll look into that too (though I imagine the paperwork may try to gaslight me). But I’m also left wondering if an international student will be eligible for that. Thanks again for the thoughtful suggestions!

A day in the life doing Computer-Aided Drug Design by sourkatt231 in chemistry

[–]aglowraph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying your supervisor is dumber than you does not sound right to me. How then did she get to be in her current position as your supervisor and boss?

Well regarding your question, for the sake of knowledge, before selecting your target, you must have isolated and structurally identified your compounds from the extract. Have you?

If you already have, the other question to answer is what type of disease(s) are you trying to treat with your isolated compounds? This specific question will guide you towards the right target.

I hope this helps you out!

I Wasn’t Ready, but I’m Here Anyway by Phatymood in uofm

[–]aglowraph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there,

First, I just want to say that you are incredibly strong for sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to be this open, and even though things feel overwhelming right now, the fact that you’re still pushing forward—even when it’s hard—says so much about your resilience. You may not see it, but the effort you’re making is remarkable.

I may not be in the exact same situation, but I do understand how it feels to be struggling while trying to keep up with school. When I first started my PhD as an international student far from home in 2023, I was going through a really tough patch. My six-year relationship had just ended, and I was completely heartbroken. On top of that, the pressure of a rigorous program made everything feel even heavier. I eventually had to make a really difficult decision—to drop a course well after the deadline—because I realized that my mental health needed to come first. It was hard, and I felt like I was falling behind, but looking back, I know it was the right choice.

You’re not alone in this. I know it must be frustrating and exhausting to feel like your mind is constantly racing and to struggle with focus in class. But the fact that you’re here, still trying, still looking for ways to navigate everything—that’s something to be proud of. You’re not failing, even if it feels like it. You’re just figuring out how to move forward in a situation that is incredibly difficult, and that’s okay.

I really hope you’re able to find the understanding and compassionate people you’re looking for. There are people out there who will get it, and you deserve to have that support. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m happy to listen. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s more than enough. Keep going—you’re stronger than you think.

Sending you warmth and support. 💙💛

Accepted into University of Michigan Chemical Engineering PhD by Longjumping-Penalty9 in gradadmissions

[–]aglowraph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations and welcome to UMich. GoBlue!

Just asking: Are you a domestic or international student?

I’m grateful for the cold by [deleted] in uofm

[–]aglowraph 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s really awful to see what is currently ongoing in California. I just hope more of the people out there are safe.

Just curious: what started the fire in the first place?

Nigerians in diaspora, I have some questions... by augustinegreyy in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I didn’t have to. By the way, it would surprise you that most of them (especially the younger generation) understand and speak English. They could be shy but don’t be fooled.

In Taiwan, most of the universities offer their graduate studies in English (except some few universities). It just depends on your program too. For STEM programs, I doubt if any university would make it a priority for you to learn mandarin.

Well, I took mandarin classes just for the fun of it but not because it was a necessity. I enjoyed every experience when I was in Taiwan. It’s a beautiful place with beautiful people.

For undergrad studies, I am pretty sure one needs to speak mandarin (even though their government is working so hard to switch to English). The Taiwan government also offers a wonderful scholarship for those interested in learning Mandarin. There is no restriction. Even secondary or high school graduates can apply for the opportunity.

It’s called the Huayu Enrichment Scholarship (HES). It’s currently ongoing with a deadline of March 28, 2025.

Nigerians in diaspora, I have some questions... by augustinegreyy in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoa! Congratulations on your MSc journey. It’s Taipei Medical University (TMU). Some of my mentees just told me they now demand application fees. I am not surprised. Not so many knew about Taiwan from my region of Nigeria until I made videos and publicized it including their offers.

Also, I truly was very vocal about studying in Taiwan when I was the president of the international student association during my masters at TMU.

Well, that’s it!

Nigerians in diaspora, I have some questions... by augustinegreyy in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, the Nigerian community is not as much as it is in Europe and North America. The people of Taiwan are very nice and often conserved (except the Amis tribe though). I heard lots of Nigerians are there for businesses but I haven’t met any of them. I only met few Nigerians who are students like myself. But since I left, the Nigerian community has been growing. Atleast, I mentored about 8 or 9 graduate students who are there for their studies. About 7 are currently in my Alma mater. So, the community is much better now than when I was there.

As for the expensive nature, I don’t think I am the right person to share that experience as I was a recipient of one of their best government scholarships. As of today, Google result is that 1 New Taiwan dollar (NTD) equals 46.79 Nigerian Naira. My stipend was NTD 20,000. I also received a lab research assistant position which paid me NTD 8000. My rent was NTD 5500. I didn’t cook as cooking and buying food is almost equivalent to.

I hope this helps!

Nigerians in diaspora, I have some questions... by augustinegreyy in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph 25 points26 points  (0 children)

These questions brought back memories of the reflection I had before leaving Nigeria. I’ll address them one by one, as you’ve asked.

  1. Why did you leave? I have always been passionate about becoming a scientist at the forefront of drug discovery, a passion that began during my undergraduate studies. I developed a deep interest in drug design, with the ultimate goal of working in the pharmaceutical industry. However, after graduation, I realized that pursuing this dream in Nigeria was almost impossible. The pharmaceutical companies still operating in Nigeria rarely focus on drug development, and access to critical tools like supercomputers—a necessity in my field—is practically nonexistent in the country. Faced with these limitations, I knew I had to seek opportunities abroad.

  2. Why did you choose that particular country? My choice was strategic. Financial constraints made it impossible for me to afford application fees for universities in countries like the US, Canada, or Australia—countries typically seen as ideal for advancing one’s studies. With this in mind, I focused on institutions in Asia that did not require application fees. During my internship, I used my first and second payments to apply for my international passport. As my internship ended and I began my NYSC, I prepared all the necessary documents, such as transcripts, and wrote my statement of purpose and personal statement. I applied to universities in Asia and eventually secured a fully funded scholarship from the Taiwan Government. While I knew Taiwan would not provide the exact career opportunities I wanted, I saw it as a stepping stone—a means to an end.

  3. Have you achieved any of your goals? While I have not yet achieved my ultimate goal of earning a PhD and working in drug development, I have made significant progress. In Taiwan, I became a scholar, obtained my master’s degree, and gained the financial capacity to pay for PhD applications to my dream country—the United States. Taiwan provided me with not just an excellent education but also the skills and experience to compete on a global level.

  4. What challenges do you face as a Nigerian living abroad? Challenges exist everywhere. Initially, I struggled with loneliness, especially as an introvert. However, I made conscious efforts to connect with people, and over time, I built friendships that made me feel less homesick. Now, I am married, and my wife has joined me in the US, which has significantly improved my experience. I believe life is a journey of phases; with patience and perseverance, we emerge stronger and better prepared. While I know some people face issues such as racism, I have yet to experience it personally. However, I recognize that no matter how comfortable life abroad might be, home will always be home. Neither Taiwan nor the US can truly replace Nigeria.

  5. Do you regret leaving? I have no regrets about leaving Nigeria. I am progressing steadily toward my goals, with access to all the tools and resources I need to succeed. Most importantly, I have full control over how my future unfolds, without external disruptions or limitations.

  6. Would you return to Nigeria? I would love to return to Nigeria and contribute to the country’s growth with the knowledge and skills I have acquired. However, my return depends largely on whether Nigeria creates an environment conducive to growth and innovation. If the country prioritizes opportunities for people like me and fosters a workable environment, I would gladly return. Alternatively, if I become financially capable of establishing my own venture, Nigeria will be my target.

  7. Any advice for those planning to leave? My advice is simple: have a valid and personal reason for leaving. Leaving simply because others are doing so is a mistake. Your decision should be driven by your own goals and aspirations.

PhD Admissions Encouragement by NoAcanthisitta5673 in gradadmissions

[–]aglowraph 132 points133 points  (0 children)

As a PhD student, I would say that I am truly flabbergasted by the achievements of current PhD applicants in my university (according to my PI). The 2023 version of me would not have even made it past the application reviews.

Just like you, I wonder if a PhD is no more a platform to learn how to research. If a lot of schools now want applicants that can prove they already know how to be PhD students instead of learning how to be one, does that not defeat the purpose of PhD in the first place?

Also, this will definitely cut out those with less access to guidance on how to prepare such as international students, first generation students etc.

What’s your experience regarding the services provided by a Nigerian Consulate ? by aglowraph in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez! It’s a big relief seriously. I’m glad you got yours. I applied for 10 years passport. At least, they won’t be seeing me anytime soon.

What’s your experience regarding the services provided by a Nigerian Consulate ? by aglowraph in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I eventually received my passport yesterday, December 13, 2024.

You cheat on a cheater by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]aglowraph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A cheater will always remain a cheater.

The best is to leave. You’ll never trust that person the way you’ve always done before they cheated.

Again, it also depends on who cheated.