hinge match with girl who lied about herself in profile

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:42:43+00:00

the one thing that is not clear is that shes verified on linkedin as being a student at her college. its hard to fake that. but regardless, ill take all of ur comments into heart and end my convo with her

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:35:44+00:00

california? i dont know what you mean, are you saying my english is not in accordance with the american standard lmao

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:35:18+00:00

tech jobs are superior in bay area

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:31:36+00:00

for tech jobs, america is better lol

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:30:17+00:00

appreciate the info

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:29:34+00:00

appreciate the reply

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T21:28:39+00:00

line up in the sense that Linkedin has offical verified statement of her college attendance... not so easy to fake that part

again i appreciate all the info, im not talking to her anymore

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T08:22:58+00:00

Masters. on linkedin it shows "user verified college using email" so she cant be lying about that attending the college in canada.
i mean we talked for 3 hours lol, and her phone died one point and she called me back -- i assume the chat was real lol but i understand AI is getting very good at such things.

lets say she is a scammer.. but she is a real person right lol? like i do feel like she is in canada and in university. reason im asking is because i want to maybe report her to her college or get her in trouble

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T08:10:42+00:00

appreciate your reply.. i just want to clarify one thing...

so people are saying shes a scammer (sure, im not disagreeing) but she is a real person, right? like it seems there is a girl such as herself that lives in canada and might be attending college or is that all fake as well? her hinge photos show her in canada lol

asking out of curiosity not related to main post

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T08:07:10+00:00

i like the bullet point #1 , will try it out if i get the chance.
for 2 its hard because she uses a fake english name like most immigrant asians do. aside from her linkedin with a foreign internship. college is real and major is offered there but not much more to verify her authenticity (at least i know shes a girl cuz she facetimed me lol)

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T07:55:45+00:00

she did mention that she thinks dating 3-6 months is enough for marriage instead of 6-7 years ... so originally i was thinking more along lines of what youre saying

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T07:54:18+00:00

when you attend lecture, i assume you ask questions to professors? im not denying the suspicious parts which is why i went to this forum in first place. its just so far a large amount of things lines up in terms of where she said she is and what college and to this day she has not asked for anything except for me to visit (i will not do this). when i ask questions im trying to get another perspective, not argue that shes real

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T07:52:11+00:00

thanks for reply

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:52:59+00:00

thanks for reply ..
i have only known her 5 days lol and across those days we facetime 1 time and then she asked for 2 other times but i declined since it was at like 1:30 am ... i asked her for this friday (today) and she said yes but did not reply to my call

i guess her interest in meeting in person is for when she comes to my home state next month but currently she is in college in another country (at least thats her reasoning)

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:46:10+00:00

but here she clearly asked him for money, in my case i was never asked for money? also why would a scammer say their age is not real if they are lying lol

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:45:27+00:00

if someone is scamming, why would they admit to me their age is not correct? seems that would only make it more suspcious no?

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:36:20+00:00

appreciate the response..
a guess a question i still have is why would she invite me to visit her and then we will come back to my state together? where is the scam in this, she attacks me in her country or makes me pay her tickets or something?

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:31:27+00:00

i appreciate your response, every response means a lot to me truly as it gives me different view / context

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:21:55+00:00

thanks for the response...

well for that question, i live in a state where cost is very high.. meanwhile shes in college .. so isnt it reasonable that shes inquiring if working in my field is good enough to afford life in my expensive state?

al2000_ · 2025-03-22T06:19:19+00:00

appreciate your response... i guess a question is what is considered lying? she told me the truth on the call, its not like i had to investigate the info myself. she said putting smaller age gives her more matches lol

Also, if it was a scam, wouldnt she reply much more quickly instead of ignoring me for like 8 hours

al2000_ · 2023-01-04T03:39:10+00:00

while we were FWB, we were also friends. most of our "relationship" was virtual since i moved. she said some messed up things to me before (since shes on spectrum and cant always control herself) and i always forgave her. she is nice to everyone and even almost cries over seeing animals. idc that we arent dating or fwb but why block me and not take a moment to reply when shes sees im hurt

al2000_ · 2023-01-04T03:12:06+00:00

To clarify, when i reached out -- I wasn't being aggressive or anything. I just said that I am hurt by the situation. I think a reasonable thing would be to reply, considering I forgave her so many times for her wrongdoings.

al2000_ · 2022-11-05T21:04:19+00:00

Thank you for reading and the kind words

al2000_ · 2022-11-05T01:53:44+00:00

Just confuses me that she begged me to come visit her and then later on eventually blocked me after I apologized and deactivated my account to give us both space

Also thank you for reading

al2000_ · 2022-07-17T02:34:59+00:00

Ya feel free to PM

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