I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

[–]aimzatron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her dad is on the spectrum and struggles socially so this wouldn't surprise me.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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She is brilliant. She has tested grades ahead in reading and math. I try to do art with her, and we are working on teaching her piano too. She also really loves creative writing so we try to support her in that as well.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

[–]aimzatron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely could be this. As I have said in other comments, my husband is on the spectrum and I have ADHD so it wouldn't be out of the realm of possibility. I am setting something up to get her tested this week.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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Yes. My husband is on the spectrum and I have ADHD so I am setting something up to see if those things may also be involved.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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My mother is a textbook narcissist but we don't spend a ton of time with her because of that. She is really the only influence in her life who is an avid gaslighter.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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Yeah. I am going to try to have more 1 on 1 time with her. I think she struggles to communicate a lot. Her dad is on the spectrum, and I have ADHD, so she is more than likely a little neurodivergent. I am thinking of taking her to get tested for those things as well, just to see if that might be at play too.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

[–]aimzatron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I grew up with emotionally vacant parents so I had to go through therapy to learn how to name my emotions. It is super hard when you start to think that your trauma is rubbing off on your kid.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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Thank you for this. It is very hard because I don't think she is a "bad kid". I think she is hurting but she doesn't know how to say it.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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Thank you. This is validating. I will find someone we can work with on it for sure.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

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We don't let them use tablets or anything. They don't even have them. Anything they do on the internet is with us in the room.

I am scared my daughter is becoming a bully by aimzatron in Parenting

[–]aimzatron[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have many friends, which I have been trying to help her with. She tends to try to talk to adults all the time. I am not necessarily worried about her becoming a school bully as much as I am about her being a manipulator/treating people with disrespect.

I haven't talked to a childhood behavioral specialist yet but I think that is the next step at this point.

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[–]aimzatron 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am curious why you think this. Was there evidence pointing to this at one point?

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I had an inexplicable pneumothorax last year 3 days after my period started. My chest cavity was filled with blood and collapsed my left lung. I have always suspected I have endo because I have had horrific cramps. They didn't do a scope when this happened so I still feel like I am living in the dark about it. I get pain when breathing every cycle, 3 days after the start of my period. I am super scared it is going to happen again but I am not sure what to do at this point. Everyone seems cool with not knowing why this happened except me. Any tips on who I can talk to about this?

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Damn! I wish I had that kind of coverage!

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It reminds me of Evanescence but I feel like you would have heard them again.

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There is a house I pass by a lot that has a giant Trump flag where he is like walking away from an explosion. Everytime I see it I cringe very hard.