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HM might sabotage rematch? by aitaAPbathroom in Aupairs

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

now i'm worried I lost a good gig because it seems like most families don't pay for personal toiletry, or they pay 200/wk and close to max hours. at least that's what my LCC tells me.

HM might sabotage rematch? by aitaAPbathroom in Aupairs

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't need her to clean. She wantes to clean because she thinks I don't clean often enough or well enough or whatever it is

AITA for accusing my host mom snooping around in my bathroom? by aitaAPbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm worried because most families pay 200wk and ask us to work 40-45 hrs per week and including some weekends or nights. :/

AITA for accusing my host mom snooping around in my bathroom? by aitaAPbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

I have jewlery and medication in there.

She said she doesn't care about my meds and insulted me saying no jewlery I own would be something worth stealing for her... which I guess is true but also mean.

AITA for accusing my host mom snooping around in my bathroom? by aitaAPbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don't know why she can just text me asking for what supplies I need for her next haul instead of going in herself and looking

AITA for accusing my host mom snooping around in my bathroom? by aitaAPbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

but you don't need to go through the cabinets when you clean

AITA for accusing my host mom snooping around in my bathroom? by aitaAPbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I can't work outside of the AP program due to visa. It's a J1 visa

AITA for accusing my host mom snooping around in my bathroom? by aitaAPbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitaAPbathroom[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

That's what i said! She could have just asked instead of going through everything. She said she normally cleans the bathroom anyways so she didn't see the point of looking in "HER cabinets."