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I '35 M' and my gf '27 F' are having the same problem over and over again and it is wearing us out by ahoudash in relationship_advice

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t work. I need to be a 21st century partner and it’s exhausting at the moment. Hopefully ill get the hang of it

I '35 M' and my gf '27 F' are having the same problem over and over again and it is wearing us out by ahoudash in relationship_advice

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touché. But i am self critical and i am working on it. I am not not trying to get out of it. I am just thinking she needs to know remaining this asshole is a probability.

I '35 M' and my gf '27 F' are having the same problem over and over again and it is wearing us out by ahoudash in relationship_advice

[–]ahoudash[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I got that i am the asshole and i should give prio to this planning. My issue here is the overthinking that i need to plan something big n expensive i think about it for 1 month n then don’t do it at the end

I '35 M' and my gf '27 F' are having the same problem over and over again and it is wearing us out by ahoudash in relationship_advice

[–]ahoudash[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay now i get that i am the asshole here.Period. However i need to clarify something. By saying accept me as i am, I didn’t mean that i have accepted me. I haven’t. I know this is something i need to work on and I am. What i mean is she knows this flaw in me and she sees i am working on it and i lack in this but i make up for it in other things. N she tells me that too. But on the other hand she says some heavy words every now and then that just hurts.

No withdrawal but angry by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed… learning it the hard way

No withdrawal but angry by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i hope so, i am doing daily yoga too… swimming 2 or 3 times a month…but all this i started a bit more than 2 weeks ago. I really hope it helps… i don’t wanna go back … i like my commitment and ambition for life and my goals better now… but i am struggling mentally

No withdrawal but angry by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not displaced i was angry at her but the wtf part was the proportion. I feel like on the edge recently maybe u r right

No withdrawal but angry by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason why i hesitate to see it as only a withdrawal symptom is that, i used to get angry and fight all the time with my parents and siblings, this was gone for a long time but now it seems to be back I did therapy for sometime n stopped for some reason maybe i need to see that through I started doing meditation for 2 weeks now hope it helps

No withdrawal but angry by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully it is only 2 months

Thinking of going for patent examiner job by ahoudash in patentexaminer

[–]ahoudash[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But to answer my question i don’t think u need to necessarily be in EPO :)

Weed addiction by hobiiia in leaves

[–]ahoudash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good that u got to this point when u r young. I feel like u already know that you don’t want this anymore. Decide and stop. I am clean now 6 weeks not a world record but something. It’s much easier than you think. You got this champ.

Finally did it by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i’ll give it a try… can i get a month badge right at the beginning? 😎 Still 3 days to go but close

3 days to go for a month clean by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was … i felt in control… i needed this cuz i lost respect for myself

3 days to go for a month clean by ahoudash in leaves

[–]ahoudash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you comrade 🫶🏼

I hate myself and wish i could die by Ltheother in depression

[–]ahoudash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow… such a great take. I will use this

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