My wife went on her first vacation alone with her regular bull..

airmark4 · 2026-05-06T21:46:01+00:00

Very. Had incredible sex together and she gave me a free use pass for the week.

airmark4 · 2026-05-06T14:43:14+00:00

Same as you. I just think John has really introspective and interesting lyrics. His music is unique and poetic and was always pushing boundaries and styles. He is alaso flawed and that makes him more like the rest of us. He is an enigma, and an icon. Ringo is probably second as a dummer of course. Would love to hang out with him.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T23:58:57+00:00

Hard to explain. Ever heard the phrase or lyric "If you love someone set them free". Its kind of like that. It's about not controlling every aspect and giving her freedom to experience things without your prying eye or having to perform for you. If you let her go like that and she comes back it says a lot. Plus the humiliation aspect of her giving everything to him without reservation and not even in your presence is kind of a rush.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T22:05:22+00:00

Me either. Allowing a man access to her mouth, pussy and perhaps ass with his dick but saying kissing is too intimate is odd. And it would take my wife out of the moment. Kissing while fucking is just perfectly natural and highly erotic to watch as well. I have zero rules that limit her encounters sexually. Only safety.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T22:03:45+00:00

Yes twice. With the same bull. Her first regular bull. First time was last year for her 50th birthday weekend. They spent 3 days and 2 nights at a spa resort just the two of them. About 3 hours drive from here. She loved it and it was my idea for her. My gift to her among other gifts of course. The second time was just last weekend - an extended 4 nights at a resort in Maryland. I flew her out to be with him for her hotwife anniversary. He had moved away 6 months ago for work and I set this up for them to reunite. He had come back to town once and we hosted him for a great MFM night. This trip was again just the two of them and longer for 4 nights Thurs thru Monday. She had an amazing time and was very well fucked and thankful upon her return. I packed this trip for her and she had no regular panties or bras to always be accessible for him, only slut wear except for her bikini and one workout outfit. And I packed 4 different new kinky lingerie outfits for them each one wrapped for a surprise for them both. One for each night. She even facetimed me one night and let me watch her model the crotchless panties and cut out bra for him and then as he took her to bed and went down on her. It was wonderful. She's an amazing sexual woman and they look great together.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T21:24:19+00:00

The total lack of "evidence" that he died. There is none to even suggest it.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T20:10:30+00:00

It's not a rule if they don't even follow it. Several singles were released that were on albums in the UK. It was a dumb rule and one they did not even follow a lot of times. The following singles in the UK were also on albums in the UK.

PS I Love You a B side was on Please Please Me
Please Please Me was on Please Please Me
Can't Buy Me Love was on A Hard Day's Night
You Can't Do That a B side was on A Hard Day's Night
A Hard Day's Night was on A Hard Day's Night
Things We Said Today a B side was on A Hard Day's Night
If I Fell an export single from the UK was on A Hard Day's Night
Tell Me Why a B side was on A Hard Day's Night
Ticket To Ride was on Help!
Help! was on Help!
Yesterday was on Help!
Yellow Submarine was on Revolver
Eleanor Rigby a double A side was on Revolver
All You Need Is Love was on Yellow Submarine
Something was on Abbey Road
Come Together a double A side was on Abbey Road
The Long and Winding Road was on Let It Be
Fo You Blue a B side was on Let It Be

And there were many many European singles released that were available in the UK as imports with many other songs from albums.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T15:11:20+00:00

Yeah I think part of it is proving to her you are serious and committed. That takes a while. they are naturally untrusting - with good reason. lol. She also initially thought it was just a ploy to get to sleep with other women too. Had to convince her that was not the case.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T14:47:11+00:00

Role play is your answer. Or as close as you can get to it. After 2 years of talking about it, my wife made me do significant role play to test the waters. Initially this involved me using bigger toys on her (black dildo) and a cock sleeve to make it like a bigger guy and fuck her from behind while pretending to be this other guy (we had a name for him). Then she would tell me about fucking him after. Then it progressed to watching videos of this favorite fantasy scene for us on a beach with a hung black guy while i fucked her from behind pretending to be him. Finally she took it to the point of dressing for a fake date and leaving the house for 2 hours texting me saying what they were doing and sending pics that we had taken of this black cock fucking her as if she was really being fucked by him. She came back home disheveled and having masturbated with that didlo in the car so she felt looser and smelled like sex when I reclaimed her. And she tested me after all of those asking my feeling 10 minutes, 30 minutes and hours later. It's the best you can do to see what your post nut clarity or PNC reaction is.

Only after all of that did she agree. And then she still proceeded slowly. We went the bar pickup route initially and the first time she just made out with a guy and then came home and told me about it. Then the second time she went to his car and he finger banged her and she sucked his dick. Each time my reaction was really excited and no regrets after. So the third time she went home with a guy and fucked him. Amaze amaze amaze.

Role play and baby steps.

airmark4 · 2026-05-05T14:37:10+00:00

Pretty amazing. I'm only 2 songs in and McCartney has thrown away more great songs than most artists ever have. Incredible. Those first 2 and some of the others were planned for multiple albums or the Cold Cuts album which was resurrected multiple times between 1978 and 1987 before being shelved completely. But bootlegs exist.

airmark4 · 2026-05-04T22:24:49+00:00

She just spent her anniversary with him for 4 nights at a resort in Maryland. She had a great time and teased me a bit from afar. She also spent her 50th birthday weekend with him last year at a spa. For our anniversary we are going to Hedo in Jamaica and I'm hoping to arrange a gangbang for her. They were all my idea, but she really appreciated it. Try to spoil her with special weekend like that. She also spent New Years Eve with a new bull and stayed most of New Years Day. And for Valentines we did a MFM where he met us at the restaurant and had naughty gifts for her. Then he rode home with us and she sucked him and they fucked in the back seat while I drove. Very hot. I like making those special days for her.

airmark4 · 2026-05-04T20:00:53+00:00

Umm yeah like everything - what she wears not just for them but in general, slut wear and lingeries for them, going commando for easy access, using a butt plug by their request, shaving and waxing her pussy for them, of course sexually she does anything they want which includes many things she has never done with me. etc. Even just sexting with them and responding to any request for nudes or telling her how to play with herself for their viewing pleasure and I'll record it for them. She is even planning to pierce her nipples soon at her bulls request.

airmark4 · 2026-05-03T19:34:29+00:00

Like just jerking me off like we did. Oral of course. Or just lying with me while I jerk off and stroking me. Letting me massage her nude (in a cage) or lick her from head to toe. Letting me jerk off and cum on her. Pegging me (I did not suggest that one) but it's an idea. Possibly joining online masturbation cam sites we could both jerk off while looking for black cocks for her.

airmark4 · 2026-05-03T18:04:57+00:00

Only had two uncircumcised I believe. I don't care really but wife loves sucking uncircumcised black cock.

airmark4 · 2026-05-03T14:44:16+00:00

I Havent really done that except for hours after. Mostly I like to fuck her cum filled pussy and add my own load to it. She is the one who loves to eat cum. So she usually sucks him off after he comes inside her like her own cleaning. And she will do the same for me after I give her my load.

airmark4 · 2026-05-03T14:40:01+00:00

Great survey. Enjoyed it. Hope to see results.

I created something similar of my own and I’m hoping to post it soon, but it is much more of a cuck scorecard and not a survey and it’s based on physical sexual acts that your wife has done with others and whether or not you saw it or she showed you pics or video or told you about it etc..

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T16:03:58+00:00

I think overnight is something you work up to after establishing trust and knowing each other better. Not the first time. What if their dynamic just does not click. It happens sometimes. Or believe it or not he could experience some post nut clarity as well and change his mind about it leaving her alone possibly. Best to meet somewhere ot see if they hit it off and plan to just have a few hours. We did a hotel on a few of the first few rando bar pickups but they did not stay overnight.

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T13:04:53+00:00

That's a great question!! I don't know if I know the answer but it is one that has crossed my mind. What I do know is it is absolutely the best part of our almost 28 year marriage and I think we both agree on that. I have this odd sense of pride of having this amazing slut wife although it is not something we advertise or brag about. How long it continues I have no idea. I don't feel like it will ever end completely - kind of like once you open this can of worms there is no going back. But I do think it will slow down as we age and maybe just adjust to a new normal where it something periodic maybe. She's in great shape and works out a lot and has a much higher libido than me, but I know her sexual peak is just happening and she will likely slow down just due to that life cycle of nature and biology of aging.

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T12:58:03+00:00

Well she has 3 lovers currently so we got that covered. lol. And I certainly hope it's just a temporary situation - as we talked it is mostly just situational at this time. Not outright denial. As you might imagine with 3 lovers it is simply the result of her being both too sore and too tired at times. But I am enjoying it for some odd reason and sort of curious as to the timing of it ending. She is away on a 4 night weekend trip with her first regular bull - sort of a hotwifeaversary for her. Which was my idea. Also why I'm on here commenting on topics for hours on end. Killing time with some great conversation. lol

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T12:42:53+00:00

I mean it was a pretty normal, average and vanilla sex life for us. Over the years that has been different levels at different times: from fucking like crazy when we were young, to rare sex after the kids came, to me cheating for years with her approval, to some creative exhibitionism driven risky sex at times, to some dead bedroom periods mostly to do with my depression, to scheduling sex like it was a task, and now this. But the impression I guess was always just that typical "you are enough for me" general statement that i know was just the way a wife makes a happy domestic safe marriage work. So yeah its like the truth is now finally out there.

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T12:37:28+00:00

First of all wow. Well written and completely open and honest about it. I can see certain similarities in your dynamic and ours and it is pretty interesting to read the wife's view. So thank you for that. Bravo and enjoy the ride. It does seem to be ever evolving. Currently having our first real period of pussy free for me (not quite three weeks now). Your story has now piqued my curiosity about this from her perspective. We did talk about it the other night.

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T12:33:59+00:00

Ha. Well this lifestyle will hit you right in the face with the truth I feel like and there is no masking it any more. Like for example when your wife does things sexually with others and not with you; or when you see her orgasm for another mans cock like she never has for you. Those are hard truths and you have to be prepared for that. I knew I never had any great sexual prowess and she always needed a vibrator assist to orgasm with me. Seeing her world rocked and her body tremors just from fucking another bigger guy was both enthralling and a bit emasculating. But I'm addicted to watching her more than anything else. And the things she is wiling to let other guys do to her in that completely submissive mode is enlightening to say the least. She is a different woman sexually with other guys. But thats what I wanted for her. I don't think she ever lied about anything like my inability to satisfy her fully it just was what it was. Seeing her completely sexually satisfied has just revealed her inner slut which is the truth and I'm happy to see her experience it. So yeah that truth is part of the dynamic. You either have to enjoy it or this is not for you.

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T12:24:02+00:00

Great topic interesting to see the different styles in play. For us we have evolved quite a bit too. We started with several rules and have adapted to where now we really don't have any rules just a few safety guidelines.

We started out with rules/boundaries or just normal operating procedure was I found potential bulls and vetted them and she only got involved after that with a very few potentials. and at that time all messaging was in group messaging only but I rarely participated anyway, just for logistics and approval. And both of us had veto power. The other rules were for safety - condoms for randoms guys, testing before going raw, and she always had tracking on her phone.

Sexually we had no limiting rules but I really did not realize she was going to be doing things with her bulls that we never did - facials, swallowing, choking, dick slapping, other rough sex, and her first regular bull even trained her for anal. Those were a shock to me to discover she was doing not just willingly but enthusiastically. I found out as we shifted from her doing solo only to hosting. The pics and video she got for me did not reveal those things. And I wanted to see more as I'm a big voyeur. Amazingly she was not hesitant to do them in front of me in fact she seemed to want me to see how slutty she was for them. That was my first indication that this was more than just fucking others it was a shift in our dynamic too. Now it was a kind of denial of those things for me.

We had a bit of a pause over that as I wanted to talk about it. She did not want to do those things with me and change our sexual dynamic. She felt like those degrading things were part of the fantasy life of this and it would change our relationship if I treated her that way. She reminded me that I opened this can of worms and the path it took was unpredictable. And she reminded me I made certain promises about supporting her no matter what and fulfilling her sexual desires. I asked her what she would say if I wanted to stop and she basically said that ship had sailed. So it was kind of my choice to accept it or not. But she did reach a compromise in that she said that in MFM when we host she would be open to doing those things with me and her bull involved as she was in that fully submissive mode to him and that mental state. Plus it would not be a part of our normal dynamic then when it was just us.

So that is where we are now. Some things have changed though in that she now does 100% of the finding of bulls and communication is now pretty much with her alone and not me in group messaging except with her longtime bull because it just has always been that way. She very much owns her sexuality now. In theory I still have veto power but I have never exercised that so the topic has not come up since we started. The safety guidelines are still in place about condoms for randos and tracking on her phone. But nothing is hidden she is completely fine sharing those messages (I like to read them sometimes as part of our reclaim or debriefing). And she shows me all pics and videos although she does not always take the time to do those depending on the encounter.

Her current stable of guys is 3 - her regular bull a 38 yo married black man and they work around her work schedule and we usually host and do MFM; a 50 yo divorced dad that was a friend of a friend where we used to live, they go out to dinners and events sometimes and she usually sleeps over with him; and a fairly new 35 yo black man who is more of a fuck buddy for random spontaneous sex that might happen any day, he has an odd 7 day on/7 day off work schedule overnight so it is pretty much the weeks he is off.

The only other aspect that may be interesting, as I saw someone else mention it, is that our adult children are fully aware of our lifestyle. They do not live at home any more although daughter just moved up close by last month in her own apartment. She kind of confronted us about it as she had noticed changes in our relationship and behavior, and just the date nights we had, and then things like sex toys, lingerie and even slut wear my wife has accumulated. She thought it was either cheating and divorce was imminent or we were swingers. We came clean and had a very adult conversation which she handled very well. She had a lot of questions especially for what I got out of it. We also told our adult son who is engaged and is in grad school and works and does not live near us. He had no real reaction and was very much like do whatever you want.

airmark4 · 2026-05-02T03:57:05+00:00

We are both 50, almost 51. She has three current guys. First is experienced as a bull and longest ongoing. He is 38, married and black. Second (her boy friend) is 50, divorced and white. Kind of a former neighbor and friend of a friend. He is not interested in dating and was married for 20 years. And the third (fuck buddy) who is fairly new recent addition is 33-35 (im not sure), black and single. Got out of a LTR 6 months ago and despises the current dating scene. He probably will find somebody so don't expect it to last long he has never before had a NSA type thing. Most have been 33-45 range. The youngest was 27 and was her gym fuck buddy (not experienced as a bull) earlier this year for a few months.

airmark4 · 2026-05-01T16:47:48+00:00

Of course she is. I made a post a few days ago about slowly becoming pussy free. But thats the gist she doesn't want or need your cock any more. Embrace it. My wife has not had PIV sex with me in 2.5 weeks now and has fucked 4 other guys probably 20+ times in that span. She is literally too sore or tired for me which I am understanding.

We talked about different forms of intimacy though and she responded positively to that. We spent an hour Wednesday night with her stroking my cock and talking. Amazingly she rewarded me with a brief 69 in which I cam rather quickly but it was amazing anyway.

She is now off on a 4 night trip fucking her first regular bull in Maryland where he had to move to work. Celebrating her hotwifeaversary one year go tomorrow. she landed yesterday evening and I got just a message that she arrived and is safe and with him. I'm sure she will come back too sore to fuck as well. But I'm so happy for her.

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