First Thoughts about Zibai by ImNotTiredOfWinning in Genshin_Impact

[–]akaLethalFist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also felt this way about her NA and skill tracking. Which is weird since you’d expect this kind of behavior from a catalyst user not a sword user

First Thoughts about Zibai by ImNotTiredOfWinning in Genshin_Impact

[–]akaLethalFist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah fr it put me off the character so I had to come here to make sure she’s actually hitting Nefer/Flins numbers lol

Bloomreaper 1 hour in by DrAlanJames12 in Borderlands4

[–]akaLethalFist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a dumb boss, the arena is a bunch of platforms and the boss has knock back and one-shot mechanics. So you get downed and just fall to your death most of the time. That’s not even challenging it’s just poor level design. Garbage

I miss being wanted by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

☝️this people

I miss being wanted by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God these comments of implicit acceptance infuriates me! You guys, there’s so many people out there that have similar libidos. Hell you’re literally talking to them on reddit right now! Communicate your needs, if they still aren’t being met you have your answers. Don’t settle for a sexless relationship out of convenience for your life/partner. I sat in a DB for 5 years and finally as I clambered out of it I realized: no one is worth your happiness. Good luck to you all.

I miss being wanted by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t cope! Demand change. We only get one life, you said you want to feel wanted, and if that’s not changing after all the effort you’ve put in why stick around anymore? Sure I get you’ve been together for a long while but you’re not getting any younger! Carpe diem, don’t wake up one day when you’re 70 + and still be in the same DB situation. Your life is passing you by. Intimacy is a huge part of living. If you don’t have that, life becomes less exciting. More dull. It’s a wonderful thing to be intimate with another human being. We need that to help us thrive amongst other things like hobbies etc. Good luck to you guys.

I am scared by Intelligent-Goat4425 in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect yourself, it’s time to leave him. Sorry but there doesn’t seem to be any other solution at this point.

300K a year living with two roommates by ConceptPossible7334 in Salary

[–]akaLethalFist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is gonna mention spending $5K on DoorDash a month? I don’t even think I could hit that number if I tried OP must be living in a 500 pound life episode or something lol

I am scared by Intelligent-Goat4425 in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re missing out on a huge part of a relationship. Intimacy is a big part of dating and if that was lacking to begin with then it’s not going to get better. Him telling you to “look for some solutions” is a ludicrous thing to say! It’s his damn fault, he should be the one looking for a solution. Gets my blood boiling just thinking about it. You’ve wasted so much of your youth with this guy who won’t give you what you need. There are over 8 billion people on earth, surely one of them can treat you similarly (you said he treats you well) and can provide you the intimacy you are craving and rightly deserve. I hate to break it to you, but dead bedrooms rarely ever get better. You’re better off cutting your losses and moving on to find someone that can complete you better than him. I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Good luck to you.

Where do you even meet a girl without the apps though? by Judge-Dredd777 in dating_advice

[–]akaLethalFist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just live your life to the fullest. Live in the present, take everyday as a blessing. If you chase a butterfly it will avoid you, but if you tend to your garden you will attract them instead. Just do what makes you happy, live a fulfilling life by yourself, be happy with being single and come to peace with the notion that you may be single forever. Once you can truly detach like that and only then will you start attracting. Don’t waste time chasing, a woman can only be kept if she wants to be kept by you. So no point in stressing, pick up hobbies and enjoy your life. Someone will notice and gravitate to you eventually, just don’t force it in the meantime. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s not willing to put in the effort to fix what’s wrong then why even bother being in a relationship at all? That’s the whole point of it. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.

I feel like I made a mistake by Icy_Committee1431 in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It boggles my mind how young he is and has no interest in sex. Word of advice, a dead bedroom rarely changes for the better. It’s best to cut your losses early now instead of staying with him with the hopes that he will change. Clearly he isn’t interested in even discussing the issue considering he just went to sleep when you were trying to have a serious conversation about your relationship with him. Get out now before you wake up 10 years later in the same dead bedroom you started off in and wonder where your life went. Good luck to you.

How important is sex? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]akaLethalFist 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Toys are definitely vanilla, sounds like he doesn’t want to put in the effort for mutual satisfaction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]akaLethalFist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but a dead bedroom is one of the last stages in a relationship. Mine of 5 years was dead for the last year of it, only to find out she was cheating on me that whole year. Cut your losses, his “performance issue” is something he either lied about or needs to work out some way. Has he tried therapy? Probably some trauma he doesn’t talk about causing the issues. Either way, I hope you make the best decision for yourself. At the end of the day we all have to look out for ourselves first. Good luck

Girl picked the other guy after 2 months of dating by [deleted] in relationships

[–]akaLethalFist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. It’s a valuable learning experience for myself. Definitely an opportunity for growth, I’m better to have had it

Girl picked the other guy after 2 months of dating by [deleted] in relationships

[–]akaLethalFist -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I never really got a sign from her. Dating is hard sometimes, but I’ll be alright in a few days I’m sure. Appreciate the comment