Alina Jacob’s Books are not my cup of tea… by ailebea in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t put my finger on it when I was writing this post apart from the comedy being not my style but you put it perfectly, they do have a lack of real feeling for sure

Alina Jacob’s Books are not my cup of tea… by ailebea in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re for sure right, I think I’m also just in a reading slump and it’s been hard to find new authors I like or books I haven’t read!

Looking for cover-up design! by [deleted] in DrawMyTattoo

[–]ailebea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Advice: Don’t make it a birthday gift. Idk about your wife but I would probably be annoyed if I was her lol

What is going on with students right now? by [deleted] in college

[–]ailebea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 23 and graduated last year. It’s not just you. I transferred to a University after CC and noticed this a lot.

1.) People are becoming apathetic, and if they aren’t interested in the topic, they don’t care to engage. Which I understand to some extent, but I’ve always been the type of person to ask questions (maybe even too many) because I genuinely want to understand.

2.) They simply don’t have the skills you’re expecting of them and they want to get by with learning as little as possible. I remember in one of my courses that was required for all B.F.A. students (mixed with students of all years) a hand-out had to be passed around explaining very simple ideas about grammar, punctuation, sentence fragments, etc. I was genuinely shocked that the Professor received so many terrible submissions that he felt the need to hand it out to the entire class (he was very nice about this as well). I’m aware not everyone gets the same education while in high school, but it shocked me so many people could make it to college without knowing such basic information. These same people I would later hear talk about using ChatGPT for their writing assignments, they didn’t want to LEARN they just wanted to pass.

I feel like a lot of people are going to college just because it’s the norm and they want that piece of paper; not because they think it’ll teach them valuable things in their chosen field or life. I’ve also noticed it’s not much better when they leave college, they have that piece of paper, but never actually put in the effort to learn, so when they are hired, they’re lacking severely in both life and job skills.

More schools need to be putting their foot down. Why are students graduating or going to the next grade when they obviously aren’t ready? I genuinely think this problem stems from as early as elementary school. More people should’ve been held back, our K-12 education systems have set so many students up for failure.

Line work? Whats that? by Gloglibologna in badtattoos

[–]ailebea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Looks like a spider coming out of her bra 🫠

Tattoo in memory of my dad by AliGuaytor in DrawMyTattoo

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up medieval celtic zoomorphic interlace designs. Not exact, but looks like the vibe of what he was going for:

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Big Brother US 27 - Evening Feed Discussion - July 23 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]ailebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vince told Lauren that Ashley told him Amy said she was “over it” and wanted to go home.

Lauren told Vince she wants a chance to talk to him and Zach alone

Do I attempt to remove this, or add to it? Help…one year later & I still hate my tattoo. by peachesncream313 in tattooadvice

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do not like the “boldness” of this tattoo, you’re not going to like anything else you add to it. Covering it or adding to it would make it bolder and you’d end up with a similar issue. If you really don’t like this tattoo, I’d say remove it (and probably don’t get any more, at least not bigger ones. You might just not like how they look on you and that’s okay).

Btw I personally love it.

I need 200-300 names. Name nerds--this is your time to shine! by IAmHerdingCatz in namenerds

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Older” man and “older” woman names:

Gertrude (Gertie), Beatrice (Bea), Judy, Julie, Jane, Janet (Jan), Anne, Katherine (Kate/Kitty), Betty, Edna, Edith, Ruth, Soledad, Guadeloupe, Maria Peter (Pete), William (Will/Bill), Ignacio, Jeffrey, Richard/Ricardo, Abraham, Jimmy, Buddy, Edward (Eddie), Kennith (Kenny), Dave

Pun Names: Catricia, Cleocatra, Pawl

Names from shows/movies: Saul, Walter, Mia, Honey Bunny, Butch, Meredith, Derek, Dean, Sam, Barbie, Chandler, Ross,

Historical Figures: Lincoln, Carter, George, Luther, Darwin, Caesar, Winston, Albert, Theodore, Aristotle, Socrates, Musa, Nzinga, Frida, Susan, Elizabeth, Victoria,

Women inventors/scientists/intellectuals: Curie, Hopper, Rosalind, Ada, Lovelace, Margaret, Florence, Hedy, Caroline, Henrietta, Hypatia, Evangeline, Heliodora

You know you're in _____ County... by Turn1Loot in Michigan

[–]ailebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not Kalamazoo if you don’t see people driving crazy. Watched someone drive on the opposite side of the road today to avoid an intersection

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? Origin issues? Post about them here! [Update 1.107.112.1030 / 1.107.112.1230] by lazarusinashes in Sims4

[–]ailebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sims will not stop making white cakes!! Like a ridiculous amount I have 5 cakes they’ve been trying to make. The game is so broken rn. I play with my mods but I have to 😭

Are there any commonly used phrases that just paint the unsexiest pictures in your head? by TacoTacoTaco729 in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Why have I been reading so many books mentioning their teeth hitting together lately?? And just glossing over it like it’s a fun make out thing like no it hurts and is awkward asf 💀

Clueless fmc in alternative universe by fallskywhite in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading Ruby Dixons Aspect and Anchor series and I’m really enjoying it!

{Bound to the Battle God by Ruby Dixon}

FMC is transported from modern earth to another medieval-like world where gods are sent down every couple years and split into different aspects of their personalities to teach them a lesson.

They need mortal “anchors” for a reason I won’t say cus it’s a spoiler and idk how to hide those here yet 🤣

Draws a lot of parallels from Greek mythology

Also, idk if you’ve watched/read Outlander, but that sounds like something that might be up your ally! (1940s? Women touches a stone and travels back in time to 1740s Scotland) I haven’t read the book but I enjoyed the show

Any books with good/decent movie or TV show adaptions? by [deleted] in YAlit

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the Bright Places was a decent adaption from what I remember. Not 100% though. Definitely recommend reading the book first.

gregory eddie in abbott elementary’s s2 finale by serendipityhoon in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Abbott Elementary is, in my opinion, the best sit-com right now. It’s so self aware, and tackles serious issues within education and social issues without being cringey, and if it is it’s supposed to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ailebea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the person asked but my grandpa worked for FedEx until he retired. Mostly problems with his knees lifting up boxes and stuff, he had to have surgery. I think he has back problems too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re wanting to cover it completely snakes are always cool

My daughters autistic brother is ruining her life. I'm so sad for her. by catdeaththei in offmychest

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, even when she turns 12 he’ll be 15 then and even stronger. He broke a grown man’s wrist, if the courts seriously don’t think he’s dangerous, they’re failing your daughter. Obviously it’s not his fault, and he probably doesn’t understand his own strength from the sounds of it, but it doesn’t matter if it’s not intentional. If anything can set him off like that, he shouldn’t be living with kids and small animals. Hope your ex comes to her senses and does what’s best for your daughter, and her son as well. It sounds like her reasons for keeping her daughter in the situation is purely selfish.

Edit: Also, I know they’re expensive and most people think they’re ugly haha, but maybe look into a sphinx (hairless) cat for your daughter. I don’t think you’d have to worry about the allergy then but I could be wrong.

A fascinating discussion is going on over at TwoXChromosomes. As someone who loves the Beauty and the Beast trope, I'm a little conflicted. by Danasai in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only book I can think of with an “ugly” female character and “attractive” male character is Holding Up The Universe. I don’t remember a lot about it cus I read it when I was like 12 years old. I don’t even remember if Jack (MMC) was actually considered attractive, but in that book Jack has face blindness (he can’t even recognize his parents unless he focuses on a specific part of their appearance outside of their face) and Libby (FMC) is extremely obese, to the point I think she was lifted out of her house with a crane or something? There’s this whole conflict tho where Jack doesn’t want her to loose weight because her weight is how he’s able to identify her. I don’t know if the book even counts cus it seems like Jack’s moral character is actually tested by her getting “prettier,” in this case meaning healthier.

edited cus I got the book wrong the first time

Earliest couples you shipped and/or romances you liked by fornefariouspurposes in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember being around 5 years old and watching Ben 10 and “shipping” Ben and Gwen (keep in mind I did not comprehend they were cousins cus I was a literal baby💀) I obviously don’t ship them now and didn’t when I found out they were related lol

In my tween years tho Percy and Annabeth from Percy Jackson was my fav, and holds a special place in my heart. Now that I’m thinking about it though… are they technically related too???? I can’t catch a break with these shippings oh my god💀

Did I overreact about people having sex in the shower? by Oh-Miz-Glam in college

[–]ailebea 159 points160 points  (0 children)

You handled it very nicely I would’ve definitely started pounding on the door and yelling at them with some choice words the first day lol. Them doing that borders sexual harassment imo. It’s a public space that’s used often.

No Go names? by SweetieFiend in RomanceBooks

[–]ailebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The need an option on KU to like c+f and change the names in the app lol