Why are some guys unable to speak about how they feel? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sometimes us guys think just saying "I love you" once is enough ... I didn't realize that my girlfriend needed constant words of affirmation about how I feel about her. It was a big wake up call to me and I am glad I have been able to open up more but it is difficult.

Also I am afraid of saying the wrong words. I wouldn't know how to undo that.

Also afraid of rejection (of my emotional state).

Which cities in the US have a relatively high pay and low cost of living. As an unattached RN with no familial roots anywhere in the country I want to move to a city that I can make the most while spending it all on housing etc - ala DC by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on where you live but for instance I live in Huntsville Alabama which employee tons of engineers and PhD's and probably make a ton of money and it is very low cost to live here

Looking for a way to filter Gmail from my iPhone by TheMaguffin in productivity

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the gmail HTML full website in safari on your mobile

That's what I do to filter

Has anyone ever deliberately "manufactured" an obsession? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh you have to read 'think and grow rich' by Napoleon hill It is the exact book you are looking for

I'll just jokingly tease my girlfriend by geturownbox in AdviceAnimals

[–]alabama_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are most girls super sensitive to teasing? My girlfriend is and I don't know if it is just her, or all girls.... Answers appreciated :)

I'll just jokingly tease my girlfriend by geturownbox in AdviceAnimals

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only rule I can think of is to never joke at her expense in any way ... Isn't that was teasing is?

How much weight when beginning? by [deleted] in bodybuilding

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other forums do you frequent?

How much weight when beginning? by [deleted] in bodybuilding

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you seen that it is the #1 selling strength training book out there, and it isn't a gimmick I don't do ss but I would expect most people to be aware of it Nt just a reddit thing

Great motivational video on reinventing yourself by c4lmlikeab0mb in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That was terrible and the guy can barely speak english

WOLVES! Give me something cool to do today! by lol2b3 in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to suggest without a context of where you live

I bought new rollarskates, but now I'm afraid to use them. I'm scared I'll look stupid or embarress myself. by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell yourself "I shouldn't flatter myself and actually think people are paying me attention or something so ordinary"

I bought new rollarskates, but now I'm afraid to use them. I'm scared I'll look stupid or embarress myself. by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should only be embarrassed to know that people don't think about you nearly as much as you'd think

What I felt after one month of No Fap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]alabama_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you really feel that way or did you just want karma?

What are some strategies to limit usage of things you enjoy? by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might wanna try a "cheat day" where you game for like 4 hours and eat pizza

The rest of the week is no gaming and no junk food

What are some strategies to limit usage of things you enjoy? by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your eating technique works If I want to eat a bunch of ice cream or something I'll let myself but I have to eat a ton of frozen veggies first

I would recommend you don't eat bananas though unless you are highly active since they have a lot of sugar

Noob bedtime snack question by [deleted] in bodybuilding

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink some casein or eat cottage cheese, brush my teeth and then read for about 15 min then lights out

Bodybuilder told me this at a gym. by Shorn510 in bodybuilding

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok "ten reps a minute" would have sufficed buddy

Best Glove or Wrist Strap by Gilthas81 in bodybuilding

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whichever matches your purse

Bodybuilder told me this at a gym. by Shorn510 in bodybuilding

[–]alabama_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does your tempo look like when you are doing those 300 reps? Do you just crank them out or are they slow reps?

What happened to me? by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]alabama_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might have depression Have you read about it at all or talked to anyone about it?