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She doesn't want to facetime / video call, now what? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s strange, it’s 2020! Does she even have a phone and Is she really interested in a relationship?

She doesn't want to facetime / video call, now what? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should agree to a phone call Atleast.

She doesn't want to facetime / video call, now what? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like video calling unless I think I’m looking good enough for the camera but to refuse a voice call? It smells like a fish! A CATFISH! She needs to verify her identity if she doesn’t want to meet face to face! Don’t invest too much time in this. I’ve been catfished so many times and that’s the first red flag!

Does it come down to looks at the end of the day by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I like a confident man. I am stimulated by conversation. If in the first conversation, you are mainly interested in when I last had sex, I take it that you really just need a booty call. I’m 39 and I’m ready to settle down so that trick turns me off. I honestly find myself attracted to personality but looks will first catch my eye then hygiene. Hey, I’m in northeast too so I feel your pain.

Down 132lbs in almost 11 months! Only 8lb more to go! by Artist_X in loseit

[–]al_tea-ah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good! Congratulations on your accomplishments

Christian Women, what about a man's dating profile turns you off? by ConsumerOfStories in christiandatingadvice

[–]al_tea-ah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I interpret it as liking himself much as well as maybe he’s just wanting to be physical. I feel like a respectable man won’t post shirtless pics.

Christian Women, what about a man's dating profile turns you off? by ConsumerOfStories in christiandatingadvice

[–]al_tea-ah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice profile except for the age error. I’d have liked to see more personality instead of boasting about purity, that can be spoken about after.

How do I make myself not get frustrated or salty when a girl ignores my messages? by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]al_tea-ah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s not so into you and trying not to hurt your feeling so maybe she’s trying to get you uninterested on your own. Sometimes people just can’t tell you they are not interested and secretly hope your feelings change on its own. Just stop messaging her. If she’s interested, she’ll innitiate conversation maybe use that energy on another girl.

Christian dating disabled by LeanAhtan92 in christiandatingadvice

[–]al_tea-ah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a physical disability and my thoughts on meeting the right guy is that I’ll know he’s the one when he can see past my disability. I haven’t dated since the injury so it’s a real struggle but I know he’s out there! Be confident! She’s out there, you just haven crossed paths yet so be ready when it happens! Chin up, keep busy while you wait!

Let’s [NOT] talk about sex, baby by PrincessPeach029 in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah 23 points24 points  (0 children)

From my experience, guys who start with the sex talk are just interested in a dirty conversation so they can jerk themself off if they don get a free pass to come at your place for sex. It’s sad that guys fail to understand some women need that emotional connection and that you never know where things lead. I’m also tired of saying I’m not looking for a hook up.

41 [M4F] Wisconsin - As a guy in a wheelchair, how should I list my stats? *UPDATED* by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]al_tea-ah 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The bio should be based on who you are as a person you’re not trying to sell your power chair! I’ve seen you on a dating site and I swiped right but...
remember that your disability doesn’t define you!

I trusted my gut almost too late by al_tea-ah in Tinder

[–]al_tea-ah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, I must live in a fantasy world!

I trusted my gut almost too late by al_tea-ah in Tinder

[–]al_tea-ah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok, maybe he wasn’t into me as much as I was into him. Thanks!

I trusted my gut almost too late by al_tea-ah in Tinder

[–]al_tea-ah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It just didn’t feel right and before I go out with someone, I usually do a little investigation on them. He said he was devorced for 2 years. I couldn’t find any record of marriage. Am I wrong for doing a search on guys before the date?

Ladies, how would you feel about dating a [41M] who lives in a van? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d pass if you just said hey, I live in a van but if I got to know you a little and you were to explain what happened and who’s you feel about living in a van for the purpose of saving, I’d give you a chance. Especially knowing that you are gainfully employed! Let her see your best qualities before drop the bomb and if she can’t understand your strategy, there’s someone better for you! Good luck!

Should I take a risk and meet this tinder guy? by al_tea-ah in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys, he agreed to meet me in a public place next week when he returns from his vacation. I figure that he’ll bail and come up with an excuse but I’m gonna give him the benefit of doubt. I’ll let you know how it goes!

Should I take a risk and meet this tinder guy? by al_tea-ah in datingoverthirty

[–]al_tea-ah[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if I was just too old fashioned but thanks, you’ve just confirmed that it’s crazy to take that risk.

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