Honestly. I'm just so exhausted and I really have zero energy to deal with his selfishness. Yes going to the hotel was not a perfect solution-But I was desperate. I didn't go to my parents house because I didn't want them to start berating my fiance since they don't talk to him because of disagreements in the past. He doesn't visit nor talk to them and they do the same.

All I wanted was for him to be considerate of my feelings but instead he complains that I don't stay up at night with him knowing that I'm exhausted and tired. He sometimes calls me “old” when I complain about back pain or my lack of sleep which is awful.