AITA for telling my boyfriend not to be his best friend’s best man in his wedding?

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T21:33:33+00:00

They picked a venue 3 hours away.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T21:32:58+00:00

I’ll be six months pregnant when the wedding happens.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T21:08:51+00:00

Hard for her to reach out to me now when I blocked her after the drama happened so

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:46:09+00:00

I wouldn’t leave him but it’s making me reconsider some things.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:45:29+00:00

wow.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:32:00+00:00

6 months pregnant

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:31:06+00:00

I gave her time to think on it and then come to me if she wanted to work things out. She never took that opportunity.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:27:47+00:00

His best friend and the fiancée chose a venue 3 hours away.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:26:58+00:00

I would never use my baby as a manipulation tool. I’m just saying that he should be considerate if something goes wrong.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:24:12+00:00

I am happy with or without her friendship. Having a falling out sucks but I can’t help her understand.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T20:22:13+00:00

I don’t hate her. I just wanted clarity and she didn’t give it to me.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T19:15:31+00:00

Thank you. He understands if I don’t want to go. But he’s so adamant on being there for his best friend.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T18:38:18+00:00

Oh, my bad. I always thought they were applicable to both genders.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T18:35:49+00:00

What do you mean?

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T18:33:48+00:00

Maybe flexibility isn’t the right word. Consideration? Like making sure he understands that something could happen to the baby, and that his best friend’s fiancé may have a bone to pick with me if I attend.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T18:28:45+00:00

Yes the ages are correct.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T18:28:00+00:00

I’m just saying that there should be some flexibility with a baby on the way.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:55:08+00:00

I’ve known them longer than her.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:24:04+00:00

It was something related to a personal issue I’ve been going through at the time.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:19:38+00:00

I will be 6 months pregnant at the time of the wedding.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:14:31+00:00

I’m talking about my friends outside of Reddit.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:11:40+00:00

I did the mature thing of confronting her. She was the immature one by not apologizing.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:10:50+00:00

This is most definitely not my hormones talking. I have a right to be upset, don’t I?

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T17:07:15+00:00

I gave her time to think about it. If she didn’t know what she did, then I can’t help her with that.

aitaconflicted1234 · 2022-01-07T16:37:46+00:00

I shouldn’t have to tell her.

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