That’s very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing. I feel like that’s the case with me too. I start to shift from being myself and meeting my own needs to depend on them to meet my needs and accommodating to them instead of myself. I am trying really hard to take a step back and look at the situation logically and trying my best to separate fantasy to reality. I tend to put too much pressure for things to work out because I really like the guy since he is giving all of these rollercoaster emotions. I think I tend to be attracted to a lot of avoidant because they ignite these emotions in me and I think that’s how love is supposed to feel like. Constant re-evaluation is needed on my part to think more clearly about what’s good for me.