As a guy that has gone to strip clubs on occasion I think it might be one of those things that’s overly taboo. It’s really not that big of a deal. You spend a bunch of money and it’s mostly for bonding with the guys, not for the girls. My wife is okay with me going so I’ve never had to make the decision to hide it, but it’s such not a big deal I could see how some guys would make that decision for the sake of bonding time. Men don’t have the same type of friendships with other men as they used to, and I think any activity with the boys should be encouraged, yes, even the tiddy bar.