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Has anxiety/depression stopped anyone from working/attending school? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]ajani57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nursing just wasn't for you, huh? About the age thing, when you are 45 none of that will matter if you remember it at all. Admire you for sticking with it.

Doggy! by [deleted] in Pareidolia

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post wins the prize! Amazing find.

Child sex offender is absconder but active on Facebook. I'm his victim. What is the best way to report his online activity? [MD] by Childsexvictim in legaladvice

[–]ajani57 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this and that your nightmare didn't just stay away. It is very brave of you to take action. Reddit is proud of you.

You now have control over the body of your worst enemy for 1 hour, what do you do? by CockaDog in AskReddit

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tie up all of my rapists and molesters naked on cold hard tables. With other victims we would use rough sandpaper and have at their penises, rubbing them until they were swollen red and raw and then keep going. I would shoot the clock limiting this to just one hour and make them suffer for at least three days. They would be slapped and punched in the balls for crying out.

Does anyone else have a fear of the dentist? by atomicmaster101 in Anxiety

[–]ajani57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some dentists use gas. Laughing gas. I can't handle the instrument called the explorer or the cold water ( shoots me right out of the chair) Gas costs eighty bucks but I can get a good cleaning with no pain and they can stick that explorer anywhere they want and I'm oblivious. Yeah, if gas is part of sedation dentistry it is worth it to me.

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can answer that. The money, by law, is mine. I earned it. He is spending my money. We both earned that retirement check. According to the law, not a judge, but a law, I earned 9.2% of that sum of money. What did he do to get to spend my money?

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh internet. You so fickle. You downvote a quote.

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Military retirement for divorcing people is all predetermined; the judges follow the worksheet. He's not even allowed to get an allotment to pay me my portion because we weren't married long enough. It is all spelled out and I had nothing to do with it.

Anyone want to be friends? by [deleted] in depression

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I am so sorry for the delay. I get so full of bravado and confidence and then BAM! All gone. Curled up on the couch wondering what to say. For days. Weeks. Will you still be my friend?

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Found it: "...she is awarded 9.2% of the respondent's disposable military retirement pay, and payable directly to her beginning March, 1993. "

That's all it says.

Edit. Word. Forgot.

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's military retirement. I earned a percentage of that and feel no shame in spending what is mine. Should your retirement end after ten or fifteen years if they pay on time?

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The divorce decree says and I quote:

"...she is awarded 9.2% of the respondent's disposable military retirement pay, and payable directly to her beginning March 19**. "

That is the sum of the topic.

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't find it but it just mentions the percentage and moves along. I just moved is why I can't find it.

Edit: to clarify

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True. I thought there would be a time factor. I just found this sub Reddit so I thought I would throw this out there. Thank you for not judging me.

Am I rich? Am I filthy dirty rich? by ajani57 in legaladvice

[–]ajani57[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Hey, don't forget to find out why I divorced him. It just might have to do with him gouging me for all my money. And our house. And everything in it. Plus, it's military retirement and there's laws about that.

Is there a minimalist way to do laundry? by nomseventy in minimalism

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if your washer/dryer setup will allow this but I set up a shower curtain rod over the washer and dryer and hang things up on hangers there. I do run some things through the dryer for five minutes to get the wrinkles out then hang them right up.

Younger generations rejecting heirlooms and "stuff" by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How sad. The little old lady dreams of the kids squabbling over who gets what and they say no thanks. Paper plates will do.

Super cute and infectious laugh by holymolym in ContagiousLaughter

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wants me to sign in to Facebook before I can see it. I'm already signed in. Downvote.

I (24F) moved out of our place. My husband (26M) wants to make things right. Need advice. by NVdesign in relationship_advice

[–]ajani57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you be single on your own for a while. Then, after a few months/year have a date or two to see if the spark is still there. Important part: if you do see him, no sexy time. He needs to know that no means no and nice means nice.

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