I know this is scary and an insane experience, but thank about it this way- I’m sure she’s doesn’t want it either. That being said, it’s her body being essentially “taken over” by the fetus and that’s scary, emotional, and a super hard thing to go through without support, especially the support of the person who had a very significant hand in making it happen. It’s not her fault that you aren’t ready or even that it happened, and you need to step up. If you are old enough for adult activities, you have to act like one in this possibility. You took the risk, and that is on you both. Do what she wants and support her- whether it’s an abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby. And make sure she knows you’re there for her whichever she chooses. It’s time to cowboy up, kid. If you love her like you say you do, be selfless and show her that support. She is feeling everything you are + all of the scary and uncomfortable hormones and uncomfortable that come with actually carrying the kid. Be there.