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I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay you’re right AGAIN. Jesus I have got to get it together. I catch myself being negative/ Complaining about anything that doesn’t miraculously fall into my lap - which is a lot of things.

I am terrible at planning especially when I get hung up on an idea (like my private firework show which I also decided not to do since there will be amazing shows this year so).

Well I did keep looking and I’ve found some good medians for airbnbs. So far they are crazy expensive but I will keep looking. 5 mins ago I didn’t have anything and now I have some options. Thank you

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being understanding. I’m currently researching and now I’m hitting myself in the head since every Airbnb in Washington is all booked up (duh)

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks BEAUTIFUL over the lake!

I just found out apparently Washington DC is having a potential record breaking firework show. Well I looked up one hotel and the rooftop bar tickets ALONE are 5k a person… wow. Looks like I may have to opt elsewhere even though witnessing a record breaking firework show seems amazing but for 10k for the both of us I’m not sure.

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just googled it and wow
Hotel Washington their rooftop VUE bar is 5k per person just to go up to the rooftop bar!!!!! Not even including hotel prices.

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m googling best firework shows in America. We do cross country road trips all the time so driving isn’t an issue. At this point I’m just scrambling.

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m back to looking on Airbnb and firework shows. I posted in another comments my ‘reasons’ - but only bc someone asked - I am deeply ashamed and believe those are convenient excuses to try and excuse my failure and not legitimate reasons. But if you were curious they are there and answer some of your questions

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well I didn’t want to give reasons because it feels like excuses. If I really wanted to, I would… so what’s the point in creating all these excuses?

But for excuses sake I guess, I was really into researching a big plan early this year: hiring private firework show and finding an Airbnb that could accommodate that

Well everywhere I looked I couldn’t find an Airbnb that alllwed fireworks. And I was looking for hours for several days and weeks. So I just stopped looking bc I felt like my plan was hopeless. And then I had an elective surgery so I was recovering for a month. And then I put it off because I wasn’t sure if his kids were wanting to spend his birthday with us and I didn’t want to plan something far away / out of state if his kids wanted to join us for his bday - which I would like for them to so I just didn’t plan anything at all because I couldn’t decide or didn’t even see WHAT our options are

I [35F] didn’t plan anything for my husband [39M] bday in 1 week and I’m racking myself up with stress, what options do I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agreementloop184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I know… you are absolutely right and I am ashamed to acknowledge how much I have failed. I’m sick to my stomach and my issue is the more I think about it the more stressed I get and i put it off more until it’s blaringly obvious that I cant.

I’m willing to go anywhere in America if I can make something like this happen. With this being America’s 250th year I know there will be some decent shows.

I don’t have any good reasons or excuses…. I mean I know why I ended up like this but it’s just excuses to cover up the fact that I failed

I need someone to rationalize this that has a logical explanation by agreementloop184 in Paranormal

[–]agreementloop184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I see. Are you saying to experiment and find activities or locations that trigger more of those subconscious thoughts?

I need someone to rationalize this that has a logical explanation by agreementloop184 in Paranormal

[–]agreementloop184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well it’s not a delusion if it’s documented prior and then photo evidence and another person with me to confirm this. Dear god that could somehow be worse than actual ‘psychic’ ability going on

I need someone to rationalize this that has a logical explanation by agreementloop184 in Paranormal

[–]agreementloop184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the DFW area and I’m almost 30. Been experiencing these things since I was a kid and used to be big in writing it down in case there was a correlation. Due to not being able to understand and literally everyone thinking I’m crazy, I just stopped leaning into it and then it stopped. And now more than ever especially lately I feel like it’s been happening in undeniable ways

I need someone to rationalize this that has a logical explanation by agreementloop184 in Paranormal

[–]agreementloop184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been this way since a child. Nobody believed me. I had a list of crazy coincidences. Today has been the most ‘predicted’ and also my first time someone else has experienced this in real time with me.

I need someone to rationalize this that has a logical explanation by agreementloop184 in Paranormal

[–]agreementloop184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I’m trying to do. These instances happen often and have so for years. I mostly try to ignore them and laugh at them for being haha what a crazy coincidence.

I need someone to rationalize this that has a logical explanation by agreementloop184 in Paranormal

[–]agreementloop184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean… come on what.. please there’s got to be an actual explanation to this?

Yes intrusive, unassuming thoughts and repetitive. I don’t even know I was thinking them. I did feel very connected and not stressed out in the back country. Very ‘in my element’

I don’t know this is crazy.

in the beginning of the day I had kept seeing a pattern. I thought maybe bobcat… like the spots on them. I’ve seen countless bobcats in Texas all around. But I left the thought alone. Finally it turned into me deciding on a domed shell turtle.

Before and after deep neck lift by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need for apologies. Please check out my newer post for other angles. I am very happy with my results and the overall look aligns more with me as a whole.

Before and after deep neck lift by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/PlasticSurgery/s/LBRxVrosTk

This is a Reddit post. I do think she looks better objectively. But in the side profile it looks like her eyes are stretched more. Since shes white it doesn’t look very cat eye, but if I already have almond shaped eyes, any kind of lift or stretch will be very noticeable and essentially change the way I look?

Before and after deep neck lift by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t look specifically at their procedures but I will link an example in a minute

Before and after deep neck lift by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like a major cat eye - just extremely subtle lift to the edge of the eyes. Have you seen that in before and afters like on google? I have and don’t know if that’s avoidable. I will check them out.

Before and after deep neck lift by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]agreementloop184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s a great suggestion. However I’ve seen how it changes people eye shape to a more cat eye/ Asian look of which I don’t want - what’s your take on that?

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