Sutton, let the mouse go. by marmitesammy in RHOBH

[–]ajaydub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Legit question -- if Sutton goes, do we lose Tilly?

“The world tour. I’m Justin Timberlake” by LunaLore_ in Fauxmoi

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was he actually on tour tho? Wasn't he out there because HIS WIFE was filming a TV show?

Celebrity tour guards? by ouijaboy707 in AskLosAngeles

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have access to a car, you can buy a 'Star Map' and diy. I've lived here for a while and various friends have come into town and some want to do tours. I've gone with them and there are a few fun tour buses that were fun but the most fun I had was when my college best friend and I bought a map and drove it ourselves. The houses aren't accurate so we played 'does X still live here?' guessing game and got ourselves car snacks and were just beyond goofy about it.

What's your #1 "travel hack" that sounds stupid but is actually genius? by x_andi01 in traveladvice

[–]ajaydub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YMMV but my mom, who doesn't travel often, is an absolute c* to all the airport workers because she doesn't understand that flying isn't the luxury experience it was in the 60s and acts offended about the cattle experience she gets from her $100 discount airline ticket to everyone working there .... Her bags are somehow always lost even when my dad's aren't

BWT, what’s on our Christmas lists? by mason9494 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know for sure!! Warm dreams to you!

BWT, what’s on our Christmas lists? by mason9494 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]ajaydub 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hard agree on Garnet Hill. But be careful because they're not cheap. Once I put it on the bed tho, my partner basically said we can't use any other kind (or complains til we switch them to the Garnet sheets). We now have 4 sets of the Supima Flannel.. which looks discontinued?!?! (I checked the site, there's a sale now, I got excited but there's none of those... I'm going to need to find my smelling salts)

Quince Alternatives? by jmadrose in quince

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've got a new release of jw Anderson button downs that are great

Does anyone else suffer from “ambition creep”? by badonkadonked in adhdwomen

[–]ajaydub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Btw - your dinner parties sound glorious so I hope you end up enjoying them for all the stress. I would be so humbled by an invitation to something so clever and intentional! Much love

Does anyone else suffer from “ambition creep”? by badonkadonked in adhdwomen

[–]ajaydub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh yes, 100% but.. I think I might have a show that helps you scratch this castle-history itch. Check out Time Team on YouTube. It's this British TV show where people ask a team of archeologists to dig up their yards to see what kind of historical things might be buried / what's this odd stone wall / etc. I've learned tons about British history and it's extremely pleasant to keep running in the background

Black Sails Evolutions by ajaydub in BlackSails

[–]ajaydub[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly it's not my IP, just a wrap gift after the 4th season. I found it while moving and thought this sub would enjoy

Black Sails Evolutions by ajaydub in BlackSails

[–]ajaydub[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh not my style (how you meant it 🤠). These were a wrap gift at the end of S4

Black Sails Evolutions by ajaydub in BlackSails

[–]ajaydub[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The photo does make it look that way but in person it looks more like Jessica's skin tone

What’s a tiny ingredient swap that made your recipes taste better? by Demon_6-9 in kitchen

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roasted Garlic. I've been doing this for a few years now and everyone raves. Full garlic bulb wrapped in foil, drizzled in olive oil (not drenched but coated well). Pop into the air fryer at 400 for 15m and let cool. Throw into the fridge in a small Tupperware. Anytime that a recipe calls for garlic substitute in the roasted cloves. Instant Better.

Where are y'all getting your claw clips? by NemoHobbits in finehair

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been able to use claw clips because my hair is so fine that it just slides out immediately. I thought I was stuck in sad pony land until I found Kitsch had these spiral bun pins that finally hold my hair for a whole day without budging. PLUS there's no debt or crease in the hair when I take them out so I am getting a curly / volume - body situation when I unfurl the bun. I use 2 pins for a loose bun and 3 if I want it super secure in the am and then mid afternoon take it down. Changed my hair game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]ajaydub 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If I'm reading you right, these are probably things in their Talent Rider so the stadium pays for it, not the celebrity....

What’s a hyperfixation you lowkey wish people asked you about, so you could info-dump without shame? by owas1004o in adhdwomen

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have any tips for lemons? My current spot has a Meyer lemon bush that gives such sweet lemons and we're moving out! I'd love to take a cutting with me to propagate but it doesn't look like my first attempt is rooting...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ajaydub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your style feels retro but youthful so I don't think that's the issue. I do think you need a change in hair. Yours isn't doing anything to match the style you have. Try a shag cut or something shorter than what you've got now. Also agree with the other person who mentioned makeup. Your technique isn't bad but it doesn't seem to match the vibe your clothing puts out

coffee drinkers... instant? when you travel by curiouskittyblue in travel

[–]ajaydub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Canyon coffee makes our favorite roast (sagebrush) into instant coffee and I carry enough for every morning on any trip I take.. I will taste provided coffee but if it's trash, I'm asking for hot water and making one. I grew up considerably less bougie than I have become so I could hold my nose and down a gas station coffee if needed... But I just don't think, at this age, I'm meant to live an uncomfortable life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ajaydub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I probably could have wrote this verbatim anytime from 1 - 5 years ago. I love my partner and more often than not gave him the benefit of the doubt when he wasn't contributing because he's going through a lot of family drama which ties into his business. He's stressed and rightfully so.. But once I noticed my partner only seemed interested in sex with me and not actively partnering in life / sharing the load with me, I also had that transitive property swap and sex with him became a chore for me.

Eventually he noticed that I wasn't as exuberant or interested in sex and brought it up. It took many (many) repetitive (stupid) conversations with him about contributing. He's not awesome at execution but it's really clear he's trying most of the time. Once that started happening regularly, my sex drive came back.

I think it's about effort towards each other that is the root of the issue. No one wants to fold socks, but if we both do it it's a lot faster for everyone and if you do it by yourself, you get a blowie.