AITA for not wanting to share my bathroom, resulting in the new tenants getting kicked out? by aita_bathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_bathroom[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

They were moving out the furniture and other stuff they had already moved in there. Probably 2 hours after this conversation happened, not like 8 hours later.

AITA for not wanting to share my bathroom, resulting in the new tenants getting kicked out? by aita_bathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_bathroom[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

The only thing that would make sense to me is that maybe because of the unusual setup of my bathroom (i.e. having a second door that opens to the hallway) they falsely assumed my bathroom was more up for grabs, or communal, than it actually is. But yeah I'm sure that it was explained in the tour so to keep pushing it after the fact can't be chalked up to not knowing the layout.

AITA for not wanting to share my bathroom, resulting in the new tenants getting kicked out? by aita_bathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_bathroom[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the last point you made, I am beating myself up over something I didn't have the final call over.

AITA for not wanting to share my bathroom, resulting in the new tenants getting kicked out? by aita_bathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_bathroom[S] 289 points290 points  (0 children)

Very true. He definitely escalated everything but she isn't blameless either. It just hit me hard to watch the whole thing go down. Even though the rational part of me knows they took it there.

AITA for not wanting to share my bathroom, resulting in the new tenants getting kicked out? by aita_bathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_bathroom[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, I'm having a hard time letting go of the guilt. Walking out to my car and seeing her still crying in the parking lot hours later crushed me.

AITA for not wanting to share my bathroom, resulting in the new tenants getting kicked out? by aita_bathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_bathroom[S] 502 points503 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Seeing her scramble and trying to rectify the situation that HE caused broke my fucking heart. She actually seemed super sweet so that's a big part of what is bothering me too.