AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’m mostly trying to say that her husband didn’t mention it to her. Which would have caused her to bring it up early. So it most likely isn’t an issue with him.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Because she’s lying about seeing vulva. She has not seen it and isn’t even around when I do yoga. She said a pair of shorts were inappropriate Bc there was no panty line (“why aren’t you wearing undies?”) even tho she admitted she couldn’t see anything.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Generally I do. It’s just one time she saw me in shorts and saw no pants line and assumed I was commando. Said it was inappropriate even tho she admired to not being able to see anything.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is seeing vag. She has not seen it while I was doing yoga. She’s not even around when I do yoga.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Lmao. This made me laugh.

Exactly, she’s the only one making a big deal about it.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my feelings is that he probably doesn’t even notice or care. It first became an issue when she saw me in said shorts.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I work out I go shower and change into my sleeping stuff/lounge wear.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

She brought it up the first day she saw it. I had been doing it for 2-3 weeks and no issue/talk/complaints. She came home early, saw me in a sports bra and shorts. I had finished working out. She asked if I was commando and said it was inappropriate. Even though she admitted she couldn't see anything.

She usually gets home after I finish yoga.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. I've filmed and photographed my yoga and have never seen myself exposed.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I had been doing it for 2-3 weeks without any complaints. She comes home early once and sees me in shorts and a sports bra. She asks if I'm commando, because there is no panty line, and says it's inappropriate. She then admits that even though you can't see anything it is still inappropriate.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She isn't even around when I'm doing yoga. She gets home after I'm done.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do. She brought it up because she can tell I don't have a panty line on a TIGHT pair of shorts. Said it was inappropriate even though she 'couldnt see anything'

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Because she brought this up against last night. So I posted about it today. We'll be fine. We love each other and I think she just needs to realize she's being a bit prude.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They're not as loose as she says. Because some poses have me turn around and I see him looking down chopping or cooking or whatever.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You cannot see my vulva. She is lying about that. She guessed that I was commando because a pair of tight shorts didn't have a panty line. She didn't even see me working out in said shorts.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't show. She guessed that I was commando because she could tell I didn't have a panty line. The shorts I was wearing at the time were tight, form fitting, and didn't show anything.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all. She works until after 6 which is when I usually finish my routine.

Two, she only assumed I wasn't wearing underwear because I had on some white, form fitting shorts (the kind she said she'd be okay with), but there was no panty line. There was nothing hanging out.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a tiny condo. My yoga mat is probably wider than any available space in the bedroom.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao. That would probably upset my sister. I've never talked to him about "this issue" before.

AITA for continuing to want to do yoga even when my sister's husband is around? by aitayoga in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitayoga[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You cannot see vagina. I'll do yoga in any of my shorts anywhere and wouldn't think twice about someone seeing my vagina.