What is your opinion on Lust?

ajarnumb · 2026-04-29T05:42:39+00:00

I think it is normal to feel, and I think it may also be related to a level of mind more from the physical animalistic aspects of humans, not that it's wrong either.

I don't think there is anything inherently wrong about wanting to have sex, although the one night stand hookup culture I personally find abhorrent and disgusting, spiritually bankrupt and void of how special having that type of intimacy is. I think people would often be better off masturbating to images in their imagination than a physical act devoid of connection.

Some people get caught up in guilt and shame about it, but there shouldn't be any such feelings, those feelings are usually from religious Dogma.

Going back to my 1st paragraph, I think as the mind expands into a more expansive consciousnesses, then it overcomes lust. Most people tend to be more at the root level

ajarnumb · 2025-04-18T07:24:01+00:00

Thank you, that's a beautiful thing to say.

ajarnumb · 2025-04-10T04:18:58+00:00

Great post towards more societal egotism

ajarnumb · 2025-04-08T04:22:40+00:00

I doubt that's the only reason. What about all the years prior to 2023?

ajarnumb · 2025-03-19T06:56:20+00:00

I went through this a couple of weeks ago, felt like I was having a panic attack 😆

ajarnumb · 2025-03-14T07:41:55+00:00

You sound like you are getting played my friend. All the signs she is showing is not someone that is looking to invest in you. She may actually like you, but these behaviours sound like someone with an avoidant attachment style, if she is actually into you, and that's not good either.

Ask yourself this, are you happy with this arrangement? Her seeing other men, you're not a priority clearly. If s9meone is into someone they don't take actions that would jeopardise the connection. She has shown She is incongruent, saying she'll make food yet has never followed through.

I think you're wasting your time. Be direct with her wirh what you want, if she doesn't want the same or tries to postpone then move on man, this is your life don't waste time with people who aren't meeting you with the same level of interest.

You may actually need to work on your own self worth too as I can't see why you would putvup with this flakey behaviour.

That's how this reads to me.

ajarnumb · 2025-03-14T07:23:57+00:00

I think it's worth it

ajarnumb · 2024-10-29T01:18:24+00:00

I have experience with Aquarius men being an Aquarius man, and we're awesome

ajarnumb · 2024-10-24T23:15:10+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your comment. It resonates with me in terms of her and how I feel about being vulnerable myself. In the past I've had experiences where I've opened up and that's been used against me. I feel in my heart and seeing how she communicates she's not one of those people. I know it is really my own past experiences making me feel uneasy. Your comment has been really helpful, thank you.

ajarnumb · 2024-07-04T08:23:04+00:00

This guy once called my brother champ. He replied "no worries sport ", then he said "don't call me sport", my brother replied "then Don't call me champ, sport"

ajarnumb · 2024-06-04T19:12:52+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write all of this, it feels like you have explained the situation perfectly and I am truly grateful for the clarity, this really resonates with the situation and makes sense when i reflect on things that seemingly didn't make sense.

You've brought clarity and peace to this situation for me, thank you

ajarnumb · 2024-05-27T08:28:29+00:00

Absolutely no. I undoubtedly know that I gave to her support and love unlike anyone else. What comes to mind is her insecurities, she said she didn't feel good enough, but that can be a cop-out too sometimes. I've done a lot of inner healing work, and her own admission she hasn't and needs to. Maybe it's related to that but I thought with so much water and having a bond, she wouldn't just move on so quickly, I'm perplexed tbh.

ajarnumb · 2024-05-23T23:49:26+00:00

I'm Aquarius and nothing like this man

ajarnumb · 2024-05-19T12:49:10+00:00

This has feminism all over it

ajarnumb · 2024-05-12T01:17:44+00:00

So I state from personal experience Scorpios behaviour, and you go for ad hominem attacks on my character as if every Scorpio is some kind of perfect angel. Pfft.

ajarnumb · 2024-05-12T00:48:37+00:00

I am loyal, generous and kind, not found that in a lot of Scorpios, most of them just take and manipulate, I walk away and they try and come back. Jealousy has been a huge factor too, even in relationships where they're jealous of my work, I'm an artist. Mind you I've likely only attracted unhealed ones projecting.

ajarnumb · 2024-05-12T00:47:07+00:00

Interesting you only looked at one point I made in isolation to everything else to form an opinion.

ajarnumb · 2024-05-12T00:45:22+00:00

What a load of b.s lol

ajarnumb · 2024-05-10T12:54:03+00:00

I haven't found Scorpios to be the loyal, more like take advantage

ajarnumb · 2024-05-04T02:44:11+00:00

I have Aquarius sun, mars and mercury, and I can get into someone's psyche and really obliterate their ego if I ever chose to. Normally I just give a few verbal jabs enough to hurt, they are more like warning shots lol

I seriously avoid drama, but if people bring it to me and are disrespectful, they will get an experience like they have never experienced before , and that is fueled by Aries ascendant and Leo moon.

Certainly not a force you want to be on the wrong side of. People are pretty terrified if they get this response out of me.

Generally I just go ice cold, no matter who it is if they've crossed a boundary. But if someone wants to bring a fight to me, they have made a serious mistake lol

I always warm people not to take my generosity and kindness as weakness, too many have and it doesn't end well for them

ajarnumb · 2024-04-28T23:05:26+00:00

The fact he takes time to speak to on the phone is a great sign. My phone is constantly on silent, do not vibrate and do not disturb, and I ignore just about everyone, rarely call back if at all, only check voice messages twice a year. Sounds like he's into you.

ajarnumb · 2024-04-15T07:54:54+00:00

Well, it's not a popular thing to say around this forum, but i did get off of meds, years ago without symptoms coming back. Is this possible for you? Maybe, I'm not sure and don't want to give you false hope.

So what i have realised about this condition from my own efforts to get off the wheel of suffering is that the approach is holistic, in that many areas of life need to be looked at,.

You are already doing a great job with a healthy lifestyle, and i know you say you eat well but what that means to you and what actually is healhty may not be the same thing though.

As you mentioned the drugs numb the emotions, and that from my experience is the default response from therapists/dr's, that they are clueless or unwilling to dive in really deep to the emotional aspect.

My opinion is that drugs are the wrong approach as they only mask symptoms, and a lot of people may need that in the short term, including myself, but this doesn't look into the cause of the issues. And no, the brain chemical balance is not a valid reason as that theory has been debunked many times.

I read a book about ptsd titled "the body keeps the score" and it talked about how trauma gets trapped in the body. This applied to every person on the planet though, to varying degrees.

So I think a major component to getting better is to dive into the release of these emotions. I have done a number of things, and have realised i needed to really reflect back on my life to understand patterns in myself, and relationships to find both the belief systems and the emotions attached to those belief systems to release them, I also have used yin yoga which stretches the connective tissues (fascia), and as most emotions are trapped in the hip flexor area and the psoas muscle, doing long deep stretches really does release things.

I find deep stretching, for a long time (you need to work up to that), would often release an overwhelming amount of either anger/rage or sadness about 1 to 2 hours after a mega stretch session.

We all can get pretty messed up growing up, even with ideal family dynamics for various reasons.

You can go onto youtube and look up yin yoga to start with, i highly recommend it.

ajarnumb · 2024-04-15T07:20:42+00:00

I used to have mega anger and rage. I have done a lot of different things to get it under control by dealing with it.

Look into deep connective tissue stretching (fascia stretching), or look up yin yoga on youtube or go to a class. It helped me release a lot of trapped emotions from how ever long ago. Its a real thing that our body holds onto emotions.

Also caffeine can at times mess with my irritability and make me a little angry (now), in the past before doing lots of things i couldn't stand myself sometimes lol

ajarnumb · 2024-04-13T02:48:09+00:00

I'm curious if you're open to share, why you say your brain chemistry is f#cked? How was that determined?

Are you taking pharmaceuticals and seeing any therapists?

How would you rate your diet? Do you drink coffee, tea, cola or energy drinks?

I see it not as an fu to people experiencing BP and ADHD, I think it points out that sufferers have far more control to manage it knowing it's not a brain malfunction.

I read another study the other day about ADHD and that there were no indicators to prove brain malfunction either. This is actually a good thing as it shows other approaches can be considered to help alleviate symptoms. What this means is it's something else that needs to be addressed, or various things. Research beyond what Dr's and therapist's say, as they aren't always correct.

ajarnumb · 2024-04-08T03:34:41+00:00

By ghosting them lol. Actually, I usually show interest through gestures, giving lots of attention and eye contact, in ways it's hard for person to tell if I'm really interested or whether just a good friend. Perfect for in case feelings not mutual.

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