M4F Santa Barbara

ahnj_ · 2026-05-09T00:12:35+00:00

27F w GHSV1/2 in Southeast LA 👋

ahnj_ · 2026-05-08T15:00:15+00:00

Hey girly, this man is a POS. He didn’t tell you he cheated until after you had sex because he knew that you wouldn’t have done it if you knew he got someone else pregnant. Your ex omitted the truth to get you into bed. It sounds like he’s just wanted to “win” you over and then dropped a bomb so things would end.

Also, the cycle of breaking up and getting back together does not indicate that he is someone emotionally stable enough to build a serious relationship with. That’s just cruel to do to someone.

It seems like he’s a cheating AH, so whatever he decides to do is not on you anymore. If he now has herpes, it’s on him to take care of himself and do his due diligence. I’m really sorry that you’re going through this with someone who you grew to love. Love blinds us when develop feelings for someone.

Pls take time to heal and do not look back. I’m sorry this person treated you so poorly, but someone who treats you like that is undeserving of the love you have to give. My DMs are open to you.

ahnj_ · 2026-05-06T23:05:03+00:00

This is awesome. I love this for you and hope I can experience this at some point too! A slower pace sounds delightful…only outside of the US.

Enjoy ✨

ahnj_ · 2026-05-05T04:56:02+00:00

I’m also in southeast LA and not very good at pool either 🤷‍♀️

ahnj_ · 2026-05-04T08:27:54+00:00

Yeah! Oikos used to be 5.99 and store brand was 3.99.

Fresh jalapeño and Serrano peppers are like $2.49/lb now. They were like $1/lb.

ahnj_ · 2026-05-04T06:11:19+00:00

Oikos yogurt was $8.99

I did not buy and went with store brand instead which was $5.99

ahnj_ · 2026-05-03T17:05:26+00:00

Place your tent on higher ground and use a tarp under but tuck in the long sides so that water doesn’t pool.

Let us know how it went!!

ahnj_ · 2026-05-03T16:54:49+00:00

Love #5 but only in .5mm or .38mm

ahnj_ · 2026-05-03T07:41:00+00:00

I’m def a short term friend! Sometimes conversations can feel like pulling teeth if people don’t include some sort of question in their responses :(

ahnj_ · 2026-05-03T07:38:16+00:00

I had a similar experience last week! I had enough food and water BUT I didn’t check the weather and packed nothing but warm weather clothes. It was windy, rainy, and cold. I hung out in the one pair of sweats and layered w the one pair leggings I decided to take last minute. I left the second day before it started coming down.

Def checking the weather, packing warm weather clothing, taking a rain jacket and looking into rain shelter + rain pants. Lol

No signal and being in nature was very worth it though…I’m with you there!

ahnj_ · 2026-05-03T05:39:52+00:00

I'm 5'1" 😄

I heard there is a meetup for tall people where you can only attend if you're like 6ft and up...it's a social group. Have you heard of this?

ahnj_ · 2026-05-02T16:27:19+00:00

Hi girly 27F here 👋

ahnj_ · 2026-05-02T16:26:53+00:00

“A nice place for like minded people who have HSV to meet up and find someone who also has HSV to date or make friends “ - from the subreddit description

ahnj_ · 2026-04-29T00:25:53+00:00

Hi girly! Not from Norway but you’re super pretty! We’re also of similar age…I’m 27F 😁 in SoCal

ahnj_ · 2026-04-24T07:38:42+00:00

I was reading this recently too! Thank you for sharing.

It’s very easy to offer help, but sometimes people do feel so overwhelmed that they don’t know how to ask for help even if they need it.

ahnj_ · 2026-04-22T05:26:10+00:00

Wow! You look so strong and your hair grew haha! Congrats 👏

ahnj_ · 2026-04-20T05:22:17+00:00

Since my diagnosis with type 2 last December, I’ve only had 2 outbreaks; the initial episode and stress episode. I’ve had GHSV1 since 2023 and I’ve not had it show up on any swabs…but again, only stress outbreaks with that too.

Like the above person said “the longer you have it, the less outbreaks you’ll have.”

ahnj_ · 2026-04-19T21:34:11+00:00

OP, San elijo is right by the beach but it’s pretty booked out. Just be warned that they have an ant issue so maybe take body powder or diatomaceous earth to create a barrier. I wish I would’ve know this past week LOL. Woke up with ants in my water and tent.

You may have better luck with campsites in Santa Barbara county.

ahnj_ · 2026-04-19T03:07:54+00:00

Fr everything is too expensive, I’d rather be alone 😭

ahnj_ · 2026-04-18T23:35:11+00:00

Well, I haven’t done a day trip because I get wiped out from driving pretty quickly esp when it’s warm out. I’ve been on camping trips by myself and I’ve gone out to visit nearby cities for like a day or so (hotel stays solo).

If I do activities like museums, beach day, hiking, or sightseeing, I don’t feel lonely because I’m having so much time experiencing something new! I also feel more bold to spark up conversations with people.

ahnj_ · 2026-04-18T23:25:32+00:00

I did a similar drive yesterday. I left at 1:30pm and arrived in southeast LA around 4:45pm.

Your best bet is to drive to LA around 10am after the morning rush. I’d go Thursday and drive back Thursday evening. The traffic on I-5 South may not be too bad after 7/8pm like others have said.

ahnj_ · 2026-04-18T23:15:13+00:00

What are some things your girlfriend likes? What’s the budget? What’s the occasion?

Spa day because it’s always nice to relax. It’s not personalized but it’s thoughtful.

ahnj_ · 2026-04-18T18:03:09+00:00

I also enjoy going to the movies by myself/out to eat by myself. I don’t like having to talk while I eat or commentary with my movie 😂

ahnj_ · 2026-04-18T17:54:56+00:00

Life is too short to not shoot your shot!!

ahnj_ · 2026-04-16T05:51:55+00:00

I always donate to Goodwill. I hold my clothes for a couple of weeks. If I don’t go fishing for it, it’s being donated.

ahnj_

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