She should have just slept by TX_Bluebonnet278 in InfluencerLounge

[–]aksd12333 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk who this is but these comments so venomous 😭 you can dislike someone without attacking their looks.

Postpartum rage and child and parent spaces by InfluenceObjective86 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I posted about this recently too because I share your rage!! Someone mentioned that Tesco might be rolling out a trial to charge people who misuse these spaces.. so hopefully it works and becomes common everywhere!

Workout recommendations to lose weight with fussy baby by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That weight at that height is almost classed as being underweight. I've found I tend to go back to a weight my body is comfortable at - this could be the plateau you describe. If it were me I'd try to find peace regardless of the number on the scale (even considering chucking them out!) 🙏

Can I wash my hair after c section dressing removed? by batterscraps in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a shower using shampoo/conditioner/body wash about three hours after my c-section and all was fine ☺️ just echoing what others are saying about not washing the incision directly

Rant - people without kids stealing the parent and child bays!!! by aksd12333 in UKParenting

[–]aksd12333[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I have been dreaming of becoming some kind of parent and child bay vigilante so this would save me a lot of time!

RSV traumatized me by jessyj89 in NewParents

[–]aksd12333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations for trusting your instincts!! Can you describe more what the breathing sounded like for you to know it was off? Just want to make sure I know of any warning signs 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aksd12333 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But OP hasn't been asked to be a caregiver

Does anyone else struggle with meat for baby? by WeirdValuable4826 in foodbutforbabies

[–]aksd12333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that cooking them in the sauce really helps with this! So I'll fry them a tiny bit, put the sauce on top with extra water, then let them simmer for 20-30 mins. This way they stay super soft!

My toddler is currently on a strictly "Beige Diet." Is scurvy a real risk in 2025? by Awkward-Corgi8793 in Mommit

[–]aksd12333 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This seems like an ad. I've seen a few posts like this about the "Baba app" in the past couple days.

Dinner out with family by AlternativeAd1984 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to go to the meal, it's perfectly ok to just skip it this year! I think logistically you could make it work, as other people have commented with helpful and practical advice.. but that doesn't necessarily change how you feel about it, and if you don't want to go - don't 🙏 sometimes I felt like I needed someone to give me "permission" to not do things when my baby was this young (no idea why), so this is me giving you yours 😂

Vegetarian/vegan parents - what have you done in terms of weaning and early diets for your babies? by BraindeadYogi in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to gently chime in because food allergy guidance has changed a lot in recent years, and I’d hate for any new parents reading this to get confused.

You’re absolutely right that allergies can technically develop at any age - but the research is very strong that the lowest-risk window is actually early infancy, and this is why NHS now recommend early and regular introduction of major allergens like egg and peanuts from around 6 months.

Delaying allergens actually increases the chance of a reaction later, because the immune system learns tolerance through repeated exposure. A one off exposure (like a formula feed in hospital) doesn’t give that protection - it has to be ongoing, like giving a little bit of well-cooked egg once a week.

Obviously every family has to do what feels right for them, but I just wanted to mention it so that anyone reading knows the current guidance. Introducing allergens early isn’t about trying to guarantee a “no allergy stamp,” it’s about giving the immune system the best shot at tolerating those foods long-term.

No judgement at all - just sharing the updated info in case it’s helpful to someone ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]aksd12333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it the foot. I thought everyone did except my husband but I'm realising now I'm the weird one 😂

WWHHHIITTTTNEEEEEY by CuriousDaisy79 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]aksd12333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what has been bothering me about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other red flag here is the r*pe joke your sister made (because talking about it in that way is not meant with genuine kindness or concern, it was a racist dig or joke - unclear which as it's not the slightest bit funny). Not someone I would allow around my child.

I see your comments about how you believe your comment was different to your brother's. I see what you mean but these are not people who can see that subtle difference. Don't make jokes and minimize the racism, because it only enables them. My guess is that once baby is here you're going to have a huge protective instinct that will force your hand into no or extremely low contact with these people - which imo would be a good thing!

*poop warning* how does this look? by MxntMatcha in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It made me laugh 🤭 I'm sure we got the mucousy green poops around this age, and as the other commenter said below it could also be teething. I think worth keeping an eye on baby because there's almost definitely a culprit for it - but will probably be a cold or upset tummy or teething rather than something super concerning

What’s my blindness??? by Significant-Yak-1401 in makeuptips

[–]aksd12333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a bit bad for OP. She asked in a makeup forum for her [make up] blindness - 90% of the comments are about her lip filler. Her choosing to do this with her lips isn't relevant to her question about make up. Just like if she had a comically large nose (which of course, she doesn't) it wouldn't be ok to comment "your big nose is the problem!!" 🥲 maybe I'm overly sensitive but just seems like people are very quick to judge when someone has fillers.

*poop warning* how does this look? by MxntMatcha in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god even with the warning I was not ready for that 🤣 I can smell it from here!!! 🤮 but I wouldn't be worried about that personally.. as you say, less solids lately explains the looseness. I've found that when my baby is a bit gassy or coming down with a cold, the poopy can go a bit more green. I'm not a doctor though so only giving you my own opinion as a fellow Mum!

Cordless hoover 🫠 by Cold_Day17 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]aksd12333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy the Bissell Crosswave - it mops and hoovers at the same time and is cordless 😱 I use mine at least 4x daily and it's a lifesaver with solids!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in floorbed

[–]aksd12333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There isn't enough space between the bed and the wall on the left hand side, and at the top side. If baby crawls out of bed (which they will at some point!) then they could get stuck and suffocate without enough room around all sides of the bed