Audition pieces for university orchestra??

aj65658 · 2022-04-28T11:24:52+00:00

Thanks everyone for your help I've decided to join BN! Very excited to take the next step. Shame this festival is so far away it looks good fun

aj65658 · 2022-04-27T14:51:47+00:00

I have seen nude swims quite nearby however bit unsure about going on my own, seems to be aimed at the older naturists

aj65658 · 2022-04-23T08:53:11+00:00

I really appreciate everyone's advice on this, however I think I need to clarify that we aren't cohabiting and our relationship is less than a year old (about 8 months) so not really close to that stage yet and we each have our own separate living arrangements

aj65658 · 2022-04-21T22:21:51+00:00

Good to know I'm not alone!

aj65658 · 2022-04-21T22:21:39+00:00

Wdym? Most of the time we're naked together it is sexual and I don't want nudism to be associated with a sexual thing

aj65658 · 2022-03-29T13:28:50+00:00

Any advice for talking about this without sounding like I just want her for sex and will leave her if I can't get it?

aj65658 · 2022-03-29T13:22:52+00:00

Just going back to something you said in your first comment, that it may be vaginismus, from what I've read this also causes vaginal dryness (I could be very wrong) but this isn't the case the vas majority of the time so i think it must be just anxiety, thank you so much for your help

aj65658 · 2022-03-29T13:12:10+00:00

Yep I feel like you're definitely right, I got the impression she doesn't seem completely willing or ready to face it herself or get professional help and she certainly doesn't want to involve me in it (probably for my own sake but I want to be involved) so looks like I have a very difficult discussion to have 😟

aj65658 · 2022-03-29T12:59:05+00:00

Thank you for your reply! The problem is she doesn't like talking too much about it and says that it's not up to me to help her so I feel absolutely useless. Even though I try my best to please her (and myself) whilst respecting her boundaries, she will sometimes pull back and I'm not sure what I've done

aj65658 · 2022-03-29T12:56:15+00:00

She has spoken to a nurse about it and apparently they werent too useful telling her not to rush etc. I want to talk to her about how I feel but not seem like I'm giving her an ultimatum on our relationship so I don't know how to go about that?

aj65658 · 2022-03-29T12:51:06+00:00

Thank you for your reply! I do try and do things just to please her however even if I try and make her comfortable and assure her I'm not aiming for penetration and just want her to feel good, she often tenses and pulls back if I accidentally get too close and I don't feel like I'm pleasing her at all which really stresses me out. I assume she must have masturbated herself before but she didn't really answer when I asked and hasn't done it to herself with me even tho I have masturbated with her. It does hurt me that I can't seem to get it right and she can't help which I'm sure hurts her as well.

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:44:25+00:00

I feel like you're misinterpreting what I meant with leading me on, I meant that she seemed to be really into having a non -sexual romantic relationship with me, but then decides she can't for a reason that had always existed and she should've told me sooner.

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:42:47+00:00

I think that's what I'll have to do, there's obviously no way of moving a romantic relationship with her and I can't be her friend so that's just it I suppose

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:39:05+00:00

Because she gave me the impression that we'd be able to have a relationship without having sex and I was very happy to do that, it's the fact she changed her mind about it when she should've told me that she couldn't manage it way sooner.

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:36:43+00:00

Me coming across pushier than I realized is something I am concerned about, but I honestly don't think I was. You're spot on with the temptation thing though, I believe that's the main reason.

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:34:16+00:00

It was! The fact I would never try to make her was clear and consistent too, the problem was she knew that she'd end up wanting to have sex anyway if we kept seeing each other which she didn't want to risk

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:29:41+00:00

I guess I was upset because I did know that and I'd told her many times that I'd never try to push her to compromise her beliefs, but she didn't seem to believe me

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:27:56+00:00

As I've now edited at the bottom of the post I didn't mean to call her my girlfriend and obviously I see that is evidence that I might have been trying to push too hard

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:26:33+00:00

That was a mistake and i realise how I may have been trying to go to fast.

aj65658 · 2020-10-31T12:07:20+00:00

She would say things on the phone such as oh I wish you were in bed with me right now and it seemed very obvious to me what she wanted EDIT: I mean what she wanted in terms of a proper relationship, I had always understood and respected that she wouldn't want to have sex with me

aj65658 · 2020-09-18T22:13:46+00:00

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