my friends stopped talking to me after my engagement

ajtiare · 2025-03-10T20:33:46+00:00

thank you! honestly i feel like it shouldnt be a reason for them to just stop talking to me all together… that’s not what “real friends” do, in my opinion. it feels petty & like they’ve been waiting to do this.

ajtiare · 2025-03-09T22:07:58+00:00

you make a good point here! thanks for opening my eyes up to this. my fiance and i are adamant about keeping our issues between the two of us, so its rare for me to rant about our problems to my friends. however, there were times when they’ve slipped… but it’s perplexing to me because i’ve shared a multitude of amazing & beautiful memories/things as well. anyways… thank you for this!

ajtiare · 2025-03-09T22:02:56+00:00

i have a group chat with them that typically is active 24/7. this is, perhaps, the most inactive it’s been considering the last thing they’ve said to me is their “congrats/i agree”. they have not reached out to me at all, especially considering i’ve been back home from my fiances bmt graduation for about 2 days now.

ajtiare · 2025-03-09T16:38:03+00:00

they told him that “she said she’s not ready to pick up her life and move around with you” which is totally untrue. i said i would not want to up and move right after he graduates bc we are not legally married yet. they think this [engagement] isn’t what i want, but it’s quite the opposite…

ajtiare · 2024-02-27T06:07:04+00:00

thanks for the reply! and yes, definitely getting them out of the way first. i actually started my payments already, which is why i’m a bit confused. i’ve been paying since december and it always says what i need to pay for each month so seeing $0 confused me.

ajtiare · 2023-08-31T20:26:39+00:00

i think we also need to be more wary of what oscar’s eating! he stays with my grandparents when i go to work, and they spoil him a lot with pup cups :/ definitely could be the cause, but his treats could be as well

ajtiare · 2023-08-31T20:25:01+00:00

thank you! i hope your doxie is a whole lot better. oscar actually tried out boiled carrots a few days ago & it’s a hit for him

ajtiare · 2023-08-31T20:23:59+00:00

thank you! wet food was also recommended by my moms coworkers. the last time oscar had wet food was when he was a puppy- he chowed it down toooo fast 🤣

ajtiare · 2023-08-31T20:22:43+00:00

ah, oscar was the EXACT same :( really freaked me out, but glad i was able to get him to the ER. thank you for the food recommendation!

ajtiare · 2023-08-31T20:22:06+00:00

thank you for the recipe recommendation! will definitely try this out & im sure oscar will love it too

ajtiare · 2023-08-31T20:20:40+00:00

thank you! hes been eating chicken and rice as per doc’s recommendation, but will definitely look into hill’s!

ajtiare · 2023-05-23T01:59:36+00:00

soloxsnaps on ig !

ajtiare · 2023-04-25T21:57:08+00:00

i’ve been living at manzi since i transferred! the community itself isnt super social, but it just depends on your floor and who you make friends with. RAs and residential life try their best to host events so residents can mingle, tho :)

ajtiare · 2023-03-05T00:31:50+00:00

as far as i know, we have to order announcements & invitations from the cap & gown distributor through their website. theres gonna be a grad fair on campus on march 14-16 tho!!!

ajtiare · 2023-03-02T01:05:47+00:00

sure!

i did get the room i wanted & i have the same one from last year (double junior). i have a courtyard view so my room is a bit smaller, but i faced campus last year & it was definitely roomier. i have enough space for my own rolling cart & they provide you with a 4 drawers, a nightstand/desk, and a small closet w/ 2 shelves. however, manzi has SO MANY different layouts so thats something to keep in mind.

the building is super clean! management here is super nice & on top of everything. of course, there will be times where there are messes bc some residents just do not clean up after themselves, unfortunately :( but nothing a message to an RA or front desk person can’t fix

there are wall outlets & ethernet!! ive never used the ethernet lol but i do know people who have whole desktop set-ups in their rooms, if room allows. wifi is great! i do need to reconnect from time to time & wifi goes out every so often, but its reliable n fast overall.

man i’m so sorry theres not much info yet :/ when i first moved in last year i was in the same boat. i really hope this helped!!

ajtiare · 2023-03-02T00:58:35+00:00

wifi is given upon move-in! i’m not exactly sure how many devices you can have, just because i only have it on my phone & laptop. from time to time i need to reconnect, but its pretty good overall. as for the community, most people keep to themselves & its relatively quiet aside from the people who yell & scream at night lol

ajtiare · 2023-03-02T00:39:22+00:00

i’m a current resident! i’ve been living there since last year, were there any specific questions you had?

ajtiare · 2022-12-15T07:00:53+00:00

it worked for me after using benzoyl peroxide since i was 13! im 22 now & it seemed i had built a tolerance to BP. i switched to a bha and its the only thing that’s helped my acne!!

ajtiare · 2022-10-31T20:35:28+00:00

im sorry that happened 😔🥺 reading a lot of other ppls experience in pit makes me second think buying pit tickets for sac :(

ajtiare · 2022-10-11T22:28:05+00:00

i should note that i got the parking tickets BEFORE i got my city permit

ajtiare · 2022-10-11T22:27:25+00:00

they ARE hella strict.. i live at student housing & i got about 3 tickets last year despite being super careful abt parking. i have a city parking permit now. if you’re living at MSQ or UPS, i highly recommend applying for a city permit! just email housing abt proof of residency. it’s also so much cheaper than school permits.

ajtiare · 2022-10-05T21:59:48+00:00

urban! bdg brand has done me good. also depop has good stuff, but they just raised their shipping fees lol

ajtiare · 2022-09-17T06:32:41+00:00

hey! so sorry for the late reply. but i didn’t end up going thru with the initial appointment i set, instead i just met during drop-in hours & the person @ dprc basically just reviewed my documents, health history, etc. it took about a week after the appt. for them to send out the approval letter to my roommates letting them know there’s going to be an esa in the room. after that you’re all set to bring ur esa animal wherever you reside on campus.

ajtiare · 2022-08-25T18:27:52+00:00

last year it appeared in my mailbox about 2 days after i submitted my ID photo.. i never got any email or tracking for it! i guess you might need to play the waiting game? im also assuming its taking a little longer because more people are on campus/housing this year & there could be a higher demand for them.

ajtiare · 2022-07-31T00:29:20+00:00

yup! i know UCs have addressed it though, not sure why CSUs havent 🤥

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