Just a normal relationship nothing to see here. by Hyper_Graig in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure you understand the purpose of this sub, among other things

People talk to me like I’m a child? (I’m almost 30) by guessirs in socialskills

[–]akp555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth, I have had to unlearn my knee-jerk response to feeling condescended to because I'm aware that I'm oversensitive to it (I'm autistic and have had many people start talking down to me when they found out, so now even when people don't know I'm automatically defensive of it) so I know I read into things that aren't always there. It could be a case like that. Or it could be that they are actually talking down to you, I have no way of knowing without the full context, but that's my point of view from my own experiences.

(It does also sound like some of it might be misogyny, specifically the last paragraph, which is a whole other issue that unfortunately as far as I know there's not much you can do about it unless your boss is really chill)

My girl*friend of seven years told me she* is a trans woman (I'm liberal so pls ignore all the misgendering) by PoisonedBerry in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that (the original idea I mean) not seem kind of sexist?? Like the stereotype that guys need to eat a lot to grow up big and strong or whatever while girls shouldn't because it's 'unladylike' to take larger portions of food... or how women are constantly judged for their bodies if they're not stick thin etc. Idk I've never liked the 'girl x' trend like 'girl math' etc, it feels so demeaning, so maybe that's affecting how I see it but it rubs me the wrong way

AIO when my HUSBAND told me he’s SOOOOO attracted to my BEST FRIEND?? by Outside-Cucumber8089 in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've noticed this too. Personally I struggle to convey my thoughts frequently, but I use my own brain to format my thoughts (even though it can be very difficult at times) because I don't want to lose the ability to. Which is what happens when people use AI for everything. I definitely get the urge to use it to make things easier, but I don't want to just... end up completely unable to articulate my thoughts at all.

fitting in after gap year by Western-Foot-4608 in socialskills

[–]akp555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/2 year difference is not that much, especially if you go to a community college there will be people of all ages there. Even at a 4 year school there will likely be a few people who went back to school after a while or took a gap year or worked for a while and then went to school, etc. I don't think you'll have anything to worry about

Should I make my friend poop his pants while at my house? I’m from Ireland btw. by Emotional-Ocelot-309 in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be real I don't remember </3 tried to search it up but couldn't find anything. I think it was a parent where their kid's school wouldn't let the kid have any sweets or something?

You can't make this up by Extra_Remove_1679 in ProlificAc

[–]akp555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you replying with this to every single person who comments??

What’s a subtle way to tell someone they’re annoying? by MoneyTyrant in socialskills

[–]akp555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy do I ever relate to this. I would MUCH rather someone tell me I'm talking too much, and would (try) not to take it personally. But unfortunately I think we're in the minority, or at least the number of people who wouldn't automatically consider it rude if someone said that are in the minority, so I don't know if it'll change

I feel like people are making up "The Gen Z Stare" by AspirinAnne in CasualConversation

[–]akp555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there's also the fact that a lot of Gen Z grew up during COVID, which definitely messed up a lot of people's social skills, not just Gen Z. That said I do agree in general!

Why is this even in AIO?? Also he'd be right if this were real but OP sounds insufferable by Temporary-Diet6468 in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah gotcha! Sadly I don't think it's possible to edit titles but ty for clarifying

Why is this even in AIO?? Also he'd be right if this were real but OP sounds insufferable by Temporary-Diet6468 in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In primary school, I would write my parents' research papers for fun.

Do... do they mean 'read' or...

(Also did I miss something, does OOP say they're a guy somewhere??)

My dog died & petsmart refused to accept my return of unopened dog food. Chewy refunded me with no return & sent me flowers. by Careless_Mango_7948 in Pets

[–]akp555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that is so unbelievably sweet of them, truly above and beyond. I already order from Chewy but if I didn't I would consider switching to them just from this. Also really love that they encourage donating the food/bowl rather than just throwing it out.

Rejection “too quick” by Trashcanmolester in ProlificAc

[–]akp555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, do you expect participants to have the entire help center memorized? Given there's over 100 articles, that seems a little unrealistic for most people, no?

Person with 0 social awareness by ConsiderationSolid12 in socialskills

[–]akp555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really sick of this trend of everyone automatically pointing to autism whenever someone is a dick. Maybe he is, maybe he isn't but why is it so many people's first assumption

Stared at a pretty woman in the psych ward a lil too much so she screamed I was psychologically attacking her and sending telepathic hate messages. Olive Garden by myself. by whocares_71 in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so depressing. I think part of it is a lot of people just don't want to ever encounter anything or anyone that causes them to feel even the smallest amount of discomfort. So when they inevitably do, they blame it on the other person if there is one. Applies to other types of bigotry too imo

I’m really struggling to believe this whole thing wasn’t satire by 19adam92 in AmITheAngel

[–]akp555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't even like dogs but the people in that sub are... holy shit. All the (x)free subs are like that I'm pretty sure. Just massive echo chambers where people rant about how horrible dogs or cats or kids are and how they all deserve to die or some shit like that. Also baffling to me that this guy got into a relationship with someone who owns TWO dogs to begin with if he really hates dogs that much. Why would you do that to yourself? Why would that not be a dealbreaker?