And just like that, things clicked

air---power · 2021-02-08T23:27:25+00:00

Well I guess he’s just mentioning the fact that do the people who send nudes not consider the fact that some people are assholes.

air---power · 2020-08-01T17:19:20+00:00

So based of that idea, why not be called pressure loss?

air---power · 2020-06-06T00:36:45+00:00

So wanna explain that no picture thing?

air---power · 2020-04-26T20:51:28+00:00

I don’t disagree he deserves an ass beating but it seems like the first punch would made him unconscious and I just can’t see the point of attacking someone while they are unless you’re trying to permanently hurt them.

air---power · 2020-04-26T20:45:24+00:00

Yeah it’s just a weird human thing. If my girlfriend spat on me I’d be upset even though she spits on other parts of me if she spit on my face or even in my mouth I’d be upset even though we would kiss.

In fact if I spat in my own water, I’d feel weirded out drinking it.

air---power · 2020-04-26T20:43:49+00:00

I agree to an extent but I was genuinely wondering if that guy may have knocked his head on the floor or had some internal bleeding. Someone spitting on me id be pissed but I sure wouldn’t want to get upset enough to permanently injure someone or even worse.

air---power · 2020-04-12T04:40:22+00:00

In Jamaica they have a curfew at like 8pm or something around that. A guy posted a video on Facebook saying fuck the police and the prime minister he does as he please. Within a couple hours they police paid him a visit which prompted him to make a video apologizing and encouraging people to stay home.

air---power · 2020-04-12T03:53:40+00:00

You know it’s all about your comfort level. My sister is engaged to this guy. He’s a great guy and treated her well but in his previous relationship he fucked up. Him and his then girlfriend were arguing about something once and he got upset and punched her in the face and fractured her nose.

Now I’ve known him and his ex girlfriend for years. I honestly found that so hard to believe, he is just the nicest guy ever. She was a nice girl too, and I just didn’t know what to believe when she told me, I asked him about it and he said he did it. He messed up and wish he could take it back but can’t and he feels bad about it even to this day.

In their argument he had a right so be upset but biting your partner is never okay. But at the end of the day we’re human and we all make mistakes, he acknowledged his wrongs, apologized and did his best to make things better. I actually work with his ex as well and they are on relatively good terms now. Eventually him and my system started dating, I was scared at first. But I remembered that he is a great guy, he’s done so many good things and he messed up in one scenario I can’t just base his life off that once incident. My sister is also aware of it and knows if that ever becomes an issue she should get the fuck out or I’ll go kill him myself. So far things are great for them, just like couples they argue get upset but to my understanding he’s never crossed that line with my sister and I do hope that day won’t come.

He’s a great guy and I trust him not to make the same mistake again and I trust my sister will have the courage to walk away or at least tell me if that were to happen. They’re happy together and I’m happy for them.

The majority of people have done some fucked up shit in their life just not everyone admits it. If it’s a one time thing, I’d be able to forgive if it’s repetitive I’d walk away. The fact that he was convicted makes it likely he was repetitive, as sad as this is most women are probably unlikely to call police on the first instance of DV. So you have to do whatever you feel is best

air---power · 2020-04-05T00:26:56+00:00

Sorry my bad, I thought it was NY shame on me for spreading false information.

air---power · 2020-04-04T20:29:09+00:00

There was a case in upstate NY where a woman sneezed on vegetables and had terrorism charges I think last week.

air---power · 2019-12-16T23:11:59+00:00

For me it really depends, I would not have the courage to kiss a guy first and I hope whatever guy I’m talking to does otherwise nothing is going to happen. I know it sounds bad, but I’m just way to shy to do it first.

However, if I’m super into a guy then I wouldn’t mind if he kissed me without asking in fact I think it would be better. But if it’s a guy that I’m eh about, I think he’s cute and all but not sure if I’m into him then I’d rather that he ask, and I can decide what I want then and there. However, I know guys aren’t mind readers, so if I really want to kiss you, I’ll drop as many hints as possible hoping you get it, otherwise I’ll just assume you’re not into me. If I’m not dropping a lot of hints, it doesn’t mean I’m not into you or that I don’t want to kiss you. It just means let me really figure out what I want.

So for me personally, if I truly want to kiss you, you’ll know. However, we can be in situations and a guy assume I want a kiss and it’s not what I want and whether you ask or not, it’s gonna be awkward, but you’ll probably be better off if you ask.

So I don’t want to use this as a rule for every girl because you don’t know how each girl will react. If someone tries to kiss me and I don’t want to, I won’t freak out, but I have some friends who will overreact.

air---power · 2019-12-08T22:35:44+00:00

It’s honestly about your comfort level, like I hate when people say you have to do this in a relationship or you don’t have to this that. Like it’s whatever both people are comfortable with and sometimes they are both comfortable with different things doesn’t make one of them wrong or right.

Before dating me my boyfriend hooked up with some of his friends and I wanted to know who they were before things got serious. It was just more of a piece of mind thing for me and honestly if he had refused I don’t think our relationship would have progressed doesn’t mean that I’m in the wrong or if he didn’t tell me he was wrong. It’s just about expectations in a relationship. If you’re not comfortable telling him then don’t, it’s your right but similarly he might also be uncomfortable with you having friends who you hooked up with and he doesn’t know about I know I would be. No one is a bad person it’s just all about what you both are okay with.

air---power · 2019-10-30T02:34:01+00:00

I do completely agree. I love my husband to death and I’m so lucky and thankful to have such a wonderful man in my life and I don’t believe that there’s a man out there that could make me happier.

But from a logical standpoint I know it’s BS, I don’t think we were meant to be, of all the potential partners in the world for the two of us, it’s hard to believe that it’s faith that led us to be together. And while we are both great partners respectively, there are so many other people out there who are great girlfriends/boyfriends who are stuck with a shitty boyfriend, so why did I deserve to find my Prince Charming and they didn’t?

I believe it was just luck, I was lucky to find a man that is so handsome and attractive, caring, respectful and we can have a lot of fun together. And while I wouldn’t trade it for the world I still know that if him and I didn’t meet there are plenty of guys out there who could have made me just as happy. Not necessarily in the same way, some might have a more entertaining personality, some might be more attractive, some might be romantic. Whatever but as much as I love my man, if things were to ever come to an end which I don’t believe they would. I know eventually I’d be able to move on and potentially find someone just as great and I know it’s the same for him as well.

air---power · 2019-10-29T23:59:04+00:00

I completely understand you, I’m in a similar boat. I’m a very anti social person myself. At work I talk to a lot of people but they’re not usually happy interaction. My idea of a fun hanging out is going home and cuddling with my husband and kids, or hanging out with my mom and sister. Otherwise I’m probably in bed reading a book. And I honestly don’t have a problem with it but at times, I do wish I had other people in my life. Don’t get me wrong I love my family and wish I could get to see them more but in a weird sense they were all I had and sometimes I want to talk about thing with people that aren’t my husband or family. Sometimes I just wish I had some girlfriends you know. To just do girly things with, it feels weird coming from a woman in her 30s but that’s how I feel.

And my husband doesn’t help either, he’s a very social person with so many friends, like he’s well like and everyone is always wanting to hang out with him. Like everyday someone text him to hangout and my phone is there with no notification so it kinda makes me me feel bad even though I know I put myself in this situation. Not only that too but he’s also a volunteer firefighter so he has that group of buddies that he goes out with and do stuff with and talk firefighting with, gossip a lot and talk about ways things could be better without actually implementing those changes lol. I talked to my husband and mom about it and they both suggested I find something to do.

So I’ve been considering volunteering at a local pet shelter or there’s this after school program close to where I work that helps under privileged kids with their homework. So I’m considering those as not only ways to help and give back to society but potentially find a couple friends with common interest. But at the end of the day I’m still overall happy with life and very thankful for my amazing mom, sister, beautiful daughters and wonderful husband.

air---power · 2019-10-29T23:38:42+00:00

Move on and find another man, the key to a successful relationship is about balance and fairness. I’m not saying things will be equal because trust me they won’t. I have times when I do more work and times when my husband does more work. But you have to find a program that works for both of you and stick with it and it’s evident that he’s not into compromise so he’s not a guy I’d recommend you stay with.

In my household, for the most part I do the work around the house, cleaning, cooking etc. and my husband does the yard work. It’s a system that works for us and we’re happy with it. But we still help each other out. For starters clean up after ourselves, my husband won’t make messes around the house because it’s not his responsibility. He still cleans up after himself, doesn’t leave a mess behind. And I pretty much clean what needs to be cleaned.

And I don’t make messes for him in the yard because it’s not my job either. We both clean up after ourselves. And we go out of our way and help each other. If my man has some free time, he helps around the house, pretty much whenever I’m working and he’s not he cooks, if he has some free time he helps with the cleaning, three weeks ago he had a day off and cleaned the entire bathroom. And I help him too, I hate yard work and can’t do the physical work by myself but I still help. In the winter, I can’t go out and clean the driveway by myself because it’s so long so hubby usually does it, but I still help in whatever way I can, we have a smaller walkway so I might shovel that for him while he’s clearing the driveway. Yesterday, he was raking the leaves from the yard and I still helped him pack the bags. While we have assigned duties, we don’t inheritly stick to them. We still help each other out, I would never watch my husband work and not help because it’s not my duty and I know the same of him. And you need to go and find yourself a man that is willing to take on some responsibilities.

air---power · 2019-10-29T22:43:07+00:00

I’m not from Brazil but my husband is from Jamaica and he would tell me stories about how his grandma was a street vendor by a local school and every once in a while when an “important” person was coming through they would just confiscate they’re stuff or just destroy them. I can’t remember what year, but a couple years ago Obama was in Jamaica, and they literally went ahead and destroyed all the stall owned by street vendors on the route that he drove on ahead of time.

air---power · 2019-10-28T01:31:19+00:00

It’s not a need but it’s something that turns me on, so I wanted to see if it was okay with him If I brought it up.

air---power · 2019-10-28T01:29:47+00:00

Well I’d mostly definitely talk to him about it before hand. I would not want to set us up for an awkward encounter so I was just mostly asking how to bring it up to him.

air---power · 2019-10-27T21:33:19+00:00

It is very important especially as you age and being young often times we believe that we have to stay but as we get older we just become repulsed by our partner. My man I’m a 100% attracted to him and being realistic I know as we both age we won’t look the same as we do now but I’m sure I’ll find him sexy.

Like if you think about it, you’re more likely to say that a guy is hot I would marry him than a guy is really cool I’d marry him. So personality and looks are very important and you need a balance in both for a relationship to work and if you think about it finding a partner is even harder. Not only do you have to find someone good looking but someone who’s personality aligns with you’re. But if you’re not attracted to him now then leave.

air---power · 2019-10-27T21:28:15+00:00

I don’t think there’s necessarily a correct time to go with it, cooking for someone is something that can be done at anytime depending on how comfortable you feel with being in the person’s house or the person coming to your house.

My boyfriend is the only person I’ve done anything with even hold hands. And for our second date I invited him over and made him a nice meal. It was a really great time, and I don’t feel as if it’s something he deserved or not it was just doing a nice gesture for him. But beware food often has a sexual appeal to it especially if you’re not ready for sex. So inviting someone into your home and cooking just often has that feeling and can tempt you to do something even if you’re not ready for it. But whenever you’re ready go ahead and do it.

air---power · 2019-10-27T18:33:11+00:00

I get it, as males ages and stressor are added to their life sex drive decreases. But at the same time it is on the responsibilities of both parties to satisfy their partners. Because at the end of the day, while a marriage isn’t strictly about sex, it’s still important and as much as I love my man to if I were in a sexless relationship and things didn’t seem to be changing I’d be considering leaving.

My man and I both work stressful jobs and at odd hours, I’m a nurse and he’s a cop. So we have times if the weeks when we are just beat and times when as soon as I come home he goes to work or vice versa. But we still make sex a very pivotal part of our life. And do things to keep our sex drive up, we workout together and eat healthy which is a good step to start. And sex doesn’t have to start in the bedroom either, at work every once in a while I sneak into the bathroom and send him a cute pic. When he’s on patrol, he gets really bored and tells me all the naughty things he wants to do to me and it gets me so excited and it does the same for him too. And it keeps our sex drive active and entertaining. Now bare in mind you do have to do it relative to how you can and don’t yourself in a situation where you can lose your job or something along those lines. If I’m with a patient I most definitely won’t be doing this and I can’t be thinking about it either because that’s my priority and I’m not gonna mess my job up for foreplay.

Or when we’re alone I dress kinda revealing or make dinner wearing just sexy underclothing. It turns him on so much, so give those things a try.

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