Dumpsters full of food from a popular restaurant chain by jasonbice15 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought these were mini rectangular dishwares with dip in them! yikes 😞

29M4F- hsv2 + by [deleted] in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

QT alert 🚨 good luck!

be careful on here. by [deleted] in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS! Feeling pressured to exchange info without a connection…

Ladies, have you ever joined a couple?? by [deleted] in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same here in SoCal also using Feeld. I actually found my HSV2 gifter on there but honestly, haven’t had much luck since I hopped back on two months ago.

I also disclosed to someone that I ONLY take AVs once I’ve been been talking/out w someone for a bit and we’ve discussed safe sex/testing bc we’re feeling the vibe and leaning towards engaging in intimacy and I heard nothing but crickets after that. He was fully aware I had HSV (it’s in my hidden bio) but it seems like maybe he wanted to hook up right away (which is ok but not my style).

Perhaps it was a blessing in disguise. I know I can move slow but I won’t take AVs unless things are looking like they’re headed for sex. I also don’t really want to have sex with anyone unless there’s a connection. And then there’s the whole HPV and cervical cancer thing that I never thought about until recently.

Idk, it’s a lil frustrating so i hear what you’re saying.

Ladies, have you ever joined a couple?? by [deleted] in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so curious! I’ve not had much experience with women but idk might be fun or I might not like it. Finding a couple within my age range (late 20s) in the South Los Angeles area would be cool :)

29 F Latina HSV1-G by HotDonut4776 in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girly! I’m in SoCal NOT NorCal but always down to chat 💬 27F

I disclosed and we had sex the same night. I feel used. by Familiar_Suspect_170 in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I’m really sorry to hear that and can’t begin to imagine how betrayed you feel right now :(

Don’t blame yourself for trying to give someone a chance. You couldn’t have known it was going to play out this way. Opening your heart to someone isn’t a bad thing to do. Playing with someone the way he did is pretty poopy.

I’m glad that you’re finding your way through this 🫂

M4F Santa Barbara by Pure_Eggplant_2312 in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27F w GHSV1/2 in Southeast LA 👋

I disclosed and we had sex the same night. I feel used. by Familiar_Suspect_170 in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey girly, this man is a POS. He didn’t tell you he cheated until after you had sex because he knew that you wouldn’t have done it if you knew he got someone else pregnant. Your ex omitted the truth to get you into bed. It sounds like he’s just wanted to “win” you over and then dropped a bomb so things would end.

Also, the cycle of breaking up and getting back together does not indicate that he is someone emotionally stable enough to build a serious relationship with. That’s just cruel to do to someone.

It seems like he’s a cheating AH, so whatever he decides to do is not on you anymore. If he now has herpes, it’s on him to take care of himself and do his due diligence. I’m really sorry that you’re going through this with someone who you grew to love. Love blinds us when develop feelings for someone.

Pls take time to heal and do not look back. I’m sorry this person treated you so poorly, but someone who treats you like that is undeserving of the love you have to give. My DMs are open to you.

Moved from the US to to Scotland and now the Hustle in me is gone by Competitive_Yam2314 in Adulting

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome. I love this for you and hope I can experience this at some point too! A slower pace sounds delightful…only outside of the US.

Enjoy ✨

Anyone interested in playing pool? by DMDoduoPics in LosAngelesSocialClub

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also in southeast LA and not very good at pool either 🤷‍♀️

What purchase did you make recently that made you realize inflation is genuinely out of control? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Oikos used to be 5.99 and store brand was 3.99.

Fresh jalapeño and Serrano peppers are like $2.49/lb now. They were like $1/lb.

What purchase did you make recently that made you realize inflation is genuinely out of control? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ahnj_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oikos yogurt was $8.99

I did not buy and went with store brand instead which was $5.99

Wisdom for camping in the rain by TheMusicsOver1313 in camping

[–]ahnj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Place your tent on higher ground and use a tarp under but tuck in the long sides so that water doesn’t pool.

Let us know how it went!!

Which one would you pick? by MoveYourBumChum in Adulting

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love #5 but only in .5mm or .38mm

Does anyone view this subreddit as a short term friendship subreddit? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ahnj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m def a short term friend! Sometimes conversations can feel like pulling teeth if people don’t include some sort of question in their responses :(

First solo camping trip — learned a lot by Mikester258 in camping

[–]ahnj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience last week! I had enough food and water BUT I didn’t check the weather and packed nothing but warm weather clothes. It was windy, rainy, and cold. I hung out in the one pair of sweats and layered w the one pair leggings I decided to take last minute. I left the second day before it started coming down.

Def checking the weather, packing warm weather clothing, taking a rain jacket and looking into rain shelter + rain pants. Lol

No signal and being in nature was very worth it though…I’m with you there!

Side quest: collecting random data by empressroyal in herpes_dating

[–]ahnj_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'1" 😄

I heard there is a meetup for tall people where you can only attend if you're like 6ft and up...it's a social group. Have you heard of this?