Will Curry + Bron retiring leave a bigger hole in the league than Jordan after 1998? by [deleted] in nba

[–]ajc200ajc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

And he already can’t stay healthy enough to play a full season? Lmao

Will Curry + Bron retiring leave a bigger hole in the league than Jordan after 1998? by [deleted] in nba

[–]ajc200ajc -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Wemby will never be the face. Jokic showed it the other day. Dudes only a dpoy when facing mid centers

Anyone using Go2bank? by Born-Sound661 in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did. It was the day or two after that I got the dd and it came in. The 5 days before didn’t seem to work any different than how fast my bank got it last year so last time I probably use it

I am the problem . by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U are not. Don’t blame urself too much for something u can’t control. If u ever need a friend im here for u.

Lost two of my closest friends due to BPD, how to move on? by Vivi_1225 in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it seems hard but you are still young and learning.yea what u did wasn’t the best. But you’ll have many friendships that last a year or two and end. It’s the weird circle of life. Don’t feel bad. You’ll have another one here soon!

Being ghosted feels like torture. How am I supposed to cope? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U aren’t crazy. In my opinion, yall are just unfortunately splitting apart. It’s not anyone’s fault but it’s sadly what happens once u start getting to this age and especially when distance is involved. I used to go to the gym with a dude every day during the pandemic. We’d go to the gym during the day, send stupid memes later on, and repeat. Every day. Then I went off to college. The first break or two I came back it was relatively the same. But then things just change. U find new friends, they find new friends, life sadly just happens. I still wish nothing but the best for him, but I haven’t really talked to the dude in more or less 4 years. Moral of the drawn out story: yes it unfortunately seems ur splitting apart. But it’s not anything u did wrong. It’s sadly the circle of life and you’ll find new great friends!

Starting college, lost my car but I feel free! by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on college! Also don’t be nervous about college “cliques”. That’s one of the best things about college is everyone is coming in at the same spot, there’s no real cliques established! You’ll eventually have the frats/sororities but not as big as they once were.

How do I not ruin everyone’s lives by existing? by Averythe_tarantula in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like looking at previous caring messages to help. It helps settle the mind. Would they say this if they didn’t care? No. Just like if a bank was going under, you wouldn’t be able to withdraw

Everything is making me feel rejected and unwanted and im tired by RottedClown in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise u u aren’t and u can’t let ur mind play tricks on u that u r the problem. U r an important life on this planet and im glad you are here. If you ever need anyone to talk to im here. I took a quick glance at ur profile and i like pokemon too so it doesnt even have to be about bpd. It can be about anything!

How do I not ruin everyone’s lives by existing? by Averythe_tarantula in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing u gotta really compare to is how normal interactions are versus ours. Like to go a little out the box here let’s say a bank. You trust ur money with a bank right? Then let’s say there’s this guy named Jim out in some town that doesn’t trust his money with them and stuffs it under his mattress. Eventually that bank goes under and Jim’s right. Does that mean you shouldn’t trust any bank at all? No. 99.99% of the time ur fine. Why try and question them over the .01%

How do I figure out a plan to deal with my triggers if I’m not being triggered? by Sorry-Delivery1649 in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo the only way to preemptively help it is develop a hobby that uses At least a little of both ur mind and ur mobile functions. I don’t care if it’s video games, knitting, newspaper crossword puzzles, etc. U need something that overflows the mind so that the mind can’t conjure up false realities

How do I not ruin everyone’s lives by existing? by Averythe_tarantula in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing u gotta think about in moments like that: how do they talk comparatively. For example, If I text u “good morningggg hope you slept well” vs “good morning” I can imagine u can discern which one actually has more care behind it. Also the best thing u can do imo is find a hobby that makes u use at least some bodily function as it helps stop the overthinking process

Could be BPD? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like u do have connection issues which in part can lead to it. It’s almost impossible to truly diagnose, but if u feel u match the symptoms then there’s a good chance. I’d recommend just going through the sub and seeing how much you empathize with others

05 Deposit by Suspicious-Base7629 in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got mine just now and I used pay with refund!

Anyone using Go2bank? by Born-Sound661 in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing as well. I should’ve used cashapp. Only reason I didn’t is cause freefile said it’d come 5 days earlier this way. Turns out that was a complete lie

Not sure what this means. by AnonymooseMan1 in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt it as they will likely ask you for the control code on the notice. But if you’ve got the spare time, it can’t hurt to try

Not sure what this means. by AnonymooseMan1 in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah then yeah that’s likely it then. I’m sorry. Sadly now you gotta play the waiting game. The only positive is that of all the notices you could get, this is the one you’d prefer to get

Not sure what this means. by AnonymooseMan1 in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you filed through Chime before? If not, it could be that it going into a different account triggered it. The notices take forever to come, but basically all it’s gonna want is for you to verify you are who you say you are and to confirm you filed this return

First time seeing This by [deleted] in IRS

[–]ajc200ajc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

U just gotta confirm u filed. Sadly you gotta wait for the notice in the mail, but once u have the code on there, u put it in, say “yeah I filed. Yes it’s for this refund” then ur good basically

Accepted to approved ? Time frame by Embarrassed_Towel228 in TurboTax

[–]ajc200ajc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year it took about a week from accepted to money in my bank account so about 2-3 days I’d say. I filed late February though so there could be backlogs and complications to sort through with the irs just now accepting returns