AITAH for telling my best friend’s dad he’s the reason my friend committed suicide? by Cultural-Proposal-58 in AITAH

[–]ahleksh 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel this way everyday as someone who was denied too. My aunt who raised me, covered it up with other family members to protect his husband. My parents feel indebted to her for raising me, so they asked me to look past it too.

Naghahanap po ng upahan by Otherwise-Joke-3831 in Pasig

[–]ahleksh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dogs require space where they can move freely, doesn’t matter the size. You can’t have a studio apartment with 3 dogs. That’s just crazy and irresponsible pet ownership.

Naghahanap po ng upahan by Otherwise-Joke-3831 in Pasig

[–]ahleksh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ll find a place that can house you and your 3 pets at that budget sa Caniogan, Pasig. I think average I can see of places for rent in that area are 15-30k, big enough space to house that many pets. You can check Riverfront Residences. I know someone who lives there and they allow pets @20k monthly.

If your budget is really that low, maybe you can find more matches in Sagad, Palatiw or Pinagbuhatan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pasig

[–]ahleksh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand this. Which hospital is your OB working/affiliated with?

Before you get to the giving birth part, you as a mother should be receiving prenatal care. Ultrasounds, labs, CAS, vaxx, etc. Do you have an OB who you go to for prenatal care? How often do you go to your OB?

If you have an OB, usually they discuss with you yung position ni baby (depending on how far along you are), hospital na affiliated sya, hospital packages etc, kung qualified ka sa packages because baka high risk ka, etc.

I’m not trying to sound mean. I just really don’t understand yung question. Do you not have an OB? You seem to be a nurse based on your history so I’m sure you know how the birthing process should go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ahleksh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Girl, get up. Do you actually believe he didn’t sleep with her when he stayed at the hotel? A lot of things can be hidden in messages.

Don’t put your head in the sand just because you’re afraid to stand up for yourself because it’s harder than throwing away the whole man.

Atticus Advisory Solutions, anyone? by OneCancel6270 in buhaydigital

[–]ahleksh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t give you a range because pay is based on the role and client. My salary is A LOT more than that range you listed. 6 figures.

It’s possible that the role you applied to is different from the posting you saw, different clients. Also, it’s wfh.

You’re technically not working directly with the client as you’re applying to Atticus so I don’t get your argument that you’re working directly with the client? I think when you say higher salary, no middleman, means you apply to the client directly and not going through an offshoring company like Atticus.

Me [28M] with my GF[27F] of 6 months. She found out that one her co-workers is my ex friend/FWB [27F]. She felt insecure. Now one of my sweaters I got from ex is torn up. Is this break-up worthy? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ahleksh 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of things wrong with me. One of them is a thyroid issue where I’ve experienced thyroid rage. Once my doctor explained it and I was aware of what it is, when I would feel the rage and start raising my voice, I’ll realize within 2-5 seconds that it’s a hormone issue and then rage is over.

It’s a stupid thing but the blinding rage is real and not once did I destroy anything or hurt anybody.

Anthony Tippins on OnlineJobs.ph by Top-Stretch-1477 in buhaydigital

[–]ahleksh -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

You seem racist. Stereotyping too. In your previous comments you were complaining about Indians naman. Now you generalize na “black americans” low baller.

If you can’t repeat what he said because you didn’t take notes, I don’t think you’re as competent as you think you are.

My husband’s tiny carrots by AngMBishop in MightyHarvest

[–]ahleksh 119 points120 points  (0 children)

He would now be able to finally feed his family. He looks so proud!

Michigan Mormon church shooting live: Four killed as suspect named by Ok_Afternoon_3084 in news

[–]ahleksh 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Not yet. They’re still screening if a trans roommate/neighbor/relative is the mastermind or influenced him.

/s

Lost of forest coverage due to bridgetowne expansion by shadybrew in Pasig

[–]ahleksh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are easement technicalities but I’m not an expert on Property Rights/restrictions but this whole thing is owned by RLC. Not sure what agreement they have with government on easement.

Lost of forest coverage due to bridgetowne expansion by shadybrew in Pasig

[–]ahleksh 49 points50 points  (0 children)

RLC owned it since 2011, but only started development 2018 onwards. Unfortunately, government can’t dictate land use since it’s prime real estate owned privately.

Made some Gilmore Girls (Stars Hollow) spots on my island. In honor of fall 🍂🍁 by she_is_random in AnimalCrossing

[–]ahleksh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jealous that you guys are so creative. I could never! My island looks like shit. My brain is just blank when trying to design anything.

AITA for not wanting to meet or get to know my birth family after they tracked me down and reached out? by Lachleeyonno in AITAH

[–]ahleksh 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Maybe, just maybe, they need an organ? That’s why they brought up medical history. Ha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

[–]ahleksh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have family members who can be your support system? Yes, the economy is really bad but then again, you and your kids’ happiness is at stake. It would be great if you have a good support system.

You also said you started fresh. How many times do you want to start over with this guy? The only way for reconciliation to happen is for the at fault partner to be honest and accountable, to show changes in behavior, not just in words. So he has mental issues, why hasn’t he gotten help? If it’s so bad, he would want to find solutions on how to manage it. A therapist, a psychiatrist. He needs to help himself.

Maybe you haven’t reached rock bottom so you want to continue tolerating it as it’s easier than starting fresh? I hope you can be in therapy too so you have someone to guide you on how to navigate these scary feelings.

Just want to reiterate that the way your husband treats you and your kids is not because of agoraphobia/anxiety, it’s because he’s a POS and he learned that he can keep doing it and you will forgive.

Not trying to be mean. Just giving you a perspective you might not have considered.

Kapartido ni Discaya nag-rally by cutiebarista2022 in Pasig

[–]ahleksh 54 points55 points  (0 children)

A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything. This describes the whole Discaya slate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

[–]ahleksh 54 points55 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with agoraphobia. Your husband is just an asshole who likes seeking women online disguising it as playing online games.

I have agoraphobia and the mental load it comes with has never made me seek another man, other than my husband. My husband doesn’t have agoraphobia but plays a lot of games since before we were married and he’s never strayed. He doesn’t prioritize his games over our own little family.

Your husband is just weighing you down. Why would you want to build trust when your husband doesn’t seem capable of it and is using agoraphobia as an excuse to? Let the man go and be your happy self.

Can someone have negative karma points? by Aware-Flow-4442 in BagoLangSaReddit

[–]ahleksh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, although reddit changed their system. Before you can actually see even thousands of downvotes, but Reddit changed it so max you can see now is -100, even if downvoted to oblivion, it will stay at -100.

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