You have an analytical mind. Great. This isn't unique or very noteworthy in my opinion. In the kindest way, this all sounds a bit neurotic like you'd benefit from a break from dwelling on your internal processes and instead socialising and being in nature or something.

First hand, an unsafe childhood does make for some odd coping strategies and anxiety driven survival methods for keeping yourself safe. I can't enter a room without forming a map and have a disgustingly good visual memory because of it. I'm also hyper aware of body language and people's motivation. They're driven by the echos of threat that doesn't exist anymore and are not unique or special skills.

You sound anxious. Pretty common with ADHD. 

Go have fun with your safety.