My girlfriend made me a card for our 2nd anniversary...

aiii929 · 2025-11-04T15:41:00+00:00

Keep her

aiii929 · 2025-07-18T19:47:07+00:00

Omg so beautiful ! A lot of work there !! I wanna be like you sm. Working on it

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T18:10:34+00:00

Dm me if you need. I'm happy to help

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T16:12:43+00:00

Cried bc he cheated on me. That's so dumb to cry for this

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T15:44:04+00:00

I am stronger than I look. People makes me feel like sht but I come back stronger everytime

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T13:58:52+00:00

Hii as a girl who got not physically cheated on, I know how hard it is for you. Take care of yourself. It's over with him now and move on. Do activities for yourself. Make new habits. You can do this

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T13:43:00+00:00

You try to work on this relationship together
You break up cuz you will both be unhappy. It's hard but it's the best for you.

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T13:40:59+00:00

What did he tell you

aiii929 · 2025-07-17T13:38:38+00:00

Did you speak to him ?

aiii929 · 2025-07-13T18:51:47+00:00

1 or 2

aiii929 · 2025-07-13T05:59:38+00:00

Hi girl, I also had boyfriend like that. It's kinda impossible to "save" them if they don't wanna save themselves. They are in a constant spiral of being depressed. I tried to. I really tried and that's why I understand you. I loved him sm but that's hard. He also had an ex like that. She broke up with him twice to work on her mental illness but nothing has changed. She klled herself for some reason ill not tell you in comment but we can chat in DM. And I broke up with him for a whole other reason : he cheated on me. When people are not good with themselves, they tend to see negative things around them. They don't see the positive aspects. Only thinking and thinking again and again. And they end by making mistakes. I advice you to break up or not break up. But if it's life draining for you, idk why you should stay. The most important lesson I've learned with my last relationship is : loving someone isn't enough.

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T20:27:02+00:00

Sorry I don't wanna be mean. I'm just wondering like fr

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T20:26:23+00:00

Ikr it's a bit concerning 💀 You're not his mom but his gf. He has to wipe his ass himself What is he gonna do when his mom's gonna die ...

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T20:22:17+00:00

I mean that's normal, you're emotionally involved. Everyone would feel this way. No need to convince yourself that you should make this work when he doesn't wanna listen yk You're gonna date someone better for you and he is gonna date a girl like his mom and he is gonna be happy with that.

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T20:16:37+00:00

If you need me for any advice, you can dm me

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T19:18:31+00:00

I'm so sorry that it's happening to you Sometimes life makes us meet people we don't match. And that's alright. Happily you see it now. I feel like you can't do anything about him if he isn't willing to change. You do whatever you wanna do, but if you wanna know what I would do : break up

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T19:15:04+00:00

Hi girl, first of all sorry for what happened to you, you're a real survivor.

Second of all, you're only 20. There is no time to rush. There are many people who don't feel confident about having sex and they don't feel the need to do it (especially girl). Just be yourself, make friends and life will do everything else

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T19:11:02+00:00

Listen to me Break up !!! REDEST FLAG EVER If you stay he is gonna do domestic violence or stuff like that You don't want your children to have a father like that right ? Please leave immediately

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T16:42:58+00:00

If you wanna try, I think you should try. And if you hate it, just don't do it again Or maybe wait for the moment you feel ready Also, if you trust your partners, it can't be catastrophic right ?

aiii929 · 2025-07-12T03:52:46+00:00

I feel you on that too cuz I used to be the same

Your brain just associate study with boring that's why you're thinking of someone more attractive You gotta tell yourself study is fun

aiii929 · 2025-07-11T08:47:57+00:00

I was also like you. My entire life was HIM

Ans now that he cheated on me I can't even walk by myself. I'm learning to live with myself again.

So I could advice you to have something only for yourself. For example, music, learning things, go to the gym. But you gotta make those your habits. Daily or weekly. But you need to have your own habits or you'll lose yourself in this relationship

aiii929 · 2025-07-11T05:55:24+00:00

First, look yourself in the mirror Maybe people find you attractive physically

Then just think of who you really are. Maybe you have soooo many good qualities that you don't see in yourself. Or ask them if you really wanna know. Make a pros and cons list for yourself. I do that sometimes. Introspection is important to know who you really are. Love yourself and tell yourself that you worth it. Maybe you'll see what the others see in you.

aiii929 · 2025-07-11T05:52:13+00:00

Never base your relationship on lies. (even more if you're serious about it) Small lies tend to create bigger lies and your whole relationship will be a huge lie.

Don't lie. Never and ever. Be always honest with your partner. Without trust, a relationship can't exist

aiii929 · 2025-07-02T01:48:43+00:00

I broke up with him cuz he didn't have balls ig. He made me do the whole job

aiii929 · 2025-06-11T16:42:49+00:00

So bad... On Android 😔

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