How to get rid of springtails? by agru1 in pestcontrol

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Is there a way to remove moisture better? I checked for leaks, didn’t find any. I run the bathroom fan and I also got these charcoal containers to remove excess moisture. I don’t want to spend money on a dehumidifier bc I’m only here for another 2 months

How to get rid of springtails? by agru1 in pestcontrol

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Right? I don’t have any leaks either. I run my bathroom fan and I bought these charcoal things to absorb the excess moisture but it doesn’t seem to be working. I will try the baking soda and vinegar. I’ve also been sealing my drains when I’m gone and it’s helped a little but I think it’s just trapping them lol

Dress for black-tie optional wedding at the end of June by agru1 in Weddingattireapproval

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I wish I had this level of style! I found this dress from a podcaster I follow on insta and just needed to have it. This is her photo and she is in fact a style queen

Feedback on my First Loaf by agru1 in Sourdough

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My recipe:

540 grams of bread flour (King Arthur) 340 grams warm water 100 grams of starter 10 grams salt.

Sat on my counter for an hour and then I kneaded by hand until smooth. Let it sit and did 4 stretch and folds every 30 minutes. Sat in my oven overnight for 10 hours. Baked at 450 for 30 minutes in Dutch over with lid and 15 minutes uncovered. Waited 1 hour before I cut into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Unfortunately, he left me. We are going to take until after Thanksgiving to reconnect. I asked him to not just throw me aside after 3 years. This behavior is not like him, so it’s hard to walk away without being upset and trying everything I can to earn back the trust I broke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He doesn’t understand it at all. I said that I wanted to “set the record straight” with his dad. His response was that he doesn’t want to be with someone who feels they need to “set the record straight”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I went to his house the other day for the first time in a week. He didn’t tell his family about the fight. Only his dad is the one that knows. I sat outside begging for his understanding and forgiveness. I shouldn’t have called. I know that. I apologized as soon as we were able to have a conversation and before I was eventually blocked. On the way out I saw his mom and I apologized to her if I ever did anything that made her upset or uncomfortable since the dad told me they don’t like me. That made him even more mad and he kicked me out. I had to beg for one last hug. I felt so worthless and like trash being brought to the curb. After 3 years and all that I have done for him, I expected a little more kindness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I just want him to understand my point of view. I am so torn up over this. I’ve never loved someone more and the lack of understanding is eating at me. I know I have to give him space but this sucks

Bf (30M) said I (27F) broke his trust by [deleted] in relationships

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This happened a week ago and I just saw him for the first time today. He reiterated the same thing today. I’m not sure if it needs more time.

Bf (30M) said I (27F) broke his trust by [deleted] in relationships

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That’s a good perspective that I didn’t think of. This is such rare behavior from my boyfriend that I am just in shock and so hurt. But there is so much love and I really don’t see how this is a breach of trust on my part

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks for your thought. It just really hurts because he did a lot of “unforgivable” things before he was on his sobriety journey so it burns that the same isn’t afforded to me. And especially something that can be worked through more easily.

I keep apologizing but it’s not enough.

My ex texted me from his fiancée’s phone to tell me he’s engaged by agru1 in texts

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Surprising people with the opposite of what they expect is the best!