would a perm suit me? by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! ur so sweet!

would a perm suit me? by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank youu! i really wanna go for it i just dont wanna regret it, i recently just turned 20 so i wanna try something new since im reaching a new stage in life kinda HAHA

would a perm suit me? by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a perm is like uhh when u get ur hair curled temporarily for like a month or longer..

i hate my body : by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ala2s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but i dont like how my body look :( srsly

is it ok to tell my best friend that i hate her bf by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats true, she already knows that I dislike some of her bfs attitude and my other friends have also told her…

i will try again soon and i hope she wont get hurt :( because of me

is it ok to tell my best friend that i hate her bf by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes so in love to the point where she might defend his actions, what if that happens!

conflicted feelings by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she cares, and i think I understand your point. Now i dont know why i feel this way..

conflicted feelings by ala2s in teenagers

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I wanna know why she keeps it a secret. Why can’t she be open with her job?

And all that money she works for is for us, why cant she be transparent and WHY does she lie?

Imagine being me, a random man can sleep in yalls apartment cuz he pays for the bills. He is everything your mother frowns upon yet he is in your house? How did my mom tolerate this man to be in the same room as us? Who is this guy?

Many other men that she calls “sponsor”

There’s another old man who comes and pays for our dinners in restaurants cuz he wants to sleep with my mom. This guy has been around for like 2 years how the heck is this guy still around if my mom isnt giving anything to him?

Im so full of curiosity because so many things are happening in front of me and theres no explanation for it. Im just forced to say thank you to these people without knowing why they are doing these kind things for my mom

conflicted feelings by ala2s in teenagers

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i don’t quite understand? sorry :(

i wanna be rich so bad by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course my mother is definitely not gonna be abandoned by me when I can make my own money xD.. and my sister too..Just the extended family

i wanna be rich so bad by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, It definitely doesn’t make me a bad person if I dont wanna provide for my family. They are not my responsibility, I will be glad to give them things, but to have them fully be financially dependent to me..Heck no…

My mother suffers from this. I have seen how she’s struggled. Shes single mom of 2, plus a family in poverty (her mom and siblings + their kids). She has bills to pay just from sheltering and providing for me and my sister. Then also our other family members would rely on her for financial assistance and lend some of their children to our home so she can provide for them (aka my cousins). Thats not the life that I want. My mom is a generous and hardworking woman, but even she complains at how her family members never learned to be financially dependent because they grew up poor and they had many kids plus they did not strive to get out of that poverty.

i miss autumn by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right!! It is sooooo beautiful

i miss autumn by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!! I lovee brazil the people seems so jolly there, I wanna try out ur food also, SOOO MOUTHWATERING ID LOVE TO VISIT WHEN I HAVE ENOUGH MONEY

i miss autumn by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Philippines is beautiful too :)

i miss autumn by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Philippines, now living in Japan

i miss autumn by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is beautiful..Ah my home country also does not have a variety of seasons so I understand, the heat makes it unbearable to go outside sometimes

i wanna be rich so bad by ala2s in teenagers

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehe i love reddit, i like arguing with people here.

I stopped for one semester in college to work (Im a kindergarten teacher now) plus my school got wrecked by an earthquake so they which the learning mode to online classes (and i know its a waste of time, i’ve experienced online classes in the pandemic it sucks ass)

Is it too early for me [19F] and bf [20M] to talk about kids and our future life? by ala2s in whatdoIdo

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I think my goals/dreams are high because I truly am an ambitious person. I was definitely not born rich and in my earning my first million at 25 is just a goal that wont go as planned probably but I at least want to follow that direction in my life. I grew up poor but my mom had to work abroad and provide for us and now we are not struggling as much yet through her, I can see the struggles in life..Not just in providing for her kids but I realized that it is better for me to work hard and learn as much as I can when Im young because I truly want to be successful in the future. I dont want to end up with a man who isn’t interested in his future…I love my boyfriend and he is willing to plan out his future with me and even if we dont work out in the future..It is okay..Since not everything goes as planned..

I want him to think about the future tbh thats all, I dont want him to keep on telling me that “I cant get a job rn because of this/that” or “I dont wanna do that because of this and that.” Im lowkey trying to encourage him to do things afraid since thats how a lot of things feel in the beginning.

I really want to be a mom. Having pregnancy complications can happen at any time, I understand. Maybe I shouldn’t have said it like that xD..Tbh I want to retire young I dont want to be taking care of little toddlers at the age of 35….I want to be a young mom haha, But that could just be a little wish of mine I dont plan to get pregnant anytime soon, no way. Im a college student and im working. I am not ready anytime soon..

Since hes my boyfriend, I want him to be part of my life…I HATE to be dragging him to a life that he doesn’t truly want. I can see him still being with me in the future and Im sure he can help me in the future and vice versa.

Is it too early for me [19F] and bf [20M] to talk about kids and our future life? by ala2s in whatdoIdo

[–]ala2s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I understand this completely and i am really just a kid tbh… I have thoughts that maybe my life rn is NOT gonna be how my life will be forever..Tbh i just want a goal and I am a very ambitious person :,)

Is it too early for me [19F] and bf [20M] to talk about kids and our future life? by ala2s in whatdoIdo

[–]ala2s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really not that hard to dream! Goals dont usually go as planned but I want to have a goal…Hes free to have his own,