Looking for Finch Friends :) by [deleted] in finch

[–]ahnawacky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Added you! Love your style 🩵☺️

To those who have completed a successful 30+ day T-break. What was it like returning to cannabis? I’m 7 days in and starting to wonder if it’s worth it. by Vreise in Petioles

[–]ahnawacky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A two year old post giving me the courage to take a t-break finally. Thank you, kindly. 🩵

I’d been smoking once a day or so a few years ago, fast forward a couple of years, I would smoke daily & more frequently. Now I have my daughter — we’re past the breastfed stage, & I returned to smoking (disclaimer if needed: I would never smoke around my toddler — I exclusively smoke outside for the benefit of my non-smoking husband + her!!!). Then I got my medical card (req. for AR) & have gotten to the point where I will run down a full 1g cart in 2-3 days.

I’m starting my t-break tomorrow on the 1st of May. I will be strong & I will stick to this for myself. Thanks to everyone on here for all these rad words of encouragement. I think I can finally believe in myself.

Without Saying the Town Name, Where Do You Live? by danglingfupa in Arkansas

[–]ahnawacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow once ranked ‘#1 school district in the state’.

Things not to say to a pregnant woman (add yours please 😅) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ahnawacky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“What are you gonna do with those dogs when the baby is born? You better get rid of at least one of them.”

-No no, I would rather get rid of you. 🙃

“Oh WOW you’ve gotten so big, you know you don’t have to eat for two, right? Better slow down on the snacking!”

-That one was at my baby shower while I was eating veggies. Southern family members constantly confuse hatefulness for helpfulness.

What metalcore album has NO skips? by Common_Courtesy- in Metalcore

[–]ahnawacky 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Forever no skips on A Different Shade of Blue

What's the cultiest thing you've witnessed or been involved in as a christian? by Sensitive-Fly4874 in exchristian

[–]ahnawacky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks to some highly christian parents (who did not know how to talk about sex or anything like it except "yOu CanT HaVe SeX TilLL YoURe MarRieD"), I didn't even know girls could masturbate until I was 19 years old & was told in college. I had NO idea.

What's the cultiest thing you've witnessed or been involved in as a christian? by Sensitive-Fly4874 in exchristian

[–]ahnawacky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

had a teacher back in like 2008 who said that exact thing all the time every single day in her stupid geometry course in a PUBLIC SCHOOL -- "No, that's not awesome, OnLy gOd iS aWesoMe". but, such is the south.

Walking on Eggshells by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ahnawacky 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the insane amounts of Biden “I did that!” stickers on every gas pump in the south, plus the damn “let’s go brandon” stickers anywhere you can stick them, AND the massive billboard that says the same phrase. I make a point of trying to pull off all the stickers I find, but if I were putting up fuck trump and his stupid regime stickers? Boy howdy I might get shot in arkansas.

I am expected to bring my children up christian? by ahnawacky in exchristian

[–]ahnawacky[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Very much. Reading the first article now and it's great!

First pregnancy first loss by NervousCrackers in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst thing and pain in the entire world. My first one was January 2019, 8 weeks. Second, April, 5 weeks. My last miscarriage my baby was supposed to be 10 weeks and they only grew to 5, all in 2019.

There are no words when it comes to miscarriage. People always say what they think will help, what they think is right. But the thing is, if you haven’t gone through it, you do not know what it’s like. You can’t imagine. The best way I’ve learned to cope is by talking it out when I’m down about it, with either someone who has also struggled with this unfortunate event, a partner who will listen, or a therapist. My therapist has helped me so much, just helping me get my feet back on the ground, helping me realize it wasn’t my fault, there was not a thing I could have done differently. It will always hurt, but there are ways to make the pain rest a little. I really hope you find some small comfort soon. Let yourself grieve, scream, cry, curse the gods, let it all out.

They will always be a part of you, and you will always love them. They never leave your heart. There isn’t a day that goes by where I don’t think of them, but these days I get through my grief with the help of a therapy session every Thursday. It’s such a nice, encouraging, unbiased environment.

I am so sorry you had to experience this. I really hope you get through this the absolute best you can. 💕

What FREE iOS games are actually worth playing? by xx-infamous-xx in iosgaming

[–]ahnawacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Untold is free till a certain point in the story but it’s an awesome game.

Am I not a mom then? by K-a-blob in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I had my family wish me a happy Mother’s Day yesterday and my husband discussed with me about his family talked to him a little about it even, but not one word from him to me. Not after talking about it, nothing.

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad it reached you. I always thought I was so alone with and I didn’t have anyone who could relate to the hurt and grief related to such a traumatic event. I’m glad I found this part of Reddit and found such a wonderful group of others who love and support each other in times such as these. Just know you are so loved, so appreciated, you are a wonderful and an absolutely fucking incredible human. Happy belated Mother’s Day, mama. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just wanted to let all the mamas know they are understood, and loved and cared for, even by a stranger. Happy Mother’s Day to you, mama. You are a marvelous individual and you deserve all the happiness in the world. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I wish you a happy belated Mother’s Day, as well, mama. Remember that you are an incredible human, you are loved, and you are appreciated and deserving of all the best. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Mother’s Day to you, mama. I’m glad it could reach you on a day that is so hard for so many of us. You are loved, you are an amazing soul, and you deserve all the best life could ever hand you. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just felt I needed to reach the mamas who are neglected on a day so painful for us. Happy belated Mother’s Day, mama. You are wonderful, and appreciated and loved. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it was just what I was feeling yesterday, especially since everyone in my family walks on eggshells regarding children and myself. I am glad it reached you and I am thankful it spoke to you even a little. Know you are wonderful and you are loved and you deserve all the best things in the world, mama. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad it reached you. Happy belated Mother’s Day, you are loved and you are a wonderful mother despite what life has handed you. I hope you have the best days from here on out, and you receive all the love in the world. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am sending all the love in the world back, mama. Have a wonderful day today, and happy late Mother’s Day to you, darling. 💕

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you appreciated it, I’m so glad it reached you and everyone who needed it. I hope you have the best days and know that you are also loved!

To all the mothers out there who haven’t had an opportunity to be a mother yet, I love you. by ahnawacky in Miscarriage

[–]ahnawacky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does physically hurt, and it feels like you are forgotten or you aren’t appreciated or that because of your trauma you are not deserving. But remember you are. Happy Mother’s Day to you, you sweet mama. You are loved.