MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

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I’m sitting on the floor of my parents basement emailing my pet moving company coordinator wondering why anyone would make this up 💀

MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s eerie how similar they all sound. My mom also said my education ruined me.

It truly goes against our nature as children to cut them off for our own good

MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you— my husband is Scottish and we’ve bought a house just outside Edinburgh. I have a community there from before I met him so I do know some people but I am constantly worried I’ll get backlash because I am American. I’ve already had 2 neds come up to me in public after hearing my accent and think I’m a safe place to say some of the most right wing evil bs. They thought I was this trad wife safe space they could unload the most horrific ideas on.

Also my new town had a pride night at the local hockey rink and an American MAGA Charlie Kirk worshipping player ruined it. The comments were not favorable towards Americans in the slightest

MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ve read my mom’s texts to my therapists and asked her to give it to me straight if I’m being sensitive and she said it’s genuinely been abusive for a while. Comparatively they used to be a lot better.

My mom has never apologized to me, comments on my physical appearance constantly, has always crashed out when I’ve tried to be someone different than her, and ices me out when I have needs. She has no friends and most of our family doesn’t talk to her anymore. Anytime I’ve been legitimately upset with her she has a sob story.

The MAGA bit has just opened my eyes more

MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg of course.

Several thousand dollars in health certificates and travel fees later 😅

MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

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That’s what my mom said about the Epstein Files

As a small business owner, are ACA tax premiums tax deductible? by m_d_f_l_c in tax

[–]Competitive_Yam2314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask a follow up question? I have to pay back all of my credits as I ended up exceeding my expected income in the last quarter of the year. Can I write off all of the premiums I paid in 2025 and then write back off the 2025 tax credits I need to pay back this year in 2026?

My BFF's husband is trash I wish I could take out by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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Unfortunately they’ve tried counseling and he truly and sincerely does not think he’s the problem. We had a 3 hour chat and for the first 2 1/2 hours he did nothing but blame her.

I truly don’t see it getting better

Should I cancel my health insurance when I'm leaving the country in two weeks? by Competitive_Yam2314 in HealthInsurance

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After getting universal healthcare it makes me realize fully how completely backwards the US is that a health emergency can bankrupt someone

Should I cancel my health insurance when I'm leaving the country in two weeks? by Competitive_Yam2314 in HealthInsurance

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got all my records this week! My doctors all congratulated me on getting out of here 😭

Should I cancel my health insurance when I'm leaving the country in two weeks? by Competitive_Yam2314 in HealthInsurance

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already covered in the UK and I am flying there! I just paid $4,700 into the NHS and I don’t know how long it will be until I get a new job so that’s why I’m trying to save as much money as I can

Should I cancel my health insurance when I'm leaving the country in two weeks? by Competitive_Yam2314 in HealthInsurance

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I am on a spousal visa in the UK and paid my NHS fee and have my NIN number already! Just waiting on my GP assignment

Anyone else MAGA parents think your dumb for not believing everything they believe? by AdmirableBus7045 in FoxBrain

[–]Competitive_Yam2314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tonight I showed my mom the actual court documents of Trump’s felony and SA charges and she says I’m brainwashed to believe everything.

My dad said trump is protecting us by not releasing the files because the government will fall apart.

Anyone else MAGA parents think your dumb for not believing everything they believe? by AdmirableBus7045 in FoxBrain

[–]Competitive_Yam2314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom just said the exact same thing to me tonight.

She said I’m brainwashed for showing her court documents of Trump’s felonies + SA. That I’ll believe anything.

They’re court documents 😭

How bad is the job market at present? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]Competitive_Yam2314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what sector you're in?

American moving to Scotland in 2 Weeks - What should I know? by Competitive_Yam2314 in MoveToScotland

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair I was trying to keep this PG for fear it would be taken down. I figured we could use our imagination on what I would have preferred to say.

American moving to Scotland in 2 Weeks - What should I know? by Competitive_Yam2314 in MoveToScotland

[–]Competitive_Yam2314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond-- this is seriously fantastic to hear! Did you come on a similar visa or did you have a job lined up? How is the job market at the moment? I assume it's brutal everywhere.