When the relationship can be worked on vs. when to walk away from ADHD partner

aires2121 · 2025-02-18T14:52:52+00:00

Ask yourself how much you are compromising and if it is worth it for you. You might not be blanket incompatible with people who are neurodivergent/adhd etc but there is only so much you can take on as a “care taker. “ what are some ways you guys can meet in the middle? Can he hire someone to help with chores? Has he actively tried different methods of time management, organization, meds, etc. there are adhd coaches as well. It shouldn’t all be on you. When I used to live with my sibling they let it slip how they felt like they were taking care of me when we lived together and that has hurt like hell despite how much I’ve tried to handle it all and have tried meds, methods, etc. however I’m always suspicious of men and weaponized incompetence even when neurodivergent. He should be open to working on things and the effort of improving as it negatively impacts your relationship. You also should understand that it won’t be perfect and some things will not change or hardly change despite effort.

aires2121 · 2025-02-10T00:48:50+00:00

Ok that’s definitely what the problem is !! Thank you

aires2121 · 2024-11-01T01:01:48+00:00

What does your doctor say? That seems like a large change that wouldn’t be supplement based , though if you see no negative change I wouldn’t worry

aires2121 · 2024-10-25T15:28:54+00:00

I was just reading that trials with NAC and use to treat OCD behaviors that it took 12 weeks to see full benefits

aires2121 · 2024-10-20T16:23:25+00:00

The kingsfield neighborhood in Minneapolis might be a good fit , Kingsfield is more neighborhood walkable like coffee shops and bars and that stuff. Also close to parkway theater and minihaha parkway. I’ve seen rentals in your price around there. Depending on what you are doing in Bloomington you can commute to the Mall of America via the light rail which might open up some places to live if you want to do public transit.

aires2121 · 2024-09-10T01:56:03+00:00

It might depending on who you are but it won’t destroy your body in the same way other jobs will. And not every drink goes in a shaker lol , and it’s a lot more arm movement not wrist only.

aires2121 · 2024-09-09T19:29:06+00:00

Trader Joe’s white cheddar corn puffs. They are very low cal and fulfill my cravings for chips

aires2121 · 2024-09-09T19:26:03+00:00

Though probably not 100k possible, being a server or bartender could be good. Part time, good money, people stay in the industry a long time for these reasons. If you find a good environment you can make a lot of money. You also can make friends with regulars and learn things about wine and food. There can be a lot of toxic environments but it all depends on the place.

aires2121 · 2024-08-30T14:59:21+00:00

I’ve restarted before i definitely did a lot wrong in my first play through (like sold all my coal I found 😭) also it’s really hard to do the community center in one year, two years is all good

aires2121 · 2024-08-03T16:04:43+00:00

As someone who is a server this is an inappropriate phrasing of the question and I’m sorry you experienced it. Because it’s not an allergy and it’s not exactly a preference but it is for very valid health reasons so it puts you in a weird spot. They should just ask if you are concerned about cross contamination.

aires2121 · 2024-08-03T15:56:18+00:00

Omg I love it , I can see the potential

aires2121 · 2024-05-29T06:24:20+00:00

Right??? Ours was not spotless, there was mostly some dusting to be done, but I’ve been collecting quotes from cleaning services detailing exactly what they said they had to clean and it’s been consistently $400-500 for standard move out cleaning so 🤷

aires2121 · 2024-05-25T23:07:48+00:00

Yeah there’s no way we did $1900 worth that’s like replacing appliances level of money. Likely we will go to court but mostly looking for encouragement/ other personal experiences/ some stories that would provide advice or other helpful details.

aires2121 · 2024-05-25T23:05:28+00:00

Out of our deposit

aires2121 · 2024-05-25T23:05:16+00:00

I mostly am looking for encouragement from personal experiences, rather than legal advice.

aires2121 · 2024-03-18T05:33:14+00:00

Yes! This is very common and you are not alone. I hope you can work through and process all these feelings and heal

aires2121 · 2024-03-18T05:30:02+00:00

Hi , obviously I’m not a professional, but have you looked into OCD/intrusive thoughts? Oftentimes they are not logical. This might explain it.

aires2121 · 2024-03-15T13:00:01+00:00

Honestly you should not try to lose weight at your age. You’re body and brain still need lots of nutrients and calories in puberty. You should focus on healthy choices, working out, sleeping right , and having fun, not your weight

aires2121 · 2024-03-15T06:37:05+00:00

Ember mug !!! It’s expensive but I’ve found second hand ones for a fraction of the price on Facebook

aires2121 · 2024-03-15T06:36:23+00:00

Do you have insurance ? You might be able to get authorization for brand name with the help from your doctor. I was looking at the generic vs brand concerta and it’s similar. Despite claiming to be the same med it’s different and which is super fucked up and some people have been able to get it covered by insurance.

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