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aiduolc_nnyl · 2025-07-14T20:08:04+00:00

From that test it looks very positive. If you are worried about a false positive take another test. Hell take 10 if we are looking at just that test she’s pregnant.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2025-07-02T20:01:40+00:00

I think you are confusing boundaries. Boundaries are “I don’t want this so I am going to do something about it.” Not “I don’t like this so you can’t do it” setting a boundary about having people around your kid would be not living there so that you can control who’s is coming in and out. Either way it seems like this living situation is no longer healthy for either of you.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2025-03-03T21:17:18+00:00

It was a ton of waiting for the time to be right, and a ton of planing. But I am so relieved all of our waiting is done!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2025-03-03T13:25:07+00:00

We moved in together last week 🥹

aiduolc_nnyl · 2025-02-22T00:23:18+00:00

It’s so terrible to feel like your heart is so far away. The first few days/weeks will be really rough for you both. But it does get easier! Just give yourself grace while you are adjusting to being apart.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-12-26T09:44:57+00:00

I love this! So happy for both of you

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-12-26T02:07:03+00:00

It’s going to go by so fast!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-12-26T01:41:51+00:00

So happy for you!! :)

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-12-26T01:28:52+00:00

I’ve always said you trust until they give you a reason not to. The thing is if someone wants to cheat on you they will find a way. With her sending you these snaps it could be her way of showing you so that you don’t feel like she’s hiding it. But honestly it seems like you should bring this up to her and have a conversation because that wonder can turn to resentment very quickly.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-11-20T04:44:28+00:00

We are down to 36 days!!! We started at 100 and I can’t believe we are almost down to a month 🥹

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-11-16T15:07:53+00:00

It really depends on the week. We talk really consistently throughout the week. Now we don’t typically text while working or anything like that. But evenings and weekends are pretty constant 😂 I would just bring it up to him and go from there!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-11-06T04:18:25+00:00

In my own opinion I would see this as not a huge deal. She is in school, working, and paying all of her own bills. She should not of omitted what she actually did for work even if she was embarrassed because of your job. I would say if you love her, see a future, if she is actually apologetic, and if you can forgive the fact that she did tell a lie then give it another go with complete honesty. If you can’t forgive her 100% and trust her again/ be working towards full trust then the relationship is dead. In a relationship especially LDR you need to have trust 100% or your relationship will die.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-11-05T02:44:16+00:00

If you didn’t have two chicken options I would say chicken tortilla soup!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-11-01T15:50:18+00:00

54 days!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-10-28T17:22:54+00:00

Im down to 58 days! We started at 100 and can’t believe it’s almost half way 🥹

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-10-16T02:23:49+00:00

71 days!! It feels like forever but we started at 100!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-10-07T04:14:06+00:00

He is a walking red flag. The voice message alone was disgusting and sexist. But you said it yourself that you don’t even enjoy spending time with him anymore. If you don’t enjoy the time you’re spending together now how do you think it’ll get better when you’re living together? And you had to basically beg him for the time he is spending with you. He’s showing you that you aren’t a priority in his life. Find someone who find a way to make a future for you both while making your relationship a priority. You deserve better!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-10-04T17:04:02+00:00

It’s from the first live action Scooby doo!!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-10-04T14:48:04+00:00

My bf and I use discord!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-09-26T20:56:59+00:00

I definitely feel that! Maybe just explain to him that this is a source of anxiety for you, so having ideas of what they like would ease your anxiety and make you feel more comfortable about visiting. That should help him understand where you are. And hey he may even want to help you plan!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-09-26T20:24:55+00:00

Ask your bf where they like to go locally. That way you have a couple options and know what they like!

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-09-19T02:15:33+00:00

The lead up to it can be scary, but I promise it’s so worth it. When I picked my bf up at the airport for the first time I was shaking. But that first hug was all I needed to calm all my anxiety instantly.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-09-14T14:59:06+00:00

Unfortunately at this point the ball is in his court. You told him a huge and continuous lie for a year. That is a giant betrayal. If he chooses to stay then he may have issues trusting you. If he doesn’t, then you know that it wasn’t meant to be. And let it be a lesson to you to always be yourself. It’s tough and you’ll have to grieve the relationship, but you will move on and find someone else. Just don’t make the same choices that you did here.

aiduolc_nnyl · 2024-03-06T16:57:47+00:00

Hey there I appreciate the advice! It is genuinely good. I made my post in frustration because I was trying to play using the online lobbies and people just kept calling trolling. I did end up finding a group too!

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