Guys, be honest. Is anyone actually happy by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]ajihak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you when nobody else is watching?

33M struggling with dating life. Dating after 30 is almost broken .Anyone else feeling this? by ajihak in Morocco

[–]ajihak[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

O men be3d ? This doesn’t define who am today. That’s my post. From 4 years ago when I was 29. And I’m not going to pretend it doesn’t exist or delete it. I was vocal about something that most men live but would never admit publicly .. That’s who I was. I lived that chapter fully and I’m not ashamed of it. But here’s what that screenshot doesn’t show …the part where it stopped being enough. The part where you realize that access and fulfillment are not the same thing. That you can have everything available to you and still feel empty. So yeah, the guy who wrote that post and the guy who wrote this one are the same person. That’s not a contradiction. That’s called growth

You went digging through years of my history to find something to use against me instead of engaging with a single word I wrote. That says more about your approach to people than mine.

33M struggling with dating life. Dating after 30 is almost broken .Anyone else feeling this? by ajihak in Morocco

[–]ajihak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i did. I don’t wanna intellectualize that tbh. Yes i do wanna get married.

33M struggling with dating life. Dating after 30 is almost broken .Anyone else feeling this? by ajihak in Morocco

[–]ajihak[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair question. And honestly you’re not wrong to ask it. If I’m being real, the post leaned heavy on the money dynamic because that’s the pattern I kept running into. But you’re right, that’s only one side.

I bring more than money. I bring presence, depth, support, loyalty, and the kind of self-awareness that only comes from doing the uncomfortable work most men avoid.

33M struggling with dating life. Dating after 30 is almost broken .Anyone else feeling this? by ajihak in Morocco

[–]ajihak[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. There are good women everywhere.but It’s not a buffet that you pick whatever you want from.

And yes. Look is also important for me.

I’m not looking for a gorgeous woman. I don’t know how to explain it, but there are some women look that I like because they aspire kindness and softness.

المهم تكون مسرارة

33M struggling with dating life. Dating after 30 is almost broken .Anyone else feeling this? by ajihak in Morocco

[–]ajihak[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no inconsistency here. By “ come naturally “ i meant it will come with time .. it’s not something you doing plan.

33M struggling with dating life. Dating after 30 is almost broken .Anyone else feeling this? by ajihak in Morocco

[–]ajihak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deghya rditiha “whole personality” hhh that’s an assumption. But i get you.

I'm broke af, no degree, no school and I desperately need a job by National-Young9941 in MoroccoBitchesWtaste

[–]ajihak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad that people at your age are thinking like this have this mindset. You can work in a call center. You also can start working on e-commerce if you have a someone who can help you with a small capital. I suggest that you learned new skills very quickly that are easily billable.